Showing posts with label Hurt. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Hurt. Show all posts

Once In Your Life Someone Will Hurt You

No matter what, once in your life, someone will hurt you. That someone will take all that you are, and rip it into pieces and they won't even watch where the pieces land. But through the breakdown, you'll learn something about yourself. You'll learn that you're strong. And no matter how hard they destroy you, that you can conquer anyone.

You can rebuild yourself. Broken hearts can heal. Some people are cruel. It doesn’t mean we have to let them stop us. I’ve never stopped living, I just keep on moving forward. Keep loving! ~ Daniel Rodriguez

Some People Are Not Capable Of Love

Hurting people hurt others and it’s so painful and frustrating trying to love someone that continually strikes out. What they need is forgiveness and love. Love never fails. It’s hard not to give up, especially when it’s family. They are broken. The love of God is the great healer. Pray hard! ~ Theresa Wilt

Forgiveness does not always lead to a healed relationship. Some people are not capable of love, and it might be wise to let them go along with your anger. Just wish them well and take care of yourself.

Everyone is capable of love, some are just lost, afraid and broken, so love is difficult or them to find, accept, share & show. The better sentiment would be, ” We can’t connect with everyone, especially those who are not ready to open up to the love we want to share. It’s ok to let them go and wish them well in their search for someone to be happy with.” ~ Maureen Navadomskis

I wish I was the same soul I used to be

Unfortunately, our past had a clean soul like a child. I rather be childlike and free, than wise and bitter. Wise and clean soul like a child would be ideal. Don’t lose the happy child within your soul. ~ Leigh Rivera

It’s still in there, only very deep and well hidden so you can’t see it any more. I keep it locked away in a safe place, protected and resting unused. ~ Sheila Bright

I'm not the same soul I once was. A lot has changed. A lot had to change. So you should't expect out of me what I embodied in the past. For that part of me no longer exists.

Whenever it’s hurt, tears come out

“I’m here. I love you. I don’t care if you need to stay up crying all night long, I will stay with you. If you need the medication again, go ahead and take it—I will love you through that, as well. If you don’t need the medication, I will love you, too. There’s nothing you can ever do to lose my love. I will protect you until you die, and after your death I will still protect you. I am stronger than Depression and I am braver than Loneliness and nothing will ever exhaust me.” ~ Elizabeth Gilbert

People fear death even more than pain. It's strange that they fear death. Life hurts a lot more than death. At the point of death, the pain is over. Yeah, I guess it is a friend. ~ Jim Morrison

This is really remarkable and true. God has His own unique way of expression. Majority of our body is made of water but when we are physically hurt in any part , water from the body manifests visibly as blood. In contrast when somebody hurts us emotionally , our heart is shattered and broken. Heart is full of blood but our feelings from heart find it’s reflection through eyes coming out as clear tears and not as blood. This is God’s way of providing outlet to our feelings. Flow of tears soothes our heart , negative feelings are forgotten and forgiven and We can start living a new day with clean slate and positive frame of mind.

Our body is full of water but whenever it hurts, BLOOD comes out. And our heart is full of blood but whenever it hurts, TEARS comes out..

When you have someone in your Heart

It hurts when you have someone in your heart and can't have them in your arms.

If you can’t have his heart and mind with you and only your arms, he isn’t meant for you. That is if his heart and mind belongs to another. There is someone out there who is waiting to give you his heart and receive yours. Don’t waste your time in something less than what you deserve. God may be waiting for you to let go of this person so you can be ready to welcome your true love with open arms.~ Diane Nolasco 

Sometimes it’s better to keep silent than to tell others what you feel

Sometimes it's better to keep silent than to tell others what you feel because it hurts badly when you come to know that they can hear you but can't understand.

“Sometimes” I personally feel you should never bottle your feelings inside. I mean never. However, take into full considering what the “others” are. I share my feelings with only whom I know I will be understood, but don’t risk sharing your feelings with people whom you may be misunderstood.

“It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool, than to talk and remove all doubt of it.” ~ Maurice Switzer

“Many times in life I've regretted the things I've said without thinking. But I've never regretted the things I said nearly as much as the words I left unspoken.” ~ Lisa Kleypas

It takes someone to go through the same thing you went through before they can understand. Telling your story is not asking for sympathy you just want to unload yourself of the burden you are carrying. Its not passing the burden to another human being but having a sounding board when you want someone to just have an ear, you are not asking for anything, sympathy,empathy or compassion. ~ Norma Powell

Hurting someone can be easy as throwing a stone in the sea

Hurtful words spoken cannot be taken back. Wound may be healed by an apology, but the scar remains.

“Don't worry about hurting me, if that's what you're afraid of. I want to get hurt. At least I´ll feel something for a change.” ~ Katie Kacvinsky

Unforgivable! People are selfish because they don’t want to be hurt but they turn around and like hurting others. Of course they know how that feels but they just think it’s ok to hurt others. I would say when someone tries to hurt you, try to avoid the person and not letting it happens is the best way to fix the problem. It sounds not easy, but it could work. ~ Cherylin Phan

Perfect maturity is when a person hurt you and you try to understand their situation and don’t hurt them back.

Hurting someone can be as easy as throwing a stone in the sea. But do you have any idea how deep that stone can go?

“To be rejected by someone doesn't mean you should also reject yourself or that you should think of yourself as a lesser person. It doesn't mean that nobody will ever love you anymore. Remember that only ONE person has rejected you at the moment, and it only hurt so much because to you, that person's opinion symbolized the opinion of the whole world, of God.” ~ Jocelyn Soriano

When a person Hurts you

I don't know the actual meaning of maturity, but for me maturity is when a person hurts you & you try to understand their situation rather than hurting them back.

Hurting them back only means that both of you hurt then, and you caused them hurt. If you love someone you will do all you can to never intentionally cause them pain, even if they have caused you unbearable pain at times, you would rather cut out your own heart than to hurt them. In short, true love doesn’t seek it’s own, rather it seeks the best for the other always. It doesn’t matter in the long run what they may do to you, what really matters is what you about it. You don’t have to put up with their stuff, you can just walk away, and if that hurts them, then they only have themselves to blame, but never hurt back if you truly love them ~ Frank Hancock 

“I have learned now that while those who speak about one's miseries usually hurt, those who keep silence hurt more.” ~ C.S. Lewis

When you try to understand why you feel hurt before you blame someone else for your feeling to understand if they really abused you (physically, sexually, psychologically, socially, etc.) or if you are just being jealous, prejudice, demanding something unreasonable, not respecting their boundaries or right to say no, etc. or even misinterpreting the situation. ~ Mari Cammarata 

Maturity is accepting full responsibility for my actions/behavior and not blame others for my choices that have formed my reality. ~ Mary Davison 

The wisdom of maturity, sets you free from the need to react. Accepting that when someone hurts you, they do not have the power to hurt you, you choose to feel hurt. Their bad behaviour is their issue to solve. ~ Caitriona Doran

Hurting back the people who hurt you

Hurting back the people who hurt you, makes you just like them.

Hurting people serves no purpose. It is a waste of time even thinking about them. Karma happens, we have to let it go, in time they will evaporate just like a tear that you may have shed over them when they hurt you. ~ Linda McMinis

Truth is everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for. ~ Bob Marley

Many times, the decisions we make affect and hurt your closest friends and family the most. I have a lot of regrets in that regard. But God has forgiven me, which I am very thankful for. It has enabled me to forgive myself and move forward one day at a time. ~ Lex Luger

Let God Fight Your Battles because if you don’t you’re going to mess it up but If You Let Go And Let God he will step in and make everything alright. ~ Charesse Jeter

You can’t keep hurting a person

You can't keep hurting a person and expect them to keep loving YOU.

To love is to risk being hurt. You don’t have to be broken or less than whole to love someone. In fact, it takes great strength and confidence to love and forgive. However, to keep forgiving the same hurt repeatedly is to accept abuse. That is not healthy. ~ Joanne Harpin 

Hurting leads to distrust then you built that wall around you so you won’t be hurt again. Then you trust no one which makes it hard for others that come along. The right person will be the one that accepts you as you are. Hurt, scared, broken and recovering from it. ~ Augustine Gillespie 

Never cry for someone who hurts you because if he/she loves you and care for you, he/she will never hurts you.

Some People Hurt By Words

Some people hurt by words, some by action & some by silence. But the biggest hurt is that someone ignoring us when we value them a lot ...

Ignoring fame was my rebellion, in a funny way. I was insistent on being normal and doing normal things. It probably wasn't advisable to go to college in America and room with a complete stranger. And it probably wasn't wise to share a bathroom with eight other people in a coed dorm. Looking back, that was crazy. - Emma Watson

Patience doesn't mean making a pact with the devil of denial, ignoring our emotions and aspirations. It means being wholeheartedly engaged in the process that's unfolding, rather than ripping open a budding flower or demanding a caterpillar hurry up and get that chrysalis stage over with. - Sharon Salzberg

Ignoring negative things that need to be changed is destructive and does nothing to alleviate negativity. Instead, we should focus on the way we're treating other people in our brief interactions with them. - Tom Rath

You don't get unity by ignoring the questions that have to be faced. - Jay Weatherill

Motivate yourself ~ Share & Inspire Others!


Read It.. It Will Take Just 3 - 4 Mins..

: I broke up with her.
His Best Friend: What happened?

Boy: She’s just too much for me.
His Best Friend: What makes you say that? What did she do wrong?

Boy: Well, for one.. She only cared about her appearance. Always had to look good, always took forever to get dressed! So insecure..
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she wanted to keep your eyes locked on her? She wanted you to see that you have the prettiest girl under your sleeve and not think otherwise? I see..

Boy: Oh.. Well.. She’d often call me or text me asking where I am, who I’m with, telling me not to smoke, not to drink. She’s so clingy!
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she cares about your well being? Because she cares about you a lot? And her greatest fear is losing you. I see..

Boy: But.. Uhh.. Well, she’d always cry when I say something slightly mean. She can’t handle anything. She’s a crybaby!
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she has feelings? And because she just wanted to hear you say you love her? I see..

Boy: I.. Well! You know, she’d get jealous easily. I could barely talk to other girls! She’s so annoying! I had to hide it from her so she wouldn’t bitch about it.
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she just wanted you to commit to her? She thought you were faithful, but you lied so she could find out later and hurt even more? She just wanted the guy she loves the most to love only her. I see..

Boy: Well, she..
His Best Friend: You broke up with her because she’s good for you? She just wanted the best for you? She’s broken now because you were selfish. Are you proud?

Boy: I broke her heart.. Because I couldn’t see what was happening.. What happened to me?
His Best Friend: You lost the girl that loved you like no one else could. You see? You didn’t want her when all she ever wanted was you. THAT’S what happened.

SOMETIMES we don't realize we are losing a diamond while collecting stones..
"Guys don't let her go... she is the only one"...

Think about it, when she’s too much for you.. She just wants the best for you. Because to her YOU’RE the best. If you don’t like something, talk to her about it. You mean so much to her. Don’t just give up. Don’t just leave because you want the easy way out.