I Don't Understand Why People Cheat?

If you succeed in cheating someone, don't think that the person is a fool…Realize that the person trusted you much, more than you deserved…

Trust is the most important part of a relationship. You must be 100% sure that she won't tell your wife!

Cheating is the most disrespectful thing one human being can do to another. If you aren't happy in a relationship, end it before starting another one.

Real men have a code, and they don’t break it. No cheating. Period. If you’re pulling away from someone to be with another, you need to make a decision. And for those who like wrecking people’s relationships, here’s the bottom line: If the man/woman you’re with is cheating on someone else to be with you. The man/woman you’re with will cheat on you with someone else. Cheating is cheating, and cheaters can’t be trusted. Period. Remember that when you consider stealing someone else’s cool aid. ~ Paul Hale

Once there is cheating no matter what the circumstances are its over, its very hard you might forgive but its hard work. Those who cheat do not understand true love, its more conditional love and not the same. ~ Amber Adams

I don't understand why people cheat. If you're interested in someone else, leave the one you're with, spare them the heartache.

When You Find Your Soulmate

It’s beautiful when you find someone that is in love with your mind. Someone that wants to undress your conscience and make love to your thoughts. Someone that wants to watch you slowly take down all the walls you’ve built up around your mind and let them inside.

It is hard when you have been hurt to let your guard down but I also believe its all part of our own story and those that hurt you will make you appreciate the one who will be with you at the end of your story. ~ Tanya Christmann 

“When you’re in love, you’re capable of learning everything and knowing things you had never dared even to think, because love is the key to understanding of all the the mysteries.” ~ Paulo Coelho

“What’s the difference?” I asked him. “Between the love of your life, and your soulmate?”

“One is a choice, and one is not.”~ Tarryn Fisher

Had that person, then he left. He went to Heaven, so hard to find again. ~ Gloria Morrison

Only Trust Someone Who Can See These Three Things In You

Only trust someone who can see these three things in you: The sorrow behind your smile, the love behind your anger, and the reason behind your silence.

The truth is just know who you are then if you don’t received feedback from this person who cares, this person doesn’t have love in him to give it to you. ~ Rasmi Ang

Having a Soulmate is not always about Love

Having a soulmate is not always about love. You can find your soulmate in a friendship too. ~ Unknown

“To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.” ~ Criss Jami

Soulmate is a person who you feel you connect with on every level, emotionally, physically and spiritually, a “true” life partner. Someone in who’s company it feels natural to be with, unlike any other you have met and who you want to always be in your life. The pull you feel towards them is different to friends. Friends have their own valuable place in your life. Although soul mates clearly should “additionally” be your friend too. ~ Stu Dancelifts 

“I told you. You don't love someone because of their looks or their clothes or their car. You love them because they sing a song only your heart can understand.” ~ L.J. Smith

A soulmate is somebody that you can relate to so well without being anything but yourself and there for you no matter what anyway either as a friend or a lover/husband. Indeed, one doesn’t have to be the love of your life but a friend for life. ~ Ana Sharp 

10 Ways You're Being Unfaithful to Your Spouse and You Don’t Even Know It

Marriage can be tough. Having to deal with someone else’s needs on a daily basis, and often having to prioritize them above our own, can create some wear and tear. Naturally, we seek relief from other outlets in our lives. But…what’s normal and what’s encroaching upon your marriage? These are 10 ways that people are often unfaithful, without even realizing it.

1. Talking about significant others behind their backs.

This one is so common that it often creeps in without us even realizing it. The problems start to arise when we do this with someone that we consider attractive. This can become a very dangerous situation, so be extremely mindful about sharing your marital woes with someone.

Choose A Crystal – Discover What It Reveals About You

Pick A Crystal

Check out the 3 crystals pictured above, which one are you most attracted to? Choose the one you are most drawn to at this very moment, don’t just pick your favorite color!

Listed below is the explanation of your choice and what it reveals about you. Don’t cheat! Go with your first instinct.

1. Blue Howlite

If you chose crystal number 1, you are being asked to work on your communication skills. Do you need to speak up about what is on your mind? Are you being honest about your feelings, to yourself or someone else? Are you listening to others effectively?

Why Most Relationships Fail?

Most relationships fail not because of absence of love. Love is always present. It's just that one loves too much and the other loves too little.

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses. ~ Ann Landers

You don't develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity. ~ Epicurus

Truth is, I'll never know all there is to know about you just as you will never know all there is to know about me. Humans are by nature too complicated to be understood fully. So, we can choose either to approach our fellow human beings with suspicion or to approach them with an open mind, a dash of optimism and a great deal of candour. ~ Tom Hanks

Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.' ~ Erich Fromm

She's the woman who believes.

She is the girl who believes that what comes around goes around. The one who hopes for a better day. The one who wont give up on you. She is the girl who's unlike the rest. The one who spent her days smiling, and her nights crying. She is the girl who would love to be loved. The one who looks so damn strong, but feels so weak. She is the girl who picks herself up every time she falls.

When we do the best we can, we never know what miracle is wrought in our life, or in the life of another.~ Helen Keller

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.~ Maya Angelou

A really strong woman accepts the war she went through and is ennobled by her scars. ~ Carly Simon

I think God made a woman to be strong and not to be trampled under the feet of men. I've always felt this way because my mother was a very strong woman, without a husband. ~ Little Richard

10 Signs When A Girl Gives Up On You

WHEN A GIRL GIVES UP ON YOU...

1. She will not try to catch your attention.

2. She will not fight for you anymore.

3. She won't reply your message as quickly anymore.

4. She won't try to keep the conversation going anymore.

5. She will not care anymore.

6. She's no longer jealous.

7. She will flirt and talk to other guys.

8. She's no longer care if you care or not anymore.

9. She's no longer goes to your profile

and whine to people about how happy you're, talking to other girls.

10. She will give up on trying to make you love her,

because she finally realize that she deserves better.

and you will miss her. 

Miss the way she cared about you.

Miss the way she loved you. And you have lost her.

So don't take any girls for granted,

if you love her, let her know before she gives up !!

Some Doors Need To Close

Close the doors that caused you pain, anger and suffering so you can open the ones that will bring you love, acceptance and inner peace. — Unknown

The old lady's humor

A little old lady walks into the Bank of Canada with a bag of money. She insists that she must speak with the president of the bank.

She tells the bank president that she has accumulated several hundred thousand dollars over the years and would like to open a trust in the bank.

The president is curious, so he asks her, “Where did you get all this money?” The old lady replies, “I make bets.”

The president then asks, “Bets? What kind of bets?”

Don't take a woman for granted

Don't take a woman for granted if she is giving you too much attention. Just consider yourself lucky because maybe she loves you so much that she doesn’t want anyone else to take her place in your life. If she cries for you don’t think she is weak but consider yourself lucky that she thinks you are worth her precious tears. If she is jealous of the other women around you don’t think she is insecure but she doesn’t want to see anyone else to be in your arms. If a woman says sorry to you even though it was not her fault don’t think she fears losing you but she considers her relationship worth another chance and she doesn’t want anyone else to have your heart.. Aarti Khurana

You’re better than they think you are

If you’re indeed doing good or what’s right to do, then, don’t fear because having fear doesn’t help. Fear puts people in shock. Have faith in you & in all that you do, shake off all that stress too. Heart & soul & keep going & if it helps, think of it this way. They don’t go to work for you, they don’t pay your bills & if you happen to have them at work, then respect yourself even more & ignore their horrible attitudes. Don’t fall into their horrible way of being. So believe in you, have faith, respect everyone, even if they don’t like you because human beings are human beings & no human being is ever going to be all that perfect. If you’re giving your best at heart & soul at some goal in your life & someone that’s part of that goal or others don’t value your efforts, your work or your will to do good, you have to keep on going & don’t let their negative feelings bring you down. ~ Morella Zapatel 

“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.” ~ Bernard M. Baruch

“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” ~ Eleanor Roosevelt

7 Types of Women You Should Never Date

Men are often drawn to women who stand out and make a lasting impression. After getting to know a woman though, it can be easy to detect if she has a strong personality that can lead to future problems. When it comes to looking for the perfect match, there are seven types of women that you should avoid at all costs.

1. Women Who are Clingy

Women who revolve their schedule around yours or become upset if you don’t spend every weekend with them are known to be clingy and can eventually become overly controlling in the relationship.

I Want To Belong To You.

I don’t want us to have a fairy tale kind of a love story. I want to wake up with you. I want you to be the first face I see in the morning. I want to heart your morning heartbeats. I want to have my morning coffee with you. I want to be there for you during your bad days to give you my emotional strength. I want to be there for you when you are trying to overcome the failures in your life. I want to be your strength. I want to be your courage. I want to be the reason behind your smiles and your laughter. I want to belong to you. We both have our flaws but I want our imperfections to blend together to make us perfect lovers. I want a happy ending for us… Aarti Khurana

What A Woman Want's In A Relationship?

Women don't want fairy tale romances. They want strong relationships. They want honest and trustworthy partners. They want happy ending.

I don't want the perfect relationship, because perfect is impossible. I want trustworthy, honest, loyal and love. I love imperfections. I don't want perfect. I want worth it.

“People that have trust issues only need to look in the mirror. There they will meet the one person that will betray them the most.” ~ Shannon L. Alder

A true relationship is having someone who accepts your past, supports your present, loves you and encourages your future!

10 Signs Learn How Not to Marry the Wrong Person.

• Focus more on character than chemistry

Love is a temporary psychosis. Never marry someone because you are in love. Identify specific character traits you want in a spouse and know how to clearly assess each one. Be especially careful to check out the family. Background checks are essential. Temperament types are essential to know.

• Don’t choose someone who is abusive

You’re afraid to express your feelings and opinions in an abusive relationship. In an abusive relationship you don’t feel safe. An abusive person is demanding, controlling, and/or communicates with anger and criticism.

One Day She Will Quietly Move On

She will love you, pamper you, care for you and give you everything she can. She will make you feel on cloud nine with her love. She will make u feel like the best man on this planet but the moment she feels avoided, unwanted, ignored and sidelined she will be gone and she will never feel the same again. She will quietly move on… Aarti Khurana

You must make a decision that you are going to move on

“You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It wont happen automatically. You will have to rise up and say, ‘I don’t care how hard this is, I don’t care how disappointed I am, I’m not going to let this get the best of me. I’m moving on with my life.” ~ Joel Osteen

“You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened... or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on.” ~ Tupac Shakur

“It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.” ~ Nicholas Sparks

You have to work hard and be willing to go that extra mile, or whatever it may take. I refuse to give up. Something, I myself, live by. ~ Heather Everhart

Making a decision is good, but the rewards come from action. We don’t see results by deciding, we see them by acting. ~ Nancy Conway

Making a big life change is pretty scary

Making a big life change is pretty scary. But, know what's even scarier? Regret.

Change is always scary , but you will never know if you don’t try.

In the end, we only regret chances we didn’t take. It mostly happened in relationships.

If we are not careful, a regret may make our heart uncomfortable for a life.

“Oh, my sweet summer child," Old Nan said quietly, "what do you know of fear?

Fear is for the winter, my little lord, when the snows fall a hundred feet

deep and the ice wind comes howling out of the north. Fear is for the long

night, when the sun hides its face for years at a time, and little children

are born and live and die all in darkness while the direwolves grow gaunt and

hungry, and the white walkers move through the woods” 

― George R.R. Martin

When a relationship is right for you

I believe that two people are connected at the heart, and it doesn't matter what you do, or who you are or where you live; there are no boundaries or barriers if two people are destined to be together. ~ Julia Roberts

When you are in the wrong relationship, you waste way too much time trying to make it work. When you are in the right relationship, you don’t waste any time at all. ~ Randy Dorilag

The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. ~ Thomas Merton

No matter there is drama of some kind – yours or theirs – sometimes both, face it together, makes you stronger. ~ Margaret Fulmer 

8 Definite Signs Your Woman Truly Loves You

Sure, she says she loves you, but words are cheap. Short of seeing her reaction when you ask her for one of her kidneys, is there any way to tell whether she’s really feeling that love? Thanks to science and a little bit of psychology, there is!

She loves the way you smell. Do you catch her burying her nose in your pillow after you get out of bed? Or does she reel in disgust when you skip your shower? If you’re sure you’ve been laying off the garlic but she’s still turning up her nose at you, you may have trouble. Studies have shown that women use the sense of smell in determining a life partner.

Every Woman's Need . . .

A woman doesn’t expect her man to sing songs to praise her, write poems to describe her beauty or flatter her all the time. She doesn’t want a man who just wants to show her off to his friends at the parties. She wants a man who is by her side to wipe her tears when she is crying. She wants a man who can hold her and be her strength when she is breaking apart. She wants a man who can hold her hand, look into her eyes and assure her that he will never break her heart and leave her shattered. She wants a man who can fight for her and fight the world for her… Aarti Khurana

A Little Advice For Woman and Men

TO WOMEN: A man who truly loves you will never let you go no matter how hard the situation is. 

TO MEN: A woman who truly loves you will be angry at you for so many things but will stick around.

A women brought you into this world, so you have no right to disrespect one.

It's a man's job to respect women, but its a woman's Job to give him something to respect.

I studied the lives of great men and famous women; and I found that the men and women who got to the top were those who did the jobs they had in hand, with everything they had of energy and enthusiasm and hard work.

I am single

I am single doesn’t mean that I don’t have a heart and I have never loved anyone. I am single doesn’t mean that I am not romantic and that I don’t understand feelings of love. I am single because I don’t wear my heart on my sleeve and because I don’t believe in short term relationships. I am single because I want to be someone’s forever and I want to be loved, desired and pampered to the core. I am single because I have reserved that special place in my heart for a man who will be my forever. I am single because I feel my heart is too precious to just give it away to someone who is not even worth it. I am single doesn’t mean that I enjoy being lonely …It simply means I am patient enough to wait for the man who truly deserves be a part of my life and make my life complete. I am single till I find someone who deserves me, my body, my heart and my soul… Aarti Khurana

You Will Miss Me.

One day you are going to miss my boring texts, my random calls, my silly questions. You will miss my fights, my mood swings, my arguments . You will miss my hugs, my kisses and my cuddles.You are going to miss my jealousy, my possessiveness and my insecurities.You will miss my chasing you, my annoying you and my irritating you. You will miss my laughter, my tears, my confessions and my innocent talks. But most of all you will miss me for the way I loved you and cared for you… Aarti Khurana 

Public Toilet (very funny)

Public Toilet (very funny) 

I was in a public toilet and had just sat down, when I heard a voice from the next cubicle, 

he said  “Hi!, how are you?” 

Embarrassed, I said, “I’m doing fine”. 

The voice said “So what are you up to?”. 

I said, “Just doing the same as you, sitting here!”. 

From next door, “Can I come over?”. 

Annoyed, I said, "rather busy right now”. 

The voice said, “Listen, I will have to call you back, there’s an idiot next door answering all my questions" 

Every woman’s heart has different instructions

Every woman's heart has different instructions. They are written through her eyes, in her smile, through her actions and in her tears. She just has to find someone who cares enough to read them.

A woman is like a tea bag - you can't tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water. ~ Eleanor Roosevelt

The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years. ~ Audrey Hepburn

Every being, man, woman and child have things to say and won’t bring up the best in them only when appreciated. Give love to everybody, one day it will be your turn. There is a chinese proverb which says, “Keep A Green Tree In Your Heart And Perhaps A Singing Bird Will Come”. ~ Karima Maach 

When a woman is “tripping” she cares. When a woman is “mad” she believed in you and you let her down. When she’s “asking questions” she is trying to gain clarity. When she’s quiet and letting things “slide” she is giving up. And when she’s not doing any of the above just know you lost a good woman.

Someone still cross your mind everyday

It's crazy how you can go months or years without talking to someone but they still cross your mind everyday.

Sometimes it happened when you use to be close with someone (either in relationship, or friendship, or relatives) then out of sudden things just don’t work out. You feel like they left you or put you aside. They feel like you left or put them aside, then both of you called it off. No more communication, then you started to realized, what has happened, hen they keep crossing your thought and your mind each day. ~ Sinead Fee 

It’s missing someone who passed away and you miss them so much that you think of them at least once a day.

Ignoring someone means you can't be bothered to reply...Forgetting to reply later on when you can means that person didn't cross your mind.

I hope I cross your mind once in a while just so that I won't feel pathetic for thinking of you all the time.

One of the hardest lessons in life

One of the hardest lessons in life is letting go. Whether it's guilt, anger, love, loss or betrayal. Change is never easy. We fight to hold on and we fight to let go.

“If there's a thing I've learned in my life it's to not be afraid of the responsibility that comes with caring for other people. What we do for love: those things endure. Even if the people you do them for don't” ~ Cassandra Clare

“I've never fooled anyone. I've let people fool themselves. They didn't bother to find out who and what I was. Instead they would invent a character for me. I wouldn't argue with them. They were obviously loving somebody I wasn't.” ~ Marilyn Monroe

Letting go is really hard but once you did it, you will feel better and you will have peace within.

The cruelest things you can do to another person

One of the cruelest things you can do to another person is pretend you care aboutthem more than you really do." - Douglas Coupland

The worst thing is when one realizes that don’t interest them at all and is only for wanting to get something out of you. ~ Paulina Cardenas 

Positive feelings come from being honest about yourself and accepting your personality, and physical characteristics, warts and all; and, from belonging to a family that accepts you without question. ~ Willard Scott

50 Things Money Can't Buy.

Motivate Yourself To Inspire Others

Everyone can say I Love you, but not everyone really means it

When we say, “I Love You” that is exactly what we mean. It does not mean that the recipient of our love feels what we feel for them. To know whether feeling is mutual, ask: “Do you feel loved by me?”

“I love you” means that I accept you for the person that you are, and that I do not wish to change you into someone else. It means that I will love you and stand by you even through the worst of times. It means loving you even when you’re in a bad mood, or too tired to do the things I want to do. It means loving you when you’re down, not just when you’re fun to be with. “I love you” means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them, asking in return that you do not judge me for mine. It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love you enough not to let go. It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly, and hoping you feel the same way for me. ~ Jonathan Safran Foer

Everyone can say I Love you, but not everyone really means it. So believe it when you see it and feel it, not only when you hear it.

When you really love someone

When you really love someone, age, distance, height, weight.. is just a damn number!

“We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter. Too much of the time, we are blinded by our own pursuits of people to love us, people that don't even matter, while all that time we waste and the people who do love us have to stand on the sidewalk and watch us beg in the streets! It's time to put an end to this. It's time for us to let ourselves be loved.” ~ C. JoyBell C.

If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If it does not come back, it was never meant to be.

I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

Those numbers don’t have to count if you have a strong relationship. Look at how many military families do it when there loved ones are gone. I have been there and the miles made us stronger because after being away from me (as a friend) for a long time we are finally working on being more, but he was still there when I needed him and the same for me. I can tell you that the man in my life is very supportive of me (I do not have the looks of a model or anything like that but I am not overweight either). He is a little over 2 years older then me. But when I tell him that I look “fat” or anything along those line he comes right back with “no you’re not” and if I proceed to push it with him (on one of my pms days) and ask him “why” he says that he replies “because your not fat and I Love you the way you are”. So yes I believe that weight doesn’t matter if the man truly loves you. ~ Nikki Plachinski

Sometimes it’s better to keep silent than to tell others what you feel

Sometimes it's better to keep silent than to tell others what you feel because it hurts badly when you come to know that they can hear you but can't understand.

“Sometimes” I personally feel you should never bottle your feelings inside. I mean never. However, take into full considering what the “others” are. I share my feelings with only whom I know I will be understood, but don’t risk sharing your feelings with people whom you may be misunderstood.

“It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool, than to talk and remove all doubt of it.” ~ Maurice Switzer

“Many times in life I've regretted the things I've said without thinking. But I've never regretted the things I said nearly as much as the words I left unspoken.” ~ Lisa Kleypas

It takes someone to go through the same thing you went through before they can understand. Telling your story is not asking for sympathy you just want to unload yourself of the burden you are carrying. Its not passing the burden to another human being but having a sounding board when you want someone to just have an ear, you are not asking for anything, sympathy,empathy or compassion. ~ Norma Powell

10 Signs Your Partner Is Cheating on You.

Recent studies show that over 50% of men and 50% of women cheat at some point in their relationship. With such alarming numbers, one may wonder if his/her mate is cheating. If you have a “gut” feeling that something is going on, chances are high that you could be correct. Here are the top ten signs to look for that might mean your partner is cheating:

1. She/He takes the cell phone everywhere. Taking the phone everywhere, including the bathroom, is a red flag. Doing so can help the cheating partner hide text messages or make secret calls. If your partner is attached at the hip to the cell phone there might be cause for alarm.

2. She/He always has a reason you cannot hang out or visit their living space. Not being able to visit, announced or otherwise, could mean there is something to hide. In the early stages of a relationship, this boundary is expected. But as time progresses and the boundary remains high, cheating might be the reason.

Real couples stay faithful

“They say a good love is one that sits you down, gives you a drink of water, and pats you on top of the head. But I say a good love is one that casts you into the wind, sets you ablaze, makes you burn through the skies and ignite the night like a phoenix; the kind that cuts you loose like a wildfire and you can't stop running simply because you keep on burning everything that you touch! I say that's a good love; one that burns and flies, and you run with it!” ~ C. JoyBell C.

Maybe in the start, but later life brings to us different temptations, and if we pass the tests, it means our love is real. Good relationship demands adapting and trying hard. ~ Dijana Haseljic 

True love doesn't happen right away; it's an ever-growing process. It develops after you've gone through many ups and downs, when you've suffered together, cried together, laughed together. ~ Ricardo Montalban

Real people in real couples sometimes do stray, but real relationships can grow stronger if both parties commit to sharing themselves and fully knowing one another. ~ Melodie Tucker 

Real couples aren’t perfect. They have good and bad sides, they make mistakes, they do things well. They are simply people. ~ Carla da Costa 

10 Best Compliments To Give To A Woman

Whether you’re looking to encourage your wife or a new girlfriend, there are several compliments to give females that will woo and wow them. By knowing what to say and when to say it, it will make it easier to make her fond of who you are as a person without coming off too intrusive. By knowing some of the best compliments you can give a woman, you’ll be sure to leave a lasting impression.

1. You Look Like You Lost Weight

Every woman wants to feel skinny and she’s sure to believe that she looks slim if she’s complimented on her figure by a male. Tell her that she looks slimmer even though she doesn’t need to lose weight.

2. That Color Really Suits You

To give a woman a boost of confidence, encourage her on a shade of color that she’s wearing and point out that it’s one of your favorite on her. Tell her that she should wear the color more often and you’re sure to see it on her the following week.

Erasing yourself from somebody’s life

Anybody can walk out the door and well, no, not everyone can do it. But yes, its easier then erasing that person from your life because when you leave, you don’t usually think as you just want to escape, be it an abuse situation between spouses, drug or alcohol situation, etc. Its because you still are tied to that person and probably still love him/her. You don’t want to be without that person and until you walk out that door and close that door behind you and don’t come back because it’s the same thing over and over again, that person will still have a hold over you till you yourself do something about it, get help yourself first and then see what happens. Yes, insanity is doing the same thing over again expecting different results they say, and nothing changes till you change. ~ Lenore Bruner

You just stop seeing that person under the circumstances that well, you don’t actually have to. You remember to surround yourself with those who really and genuinely love you. Go back to them. Must not forget that they are the ones who will be there for you at the end of the day. ~ Tracy Ho 

Erasing yourself from somebody's life is not as simple as walking out the door. 

“If pain must come, may it come quickly. Because I have a life to live, and I need to live it in the best way possible. If he has to make a choice, may he make it now. Then I will either wait for him or forget him.” ~ Paulo Coelho

Hurting someone can be easy as throwing a stone in the sea

Hurtful words spoken cannot be taken back. Wound may be healed by an apology, but the scar remains.

“Don't worry about hurting me, if that's what you're afraid of. I want to get hurt. At least I´ll feel something for a change.” ~ Katie Kacvinsky

Unforgivable! People are selfish because they don’t want to be hurt but they turn around and like hurting others. Of course they know how that feels but they just think it’s ok to hurt others. I would say when someone tries to hurt you, try to avoid the person and not letting it happens is the best way to fix the problem. It sounds not easy, but it could work. ~ Cherylin Phan

Perfect maturity is when a person hurt you and you try to understand their situation and don’t hurt them back.

Hurting someone can be as easy as throwing a stone in the sea. But do you have any idea how deep that stone can go?

“To be rejected by someone doesn't mean you should also reject yourself or that you should think of yourself as a lesser person. It doesn't mean that nobody will ever love you anymore. Remember that only ONE person has rejected you at the moment, and it only hurt so much because to you, that person's opinion symbolized the opinion of the whole world, of God.” ~ Jocelyn Soriano

10 Things Every Woman Deserves In A Relationship

Sometimes we can be easily deceived in relationships. What we want, and what is best for us, is not always the same thing. Here is a list of 10 things EVERY woman deserves in a relationship, be sure to look for the perfect partner with these traits.

1) Someone Who Listens and Values Your Opinion

A little debate is healthy, but you want someone who will really listen to you and consider what you have to say.

2) Someone Who Finds You Sexy No Matter What You Look Like

Pajamas or little black dress, your lover should always find you attractive.

What's your Lucky Leprechaun Name.

What's your "Lucky Leprechaun Name"

We all have a "Lucky Leprechaun Name" 

and Its easy to find out what yours is...

Just take the first initial of your first name and 

the month you were born. 

Put them together and Bejesus - 

You have your "Lucky Leprechaun Name" 

Just a little fun for you to share :)

Don't forget to leave a comment with your "Lucky Leprechaun Name" 

and to share this with your family and friends.

Just Because I don’t say I love you

Just Because I'm quiet, doesn't mean I don't have a lot to say. 

Just Because I appear happy, doesn't mean everything's okay. 

Just Because I laugh a lot, doesn't mean I don't take things seriously. 

Just Because I forgive, doesn't mean you can take me for granted. 

Just Because I don't keep in touch all the time, doesn't mean I don't care. 

Just Because I'm gullible, doesn't mean you can lie to me.

Just Because I'm stubborn, doesn't mean I expect you to change for me. 

Just Because I don't show my feelings, doesn't mean I don't have any. 

Just Because I don't say I love you, doesn't mean I don't. 

Just Because I'm honset, doesn't mean I'm outspoken. 

Just Because I'm not like you, doesn't mean I'm werid. 

Just Because I don't say anything, doesn't mean I'm afraid.

Some people really have a hard time expressing their feelings and words like “I love you”. They were never told they were loved all their childhood and they feel unloved themselves. They were told to keep their feelings to themselves. There are all kinds of people in the world. Some are so inept with their feelings. We have to open our minds and our hearts that these situations exists and be understanding.

“Have you ever heard the wonderful silence just before the dawn? Or the quiet and calm just as a storm ends? Or perhaps you know the silence when you haven't the answer to a question you've been asked, or the hush of a country road at night, or the expectant pause of a room full of people when someone is just about to speak, or, most beautiful of all, the moment after the door closes and you're alone in the whole house? Each one is different, you know, and all very beautiful if you listen carefully.” ~ Norton Juster

Life is like a Piano

“Life is like a piano; the white keys represent happiness and the black show sadness. But as you go through life's journey, remember that the black keys also create music.”~ Ehssan

Its the happiness that gives meaning to the sadness and its the sadness that gives meaning to happiness too. They complement each other. They are the two sides of the same coin. They both combined create the beautiful song called Life.

"Life is like a piano. What you get out of it depends on how you play it." - Tom Lehrer

The history of the music industry is inevitably also the story of the development of technology. From the player piano to the vinyl disc, from reel-to-reel tape to the cassette, from the CD to the digital download, these formats and devices changed not only the way music was consumed, but the very way artists created it. ~ Edgar Bronfman, Jr.

There are two amazing places you can be.

There are two amazing places you can be... The nicest place to be in is someone's thoughts. The safest place to be in is someone's prayers.

“Prayer is not asking. It is a longing of the soul. It is daily admission of one's weakness. It is better in prayer to have a heart without words than words without a heart.” ~ Mahatma Gandhi

Prayer is a privilege and the soul's sincere desire. We can move beyond routine and 'checklist' prayers and engage in meaningful prayer as we appropriately ask in faith and act, as we patiently persevere through the trial of our faith, and as we humbly acknowledge and accept 'not my will, but Thine, be done.' ~ David A. Bednar

I pray every night, sometimes long prayers about a lot of things and a lot of people, but I don't talk about it or brag about it because that's between God and me, and I'm no better than anybody else in God's sight. ~ Peyton Manning

Every woman deserves a man like this

Every woman deserves to have a man who is proudly willing to say the whole world YEAH, she is my one and only. She is beautiful and she is MINE.

Every woman deserves a man who calls her baby, kisses her like he means it, holds her like he never wants to let her go, doesn't cheat or lie, wipes her tears when she cries, doesn't make her jealous of other women, instead makes other women jealous of her, is not scared to let his friends know how he really feels about her, and lets her know how much he really loves her. Re-post if you agree.

A real woman knows how to value a relationship... no matter how many Men come, she doesn't care! Because for her, her man is the best! - Unknown 

Every woman’s heart has different instructions. They are written through her eyes, in her smile, through her actions and in her tears. She just has to find someone who cares enough to read them.

Life is full of fake people

Life is full of fake people. It is so easy to believe someone when they tell you exactly what you want to hear. When a person shows you who they really are, believe them the first time. Some people are only nice for their own convenience. You have to distance yourself from these people otherwise they will hang around as long as you let them. The type of people who only call when they need something or come around when it’s beneficial to them. Not everyone has your best interests at heart. Sometimes the one person you’d take a bullet for ends up being the one behind the gun.

SISTERS WEEK

Sisters Week

If you have a Sister,

whom you love a lot ...

who made you cry sometimes ...

pulled your hair ...

fought with you ...

stood up for you ...

drove you crazy ...

watched you succeed ...

saw you fail and laughed,

picked you up,

scolded you ...

made you strong ...

and you can't do without them !!

Share this if you have 

the BEST Sister in the world !

Sister is probably the most competitive relationship within the family, but once the sisters are grown, it becomes the strongest relationship. ~ Margaret Mead

For there is no friend like a sister in calm or stormy weather; To cheer one on the tedious way, to fetch one if one goes astray, to lift one if one totters down, to strengthen whilst one stands.~ Christina Rossetti

Sisters walk together through life, through death, through common bonds and sad farewells. They become aunts and great aunts to each others children and grandchildren. They watch each other grow older, struggle, and succeed.

10 Things A Woman Should Never Do For A Man

Research indicates that women tend to be discussion-oriented and strive to communicate through dialogue. Emotion takes center stage book-ended by multiple choices and over analyzing problems. Men, on the other hand, are more straight to the point, or action-oriented.

Part of being in a relationship includes compromises. Those compromises usually involve doing things for our partner that we would not normally do. What is important for women to remember is that it is alright to take a stand every now and then. Giving in isn’t always the answer no matter how much you love someone.

Here is a list of ten things that women should never do for a man:

• Give Up Your Dog – If your lover is allergic they have medications for it. You should never have to give up something you love just to please someone else.

• Starve – Exercise is great, but don’t starve yourself just to please him.

Sometimes, I’m not angry, I’m hurt

Anger is defending oneself when you feel threatened. Any time you have an outburst, just ask yourself what you fear losing and be honest with yourself, even if it makes you cry, then tell yourself your mind is mistakenly telling you have much less control over your situation than you actually do, and work toward self control. It’s the only thing you can really control. To the situations you can’t control, give everything you can, build the world you want to see, acquire skills to improve your life and the lives of people around you. Feed the hopes, not the fears. ~ Oliva Sullen 

“The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected.” ~ Nicholas Sparks

“Pain is a pesky part of being human, I've learned it feels like a stab wound to the heart, something I wish we could all do without, in our lives here. Pain is a sudden hurt that can't be escaped. But then I have also learned that because of pain, I can feel the beauty, tenderness, and freedom of healing. Pain feels like a fast stab wound to the heart. But then healing feels like the wind against your face when you are spreading your wings and flying through the air! We may not have wings growing out of our backs, but healing is the closest thing that will give us that wind against our faces.” ― C. JoyBell C.

Hurt is hard to hide, if you let them know maybe they won’t be a part of your life anymore, so you bury it deep inside and let it eat at you, hurts you but not them. ~ Joan Olson

Good relationships are not just about the good times you share

Good relationships are not just about the good times you share; they’re also about the obstacles you go through together, and the fact that you still say “I love you” in the end. 

It seems like there are more people that will abandon you in the bad times, but want to be around you only in the good times. Also they want support from you when they have bad times, but when you have bad times, they don’t want to support you. Sometimes they will even be so blunt, as to say that they don’t want to hear about your problems. They say that you can count your true friends on one hand. Those are the people that will be there for you, and you for them when you need each other the most. ~ Virginia Detroyer 

It makes me sad, because there are too many people who don’t feel able to pass through the obstacles that come. So they left me, although it would have had become a good time after short. Still I haven’t found someone who really cares to stay together. But I know for sure, that God always cares. ~ Tina Berisha 

“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”~ Jess C. Scott

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.” ~ Lisa Kleypas

What Your Zodiac Sign Says About Your Love Life!!

Valentine’s Day is around the corner, we all have different ways to celebrate this day. If you are single you may hope for a proposal, if you’re committed you might be excited to see what your partner has planned. We have analyzed your zodiac signs for fun to see how you may celebrate valentine’s day, whether you are single or taken:

• Capricorn
Capricorns are often conservative and may give up on finding a date if they are single, this Valentine’s Day can bring change in your love life as Jupiter is walking with you, giving you power and confidence when you need it. Be expressive this week and don’t hide your feelings, it will turn out to be a great learning opportunity for you.
Compatible Zodiac: Virgo/Taurus/Capricorn
Lucky Color: Black
Lucky Gift: Heart shaped personalized prism