If you're truly a gentleman

IF you're truly a gentleman, you will NEVER have to say it. Your actions alone should prove that you are the one.

The final test of a gentleman is his respect for those who can be of no possible service to him.~ William Lyon Phelps

A real gentleman, even if he loses everything he owns, must show no emotion. Money must be so far beneath a gentleman that it is hardly worth troubling about. ~ Fyodor Dostoevsky

“We can’t be lovers because we both have mustaches. But since you’re a lady, and I’m a gentleman, I’ll shave mine off.” ~ Jarod Kintz

“Never rearrange your life in order to meet Mr. Darcy half way. If he couldn’t see your worth at the moment you met then he won’t two years later. May the halls of Pemberly be filled with his regrets and your life filled with thankfulness because of this revelation.” ~Shannon L. Alder

Growth & Change is painful

'Growth is painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don't belong.' ~ Mandy Hale 

A person who truly loves you is someone who sees the pain in your eyes while everyone else believes in the smile on your face.

Pain changes people.

Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have - life itself. ~ Walter Anderson

It’s usually the deepest pain which empowers you to grow to your full potential. It’s the scary, stressful choices that end up being the most worthwhile. Without pain, there would be no change. But remember, pain, just like everything in life, is meant to be learned from and then released. ~ Amanuel Misganu

Dont waste time on people that leave you

In some cases you have to walk away maybe for your own self respect or dignity.

When someone walks out of your life, let them. There's no use in wasting your time on people that leave you. What you make of yourself and your future is no longer tied to them. Yeah, you may miss them. But remember that you weren't the one that gave up.

Leave your past and be ready for your future.

If you love life, don't waste time, for time is what life is made up of. ~ Bruce Lee

We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love. ~ Tom Robbins

So you want to be happy?

So you want to be happy? Then stop letting the smallest things ruin your whole entire day. If you're bored with your daily routine, do something unexpected. Stop complaining about how alone you are when you're surrounded by people who actually care about you. Forget all the drama and let go of all the grudges you've been holding. Take a risk for once. Let yourself be happy, because you deserve it.

It is not what happens that make you stressed or unhappy, but how you react or think about the situation that makes it worst or better. Do not sweat the small stuff, move on, and be happy.

Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy. ~ Norman Vincent Peale

You don't develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity. ~ Epicurus

Just because a person smiles all the time

Just because a person smiles all the time, doesn't mean their life is perfect. That smile is a symbol of Hope and Strength.

Let my soul smile through my heart and my heart smile through my eyes, that I may scatter rich smiles in sad hearts. ~ Paramahansa Yogananda

What sunshine is to flowers, smiles are to humanity. These are but trifles, to be sure; but scattered along life's pathway, the good they do is inconceivable. ~ Joseph Addison

You may not always have a comfortable life and you will not always be able to solve all of the world's problems at once but don't ever underestimate the importance you can have because history has shown us that courage can be contagious and hope can take on a life of its own. ~ Michelle Obama

“All that is gold does not glitter,

Not all those who wander are lost;

The old that is strong does not wither,

Deep roots are not reached by the frost.

From the ashes a fire shall be woken,

A light from the shadows shall spring;

Renewed shall be blade that was broken,

The crownless again shall be king.” 

― J.R.R. Tolkien

Don't do something

Don't do something permanently stupid just because you are temporarily upset.

Every day we have plenty of opportunities to get angry, stressed or offended. But what you're doing when you indulge these negative emotions is giving something outside yourself power over your happiness. You can choose to not let little things upset you. ~ Joel Osteen

God is not upset that Gandhi was not a Christian, because God is not a Christian! All of God's children and their different faiths help us to realize the immensity of God. ~ Desmond Tutu

When you're happy you don't always have to be laughing, and when you're sad you don't have to be crying; sometimes it's the opposite. You laugh when you're the most upset. ~ Freddie Highmore

I am sorry to upset my colleagues by saying we wasted four years in opposition, but if you do get so badly defeated as a party you do have to face up to some painful facts and you do have to change. ~ Kenneth Clarke

How you can make a difference in someone’s life?

"To make a different in someone's life you don't have to be brilliant, rich, beautiful or perfect. You just have to care."

A smile is the light in your window that tells others that there is a caring, sharing person inside. ~ Denis Waitley

Nobody can predict the future. You just have to give your all to the relationship you're in and do your best to take care of your partner, communicate and give them every last drop of love you have. I think one of the most important things in a relationship is caring for your significant other through good times and bad. ~ Nick Cannon

The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years. ~ Audrey Hepburn

Love is something you give and not expect anything in return enjoying the moment is best few hours of true love a thousand years living a lie.

One of the best message:

One of the best message:

As soon as you die, your identity becomes a "Body". People use phrases like: "Bring the Body", "Lower the Body i n the Grave", "Take the Body to the Grave yard", etc. People Don't Even call you by your Name whom you tried to Impress whole Life.... Live a Life to Impress the Creator not the Creation. Take chances.. Tell the truth... Learn to say NO...Spend money on the things u love... Laugh till your stomach hurts... Dance Even if u are too bad at it... Pose stupidly for photos... Be child-like..... 

Moral: Death is not the greatest loss in life. Loss is when life dies inside you while you are alive. Celebrate this event called LIFE.

One of the most courageous decisions you'll ever make

One of the most courageous decisions you'll ever make is to finally let go of what is hurting your heart and soul. -Brigitte Nicole

“Love is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever. A feeling comes and it may go. How can I judge that it will stay forever, when my act does not involve judgment and decision.” ― Erich Fromm

“She looked like the kind of woman I could fall in love with. Trouble is, she was standing next to the kind of woman I’d like to make love to. 
” ― Jarod Kintz

“Life has no victims. There are no victims in this life. No one has the right to point fingers at his/her past and blame it for what he/she is today. We do not have the right to point our finger at someone else and blame that person for how we treat others, today. Don’t hide in the corner, pointing fingers at your past. Don’t sit under the table, talking about someone who has hurt you. Instead, stand up and face your past! Face your fears! Face your pain! And stomach it all! You may have to do so kicking and screaming and throwing fits and crying- but by all means- face it! This life makes no room for cowards.” ― C. JoyBell C

“Waiting hurts. Forgetting hurts. But not knowing which decision to take can sometimes be the most painful...” ― José N. Harris

Fake people are only nice

Fake people are only nice when it’s convenient for them or they usually have a hidden agenda. Genuinely nice people go out of their way to help others and they have an honest heart. Stick with the ones who never let you down and keep their promises. You can’t fake that.

“I hate fake people. You know what I’m talking about. Mannequins.” ~ Jarod Kintz

“Always sleep with one eye open. Never take anything for granted. Your best friends might just be your enemies.” ~ Sara Shepard

Bad food is made without pride, by cooks who have no pride, and no love. Bad food is made by chefs who are indifferent, or who are trying to be everything to everybody, who are trying to please everyone... Bad food is fake food... food that shows fear and lack of confidence in people's ability to discern or to make decisions about their lives. ~ Anthony Bourdain

Confidence and empowerment are cousins in my opinion. Empowerment comes from within and typically it's stemmed and fostered by self-assurance. To feel empowered is to feel free and that's when people do their best work. You can't fake confidence or empowerment. ~ Amy Jo Martin

If there ever comes a day when we can’t be together

“If there ever comes a day when we can't be together, keep me in your heart.I'll stay there forever.”

“Some things don't last forever, but some things do. Like a good song, or a good book, or a good memory you can take out and unfold in your darkest times, pressing down on the corners and peering in close, hoping you still recognize the person you see there.” ~ Sarah Dessen

“What i like about photographs is that they capture a moment that’s gone forever, impossible to reproduce.” ~ Karl Lagerfeld

There will never be a day we won’t be as close as we are right now, you’ve always been by my side and helped me through so much and only good friends like you and I can still be this close even with distance between us. I love you all and miss you so much my friend. ~ Judy Slaney 

Good friends care for each other, close friends understand each other. But true friends stay forever. Beyond words, Beyond distance, Beyond time.

Love is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever. A feeling comes and it may go. How can I judge that it will stay forever, when my act does not involve judgment and decision.

Not every one comes in your life to stay forever. Only a few enter in such a way that even if they go away tomorrow they leave a mark on your heart that will always stay. Such people live with you forever, even if they're miles apart. Thanks for being such a person. Happy Thanksgiving! 

The real power of a man

The real power of a man is in the size of the smile of the woman sitting next to him.

Power is of two kinds. One is obtained by the fear of punishment and the other by acts of love. Power based on love is a thousand times more effective and permanent then the one derived from fear of punishment. ~ Mahatma Gandhi

Every man builds his world in his own image. He has the power to choose, but no power to escape the necessity of choice. ~ Ayn Rand

Love him or hate him, Trump is a man who is certain about what he wants and sets out to get it, no holds barred. Women find his power almost as much of a turn-on as his money. ~ Donald Trump

Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power. ~ Abraham Lincoln

5 things you can't recover in life;

5 things you can't recover in life; 

1) A stone after its thrown. 

2) A word after its said. 

3) An occasion after its missed. 

4) Time after its gone. 

5) Trust after its lost.

“You will lose someone you can’t live without,and your heart will be badly broken, and the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your broken heart that doesn’t seal back up. And you come through. It’s like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly—that still hurts when the weather gets cold, but you learn to dance with the limp.” ~ Anne Lamott

Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.

This life, which had been the tomb of his virtue and of his honour, is but a walking shadow; a poor player, that struts and frets his hour upon the stage, and then is heard no more: it is a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing. ~ William Shakespeare

The truth is you don't know what is going to happen tomorrow. Life is a crazy ride, and nothing is guaranteed. ~ Eminem

When A Woman Loves A Man…

No matter how strong a woman is …there is this one man in her life for whom she has a weak and soft corner in her heart. This is the man she loves unconditionally. She will forgive him for all his mistakes and accept him with all his flaws and imperfections because she can’t love another man for the rest of her life. She will never question his past and never make him feel jealous of other men. She will never give up on this man and she can do anything in this world for this man because she loves him with all her heart and her soul….Aarti Khurana

I think there is no market for your emotions

I think there is no market for your emotions, so never advertise your feelings, just display your attitude.

“We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.” ~ Kurt Vonnegut

“There is so much about my fate that I cannot control, but other things do fall under the jurisdiction. I can decide how I spend my time, whom I interact with, whom I share my body and life and money and energy with. I can select what I can read and eat and study. I can choose how I'm going to regard unfortunate circumstances in my life-whether I will see them as curses or opportunities. I can choose my words and the tone of voice in which I speak to others. And most of all, I can choose my thoughts.” ~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Positive feelings come from being honest about yourself and accepting your personality, and physical characteristics, warts and all; and, from belonging to a family that accepts you without question. ~ Willard Scott

Humans aren't as good as we should be in our capacity to empathize with feelings and thoughts of others, be they humans or other animals on Earth. So maybe part of our formal education should be training in empathy. Imagine how different the world would be if, in fact, that were 'reading, writing, arithmetic, empathy.' ~ Neil deGrasse Tyson

A stronger heart continue to love after it’s been hurt

“Prayer is not asking. It is a longing of the soul. It is daily admission of one's weakness. It is better in prayer to have a heart without words than words without a heart.” ~ Mahatma Gandhi

“And now here is my secret, a very simple secret: It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.” ~ Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

“One love, one heart, one destiny.” ~ Bob Marley

One who still believes there is hope for love regardless of past broken loves, to me is not just a strong heart but an inward determination and willingness to still hold onto wanting to love and to be loved and to be keep apart of your heart open to it. ~ Margaret Saba 

It takes a strong heart to love but it takes a stronger heart to continue to love after it's been hurt.

Don’t be afraid of losing someone

The art of being happy is to be satisfied with what you have.

DON'T be afraid of losing someone who doesn't feel lucky to have you.

Open your eyes, look within. Are you satisfied with the life you're living? ~ Bob Marley

Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. ~ Steve Jobs

After time goes by, it does get easier & better. I have learn to live without him in. My life and today and can truly say that I deserved better. ~ Alba Perez

When you are

Every day we have plenty of opportunities to get angry, stressed or offended. But what you're doing when you indulge these negative emotions is giving something outside yourself power over your happiness. You can choose to not let little things upset you. ~ Joel Osteen

God is not upset that Gandhi was not a Christian, because God is not a Christian! All of God's children and their different faiths help us to realize the immensity of God. ~ Desmond Tutu

When you're happy you don't always have to be laughing, and when you're sad you don't have to be crying; sometimes it's the opposite. You laugh when you're the most upset. ~ Freddie Highmore

I am sorry to upset my colleagues by saying we wasted four years in opposition, but if you do get so badly defeated as a party you do have to face up to some painful facts and you do have to change. ~ Kenneth Clarke

Don't do something permanently stupid just because you are temporarily upset.

The five W's of life.

1) WHO you are is what makes you special, Don't change for anyone.

2) WHAT lies ahead will always be a mystery, Don't be afraid to explore.

3) WHEN life pushes you over, push back harder

4) WHERE there are choices to make, make the ones you won't regret.

5) WHY things happen will never be certain, Take it in stride and move forward.

The Heart That Is Meant To Love You

The heart that’s meant to love you will fight for you when you want to give up, pick you up when you’re feeling down, and will give their smile when it’s hard for you to find yours. They will never get strength from seeing you weak, power from seeing you hurt, or joy from seeing you cry. The heart that’s meant to love you wants to see the best you, not the hurt you! Never forget that. ~ Trent Shelton

What does it mean to love someone with all your heart? It means to love with all your emotional feelings and with all your devotion. Surely when you love your wife with all your heart, you cannot demean her, criticize her, find fault with her, or abuse her by words, sullen behavior, or actions. ~ Ezra Taft Benson