Showing posts with label Attitude. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Attitude. Show all posts

I Didn’t Lose You, You Lost Me


Keep moving forward your surviving there will be another out there for you who loves as you do. Stop looking back and focus on your beautiful future you have lined up. No matter how dark things may seem, every cloud has a silver lining, things will get easier every step you take.

I didn't lose you, you lost me. You'll search for me inside of everyone you're with and I won't be found.

I will search for you in others and if I found even a tiny resemblance, I won’t even consider them. ~ Fatin Nabila

That’s me and I’m free.


I am in competition with no one. I run my own race. I have no desire to play the game of being better than anyone, in any way, shape, or form. I just aim to improve, to be better than I was before. That’s me and I’m free. ~Jenny G. Perry

I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I'm out of control, and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~ Marilyn Monroe

I love a man with a great sense of humor and who is intelligent - a man who has a great smile. He has to make me laugh. I like a man who is very ambitious and driven and who has a good heart and makes me feel safe. I like a man who is very strong and independent and confident - that is very sexy - but at the same time, he's very kind to people. ~ Nicole Scherzinger

Nobody knows the real me.


Nobody knows the real me. Nobody knows how many times I've sat in my room and cried, how many times I've lost hope, how many times I've been let down. Nobody knows how many times I've had to hold back to tears, how many times I've felt like I'm about to snap but don't just for the sake of others. Nobody knows the thoughts that have gone through my head whenever I'm sad, and how horrible they really are.

One Great Lesson I Learned From My Life


One great lesson I learned from my life. I think there is no market for your Emotions. So never advertise your feelings, just display your Attitude.

If you don't think your anxiety, depression, sadness and stress impact your physical health, think again. All of these emotions trigger chemical reactions in your body, which can lead to inflammation and a weakened immune system. Learn how to cope, sweet friend. There will always be dark days.~ Kris Carr

Disappointment is inevitable. But to become discouraged, there's a choice I make. God would never discourage me. He would always point me to himself to trust him. Therefore, my discouragement is from Satan. As you go through the emotions that we have, hostility is not from God, bitterness, unforgiveness, all of these are attacks from Satan.~ Charles Stanley

Just Because I don’t say I love you


Just Because I'm quiet, doesn't mean I don't have a lot to say. 
Just Because I appear happy, doesn't mean everything's okay. 
Just Because I laugh a lot, doesn't mean I don't take things seriously. 
Just Because I forgive, doesn't mean you can take me for granted. 
Just Because I don't keep in touch all the time, doesn't mean I don't care. 
Just Because I'm gullible, doesn't mean you can lie to me.
Just Because I'm stubborn, doesn't mean I expect you to change for me. 
Just Because I don't show my feelings, doesn't mean I don't have any. 
Just Because I don't say I love you, doesn't mean I don't. 
Just Because I'm honset, doesn't mean I'm outspoken. 
Just Because I'm not like you, doesn't mean I'm werid. 
Just Because I don't say anything, doesn't mean I'm afraid.

Some people really have a hard time expressing their feelings and words like “I love you”. They were never told they were loved all their childhood and they feel unloved themselves. They were told to keep their feelings to themselves. There are all kinds of people in the world. Some are so inept with their feelings. We have to open our minds and our hearts that these situations exists and be understanding.

“Have you ever heard the wonderful silence just before the dawn? Or the quiet and calm just as a storm ends? Or perhaps you know the silence when you haven't the answer to a question you've been asked, or the hush of a country road at night, or the expectant pause of a room full of people when someone is just about to speak, or, most beautiful of all, the moment after the door closes and you're alone in the whole house? Each one is different, you know, and all very beautiful if you listen carefully.” ~ Norton Juster

13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do

People who are mentally strong and well adjusted are different in a number of ways. Very often, the best way to learn from such people is to observe what actions and behaviors they avoid. Here are the top 13 things not to do if you want to be mentally strong.


1. Quit When Things Get Tough

One of the most important qualities of mentally strong people is resilience and the ability to keep going when they run into obstacles. This is a quality found in some of the toughest people in the world, such as Navy SEALs.

Fake people are only nice


Fake people are only nice when it’s convenient for them or they usually have a hidden agenda. Genuinely nice people go out of their way to help others and they have an honest heart. Stick with the ones who never let you down and keep their promises. You can’t fake that.

“I hate fake people. You know what I’m talking about. Mannequins.” ~ Jarod Kintz

“Always sleep with one eye open. Never take anything for granted. Your best friends might just be your enemies.” ~ Sara Shepard

Bad food is made without pride, by cooks who have no pride, and no love. Bad food is made by chefs who are indifferent, or who are trying to be everything to everybody, who are trying to please everyone... Bad food is fake food... food that shows fear and lack of confidence in people's ability to discern or to make decisions about their lives. ~ Anthony Bourdain

Confidence and empowerment are cousins in my opinion. Empowerment comes from within and typically it's stemmed and fostered by self-assurance. To feel empowered is to feel free and that's when people do their best work. You can't fake confidence or empowerment. ~ Amy Jo Martin

I think there is no market for your emotions


I think there is no market for your emotions, so never advertise your feelings, just display your attitude.

“We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.” ~ Kurt Vonnegut

“There is so much about my fate that I cannot control, but other things do fall under the jurisdiction. I can decide how I spend my time, whom I interact with, whom I share my body and life and money and energy with. I can select what I can read and eat and study. I can choose how I'm going to regard unfortunate circumstances in my life-whether I will see them as curses or opportunities. I can choose my words and the tone of voice in which I speak to others. And most of all, I can choose my thoughts.” ~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Positive feelings come from being honest about yourself and accepting your personality, and physical characteristics, warts and all; and, from belonging to a family that accepts you without question. ~ Willard Scott

Humans aren't as good as we should be in our capacity to empathize with feelings and thoughts of others, be they humans or other animals on Earth. So maybe part of our formal education should be training in empathy. Imagine how different the world would be if, in fact, that were 'reading, writing, arithmetic, empathy.' ~ Neil deGrasse Tyson

You may not be someone’s first choice


I may not be someone's first choice, but I'm a great choice. I may not be rich, but I'm valuable. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm good at being me. I might not be proud of some of the things I've done in the past, but I'm proud of who I am today. I may not be perfect, but I don't need to be. Take me as I am or watch me as I walk away!

Love myself I do. Not everything, but I love the good as well as the bad. I love my crazy lifestyle, and I love my hard discipline. I love my freedom of speech and the way my eyes get dark when I'm tired. I love that I have learned to trust people with my heart, even if it will get broken. I am proud of everything that I am and will become. ~ Johnny Weir

I am determined to be cheerful and happy in whatever situation I may find myself. For I have learned that the greater part of our misery or unhappiness is determined not by our circumstance but by our disposition. ~ Martha Washington

what I am and what I believe. How committed are you to winning? How committed are you to being a good friend? To being trustworthy? To being successful? How committed are you to being a good father, a good teammate, a good role model? There's that moment every morning when you look in the mirror: Are you committed, or are you not? ~ LeBron James

I may not be pretty, I'm not rich


I may not be pretty, I'm not rich, I don't have a perfect body, but I have a good and warm heart for those who care. 

A Good Heart And A Good Nature Are Two Different Issues, A Good Heart Can Win Many Relationships, But A Good Nature Can Win An Sustain Life Long Relationship .

Your beautiful heart is everything believe me , not money or beauty. 

It is very important to generate a good attitude, a good heart, as much as possible. From this, happiness in both the short term and the long term for both yourself and others will come. ~ Dalai Lama

A good heart will help you to a bonny face, my lad and a bad one will turn the bonniest into something worse than ugly. ~ Emily Bronte

One Great Lesson I Learned From My Life.


One great lesson I learned from my life. I think there is no market for your Emotions. So never advertise your feelings, just display your Attitude.

If you don't think your anxiety, depression, sadness and stress impact your physical health, think again. All of these emotions trigger chemical reactions in your body, which can lead to inflammation and a weakened immune system. Learn how to cope, sweet friend. There will always be dark days.~ Kris Carr

Disappointment is inevitable. But to become discouraged, there's a choice I make. God would never discourage me. He would always point me to himself to trust him. Therefore, my discouragement is from Satan. As you go through the emotions that we have, hostility is not from God, bitterness, unforgiveness, all of these are attacks from Satan.~ Charles Stanley

Serious Relationships Are Based On Real Love.


The worst thing that a man can do to a woman is to fake his love for her and manipulate her mind just for his physical satisfaction and his sexual desires without having any intentions of a serious relationship…

“The difference between my darkness and your darkness is that I can look at my own badness in the face and accept its existence while you are busy covering your mirror with a white linen sheet. The difference between my sins and your sins is that when I sin I know I'm sinning while you have actually fallen prey to your own fabricated illusions. I am a siren, a mermaid; I know that I am beautiful while basking on the ocean's waves and I know that I can eat flesh and bones at the bottom of the sea. You are a white witch, a wizard; your spells are manipulations and your cauldron from hell yet you wrap yourself in white and wear a silver wig.” ~ C. JoyBell C.

“I despise the rituals of fake friendship. I wish we could just claw each other's eyes out and call it a day; instead we put on huge radiant smiles and spout compliments until our teeth hurt from the saccharine sweetness of it all.” ~Jody Gehrman

Just Because I Post, Doesn't Mean I'm Going Through It.


Just because I post it doesn't mean
I'm going through it and it doesn't
mean that it's directed at anyone.

Maybe it's just that I like what I
read or what I see and so I share it.

I am human!

“I think that we are like stars. Something happens to burst us open; but when we burst open and think we are dying; we’re actually turning into a supernova. And then when we look at ourselves again, we see that we’re suddenly more beautiful than we ever were before!” ~ C. JoyBell C.

Sometimes removing some people


Sometimes removing some people out of your life makes room for better people.

The philosophy of the school room in one generation will be the philosophy of government in the next.~ Abraham Lincoln

Ignoring fame was my rebellion, in a funny way. I was insistent on being normal and doing normal things. It probably wasn't advisable to go to college in America and room with a complete stranger. And it probably wasn't wise to share a bathroom with eight other people in a coed dorm. Looking back, that was crazy.~ Emma Watson

Don't waste your time with explanations:


“Don't waste your time with explanations: people only hear what they want to hear.” ~ Paulo Coelho

“Don't waste your love on somebody, who doesn't value it.” ~ William Shakespeare

“It starts so young, and I'm angry about that. The garbage we're taught. About love, about what's "romantic." Look at so many of the so-called romantic figures in books and movies. Do we ever stop and think how many of them would cause serious and drastic unhappiness after The End? Why are sick and dangerous personality types so often shown a passionate and tragic and something to be longed for when those are the very ones you should run for your life from? Think about it. Heathcliff. Romeo. Don Juan. Jay Gatsby. Rochester. Mr. Darcy. From the rigid control freak in The Sound of Music to all the bad boys some woman goes running to the airport to catch in the last minute of every romantic comedy. She should let him leave. Your time is so valuable, and look at these guys--depressive and moody and violent and immature and self-centered. And what about the big daddy of them all, Prince Charming? What was his secret life? We dont know anything about him, other then he looks good and comes to the rescue.” ~ Deb Caletti

Don't judge ME


Don't judge ME, you can't handle half of what I have dealt with. There's a reason I do the things I do, there's a reason I am who I am.

I do know where you come from and you like me have to get through every day and say what you you have too and this is nice and with love nice. 

But there is a reason to not let what happened to you define your life and create chains that hold you to your problems.

I am at that point where I don't even care if people like ME anymore.


“I am at that point where I don't even care if people like ME anymore. If you like ME, cool. If you don't, okay.”

“We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.” ~ Kurt Vonnegut

“It isn't what you have or who you are or where you are or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about it.” ~  Dale Carnegie,

I'm just ME

I'm not perfect, I'm me. I've made bad decisions and wrong choices, but I'm me. I've said the wrong things, I've said the right things, because I'm me.

I don't like everything I've done, but I did it because I'm me. I've loved the wrong people and trusted the wrong people and I'm still me.

If I had a chance to start again, I wouldn't change a thing. Why? because I'm me. There are a lot of good things about me, you just need to look past the imperfections to see what's right. If you can't do that then it's your loss. I'm the best I can be. I am ME

Never Accept to be Anyone's Second Choice


I put up with A LOT of shit, but two things I WILL NOT put up with is being lied to and being someones second choice.

The real act of marriage takes place in the heart, not in the ballroom or church or synagogue. It's a choice you make - not just on your wedding day, but over and over again - and that choice is reflected in the way you treat your husband or wife.~ Barbara de Angelis

Disappointment is inevitable. But to become discouraged, there's a choice I make. God would never discourage me. He would always point me to himself to trust him. Therefore, my discouragement is from Satan. As you go through the emotions that we have, hostility is not from God, bitterness, unforgiveness, all of these are attacks from Satan.~ Charles Stanley

Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.~ William Jennings Bryan

Choose ME or lose ME.


Choose ME or lose ME. I'm not a BACKUP PLAN, and definitely not a second CHOICE.

Don't judge me , you can't handle half of what I have dealt with. There's a reason I do the things I do , there's a reason I am who i am .

But there is a reason to not let what happened to you define your life and create chains that hold you to your problems.

where there is a connectivity between heart to heart there will b a judgement for even a small things, even sacrifices makes u happy..

I do know where you come from and you like me have to get through every day and say what you you have too and this is nice and with love nice.

Freedom comes with responsibility and if we act in a responsible, loving way, the consequence is usually a good one with a good consequence. Taking care of ourselves and with respect and loving others with respect is part of it.

I know who I am.


I know who I am. I am not perfect. I'm not the most beautiful woman in the world. But I'm one of them.~ Mary J. Blige

Love myself I do. Not everything, but I love the good as well as the bad. I love my crazy lifestyle, and I love my hard discipline. I love my freedom of speech and the way my eyes get dark when I'm tired. I love that I have learned to trust people with my heart, even if it will get broken. I am proud of everything that I am and will become.~ Johnny Weir

Commitment is a big part of what I am and what I believe. How committed are you to winning? How committed are you to being a good friend? To being trustworthy? To being successful? How committed are you to being a good father, a good teammate, a good role model? There's that moment every morning when you look in the mirror: Are you committed, or are you not?~ LeBron James

I am not trying to give an image of a fairytale, perfect, everything else, I am just being myself.~ Rebecca Loos