I have reached a point in my life


I have reached a point in my life where I feel it is no longer necessary to try to impress anyone. If they like me the way I am good, and if not then it’s their loss.

“I am not what I ought to be, I am not what I want to be, I am not what I hope to be in another world; but still I am not what I once used to be, and by the grace of God I am what I am”― John Newton

“I am to be loved, honored and respected solely because I exist. I am to be cherished, spoiled, celebrated because I Am! I was made to be admired.
I am a beloved child of God after all.”― Emmanuella Raphaelle

Love myself I do. Not everything, but I love the good as well as the bad. I love my crazy lifestyle, and I love my hard discipline. I love my freedom of speech and the way my eyes get dark when I'm tired. I love that I have learned to trust people with my heart, even if it will get broken. I am proud of everything that I am and will become. -Johnny Weir

I like to be myself, and I don’t pretend. For instance, I don’t dress up for occasions; I am what I am. – Virat Kohli

I am who I am, I am what I am, I do what I do and I ain’t never gonna do it any different. I don’t care who likes it and who don’t. – Buck Owens

I am what I am. I love me! And I don’t mean that egotistically – I love that God has allowed me to take whatever it was that I had and to make something out of it. – Stevie Wonder

My life was perfect until I found the hardest truth of my life...

10 Signs Men Show When They Don’t Love You Anymore



There’s a stark difference when a man loves you and when he doesn’t. When a man no longer loves a woman, he makes it obvious and certain things change about him. He makes it known through his body language, his behaviour and the way he treats his lady. These are some of the signs a man shows when he doesn’t love you anymore.

1. HE STOPS COMMUNICATING

When a man doesn’t love his woman anymore, he no longer sees the need to communicate with her; communication becomes a burden to him. He talks less to her, he doesn’t communicate his feelings or things that are going on in his life anymore and he doesn’t even listen to her anymore. When his communication level drops to this extent, then that’s a sign that he isn’t in love anymore.

2. HE STOPS DOING THINGS FOR YOU

When a man is in love with his woman, he does things to make her happy, he tries to impress her and he does things to make her comfortable and love him the more. However, when a man stops loving a woman, all these things become forgone.

3. HE STOPS HAVING YOUR TIME

When a man no longer loves a lady, he stops having time for her; he would rather spend time with his friends or do other things rather than be with his lady. All those fun times and special moments would fizzle away when a man stops loving a woman.

4. HE BECOMES EASILY IRRITATED

A man who has stopped loving his woman would easily become irritated at any little thing she does. The reason behind this is the lack of love; love is tolerating, so a man in love would easily tolerate his lady. However, a man who no longer loves his lady would lose the tolerant nature he once had towards her.

5. HE BECOMES ANGRY FOR LITTLE OR NO REASON

When his tolerance level for his lady drops, this could make him easily lose his cool at the slightest instance; he would shout at her and get angry at her for even a little thing that shouldn’t really make him angry.

6. HE WOULD TRY TO SHUT HER OUT OF HIS LIFE

A man in love with his woman would let her into his world; his life would be like an open book and he wouldn’t hide stuffs from her. However, the same cannot be said about a man who doesn’t love a woman; he would shut her out of his life gradually till it reaches a point where she wouldn’t understand him anymore and can’t reach out to him.

7. PHYSICAL INTIMACY DROPS

Of course, physical intimacy would only be there when he has feelings and affections for you. But once he stops loving you, the kisses, hugs and cuddling and every other form of intimacy would disappear into thin air.

8. HE DOESN’T TAKE PART IN YOUR WORLD ANYMORE

When a man stops loving you, he wouldn’t want to share in your world anymore. He wouldn’t share in your happiness and wouldn’t share in your sadness anymore. He doesn’t feel excited in your world anymore and wouldn’t want a part of it either.

9. HE STOPS SAYING AND SHOWING HE LOVES YOU

When a man stops loving you, the three magic words “I love you” fades out with his love. Also, he would stop showing you that he loves you; he doesn’t say it and he doesn’t show it — he becomes cold towards you.

10. HE STOPS BEING CARING

Of course, this goes in line with the previous tip. A man who has stopped loving you would no longer care about you; he wouldn’t treat you like a woman, he wouldn’t make you feel special, he wouldn’t spend quality time with you and his romantic side would also fizzle out.

When a man stops loving a woman, he let these ten signs out and he becomes a shadow of the man you once knew.