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8 Things almost every Man wants from his Wife


We all know that the ideal relationship doesn’t exist — even relationships that seem happy are made up of sacrifices and conversations. But despite this fact, every couple wants to have a perfect relationship without quarrels and misunderstandings.

Every woman dreams of finding her charming prince and her own dream house, where she will spend a wonderful life full of happy moments and smiles.

You’ll be surprised, but men also have dreams. They dream to have a perfect, caring wife and a happy, interesting life. They want you to fulfill their dreams and make them happy. We would like to show you eights secret things that every man wants from his woman. Scroll down to find out these secrets and become the right woman for him.

1. HE LIKES WHEN YOU SURPRISE HIM

Your husband will appreciate your efforts to surprise him. It can be anything! Prepare him a romantic dinner, take him on an exciting trip or draw his portrait. There are so many options!

2. HE LIKES WHEN YOU ARE HONEST WITH HIM

Men hate lies. It’s important to be completely honest with him. Do everything possible to build a strong, trusting relationship and he will love it!

3. HE LIKES HAVING DEEP CONVERSATIONS WITH YOU

Most men want to find someone to have deep conversations about serious topics with. You should respect his thoughts, discuss interesting books and play intellectual games with him.

4. HE LIKES WHEN YOU CARE ABOUT HIM

When your man comes home from work, he wants you take care of him. He likes when you meet him at home with a smile, give him a kiss and have dinner with him.

5. HE LIKES WHEN YOU TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF

All men love confident women. When you love yourself, you have confidence in yourself.

6. HE WANTS TO KNOW THAT YOU’RE HAPPY

Your husband really wants to make you happy. So if you tell him how happy you are, he will be pleased.

7. HE WANTS YOU TRUST HIM

It can be difficult for women to understand that men need space from them. If your husband wants to hang out with his friends, you should let him do it. Trust him and he will trust you.

8. HE LIKES BEING VALUED

No one likes to be criticized. You should find ways to cheer him up and help him feel valued.

We at In Style want everyone to know and experience true love. It is out there for everyone and until it knocks on your door we are here to remind you that you deserve the best love!

18 Signs Your Partner Has Lost Interest In The Relationship!


Here are 18 signs yours is a situation, not a relationship, and that it’s going nowhere.
  1. THEY ARE TOO BUSY TO GIVE YOU TIME

Time, when once given, cannot be taken back. Partners always give each other time in a relationship, a way of showing their care and love for each other. If your partner tells you they are too busy and will not be able to spare a couple of hours to come home and have lunch with you – they’ve already lost the care card.
You get all excited to talk to them after spending all day at work. You approach them. They’re always the first one to leave, making up otherwise lame excuses to get away from you – like being called by a friend to help them out with their car, even though you know they don’t have such close friends. Now combine these two concepts together: wanting to get away from you and caring. Do they bode well together for a relationship? They go days without talking to you, despite telling you they’d be there for you…not how it goes in a relationship where your partner truly cares.
  1. THEY ARE INDECISIVE

So they keep playing the cat and mouse game – just when you give up, they are all into the relationship; when you call it quits, they start thinking of getting back together. Stop letting them take such grave advantage of you and let them know relationships are not determined by such cliché aspects like coming and going when one wants to.
You get to have a say in it too. If they cannot accept this fact, then it is you who needs to leave for sure because clearly, whether you leave or stay is of no such concern to them.
There might be occasions you’ll doubt your partner or your relationship’s worth. When your partner doesn’t care about it enough, they won’t do anything to assure you everything’s good if they’re indecisive themselves. Don’t waste yourself for such a relationship.

  1. THEY MAKE THEMSELVES THE FOCUS OF ATTENTION

While you make sure your partner’s needs and desires etc. are met with accordingly, it leaves little or no room for you and all that you do for them in their ‘me-world’. This is a major sign that they do not care about you nor the relationship to make it a part of their happiness. Even if you did not do something grand for them, they would still take your hand and have you walk with them on every path of life. If they stop caring, they won’t even bother, as simple as that.
  1. THEY PUT THE BLAME ON YOU

Even when it is not your fault, you partner blames you for little things and big things in everyday life. They do not care enough about the healthy course your relationship can and should take and so, putting blames on you becomes habitual to them because holding someone else accountable for their own actions is easier to fulfil, is it not?
If they truly cared about you or your relationship, they would take the blame and not the other way around. It is just one of those small things we do in the name of love and friendship.
You two have a fight. One leaves. The other sits there wondering the why and how of it all. You’d expect them to have the decency to come to you and confront you about what happened, to clear things out. Seems like you had a blindfold on; for they never do, just blame you for everything without clearing things first. Maybe you aren’t in a position to; there can be many reasons. But if they really cared about the relationship, wouldn’t they come and sit with you and talk things out? The matter speaks for itself.
  1. THEY TREAT YOU ARROGANTLY

There is nothing cool about treating others below you so if your partner acts in such a way where they use their high rank, charm or power etc to bring you down in any way then it is a sure sign they do not care enough to protect your feelings.
You know that homily feeling you get when you’re with your significant other? That feeling of security and stability’s among the first bricks to put in any relationship. When that feeling becomes dormant, either your partner is doing something less than what they did before or your relationship has simply lost that spark it once had, when everything seemed all rainbows and sunshine. Your time would be utterly wasted by investing your all in something that doesn’t even make you feel secure anymore. It’ll come down like a house of cards.
  1. BEING DISRESPECTFUL WAY TOO MUCH

The things that are important to you and hold some special value to you ought to be respected and cared for by those around you too, those that truly care about you. What makes you happy would them happy.
 But if your partner shows disrespect for the things that matter to you – whether it be religious beliefs or even a small pendant a close friend gifted to you and which you like a lot – then you do not need to stay with such a person who cannot treat the things you so value with equal respect.

If A Woman Does These Things, Never Let Her Go...



Here are 7 signs you’ve (probably!) found the right woman:

1. THERE IS AN “INSTANT CONNECTION”

While there are exceptions to this rule, most happy couples will say there was a connection of some type; and that they felt it quickly.
The simple fact is that you can’t love someone you’re not attracted to. This not only applies to physical appearance, but emotional and intellectual as well.
Since this article is about finding the right woman, here’s a useful tip for my fellow male compadres: looks are not nearly as important to her as they are to you. Humor, confidence, charm, charisma, and strength will trump looks every single time.

2. YOUR THOUGHT PATTERNS ARE SIMILAR (IN MOST WAYS)

Men in a committed, happy relationship (including this writer) are still taken aback by how frequently our thoughts seem to align with our partner’s. Two people meant for each other will often complete each other’s sentences. One will bring up a topic that the other was just about to.
You won’t always agree with each other (a good sign), but that’s also part of the fun.

3. AFFECTION AND LOVE GROWS IN TIME

Following the first couple of dates, one should know whether or not there’s “something there.” In the later stages, truly happy couples will reminisce about how their love and affection for one another grew over time.
Imperfections are accepted, even embraced. The love and affection you feel for the right woman overcomes everything else.

4. YOU LAUGH TOGETHER, A LOT

If your relationship lacks humor and laughter that’s usually not a good sign. A mutual sense of humor is among the most important indications of chemistry.
You, like I, have probably known a couple whose laughter and sense of humor is on the level of Eeyore’s from Winnie the Pooh. If they love each other that’s wonderful – and really the only thing that matters.
For those with an astute sense of humor, the “right” woman will probably make you laugh quite often – and vice versa. If not, she’s probably not the right person.

5. THERE’S A MUTUAL, UNSHAKABLE SENSE OF RESPECT

We’re not talking about the type of respect shown to one’s boss; nor are we talking about “morality-based” respect. When you’ve found the right one, and the relationship develops, the love and adoration you have for her will be so entrenched that the last thing you’ll ever want to do is hurt her.
She highly respects you as a man. You highly respect her as a woman. Both people do so out of love, nothing else.

6. YOUR PRIORITIES WILL CHANGE

Does anyone else know of the playboy who settled down, got married and had kids? (For this writer, it’s his brother).
It’s quite something to behold.
That’s what the right woman does. She grabs your heart, you grab hers, you both fall in deep love. For men who at one time loved the single life that period of time quickly fades from memory. Not only does it fade, but you’re so thankful that it has.

7. YOU WANT THE SAME THINGS IN LIFE

This last one is so very important. Many relationships that end do so because one wants something the other doesn’t. Examples: kids (obviously), a house, living in a different state/country, working full-time or staying home, etc.
While you won’t necessarily want everything the other does, life-changing wants and needs should be mutually agreed upon. Source

10 Things A Woman Should Never Do For A Man

Research indicates that women tend to be discussion-oriented and strive to communicate through dialogue. Emotion takes center stage book-ended by multiple choices and over analyzing problems. Men, on the other hand, are more straight to the point, or action-oriented.
Part of being in a relationship includes compromises. Those compromises usually involve doing things for our partner that we would not normally do. What is important for women to remember is that it is alright to take a stand every now and then. Giving in isn’t always the answer no matter how much you love someone.


Here is a list of ten things that women should never do for a man:

• Give Up Your Dog – If your lover is allergic they have medications for it. You should never have to give up something you love just to please someone else.

 Starve – Exercise is great, but don’t starve yourself just to please him.

• Have Children - Having kids is a serious commitment that you BOTH have to be on board with for it to work out. Don’t have kids just to please him if you aren’t ready for them.

Actual Meaning Of Romance ..



I think a lot of people don’t understand what real romance is. Anyone can buy flowers and candy and jewelry, there’s no love in that. The truly romantic things in life are those little things you do every day to show you care, and that you’re thinking of them. It’s going out of your way to make them happy. The way you hold her hand when you know she’s scared, or you save the last piece of cake for him. The random text in the middle of the day, just to say “I love you” or “I miss you”. The way he stops to kiss you when he passes by. It’s dedicating her favorite song to her, and letting her eat your fries… and telling her she’s beautiful, even when she’s in her sweats.. with her hair in a ponytail and no makeup. It’s putting your favorite show on pause so she can tell you about her day, and laughing at his joke even the really lame ones. It’s slow dancing in the kitchen and kissing in the rain. Romance isn’t about buying, it’s about giving. True romance is in the gestures.

If She Loves You Truly And Deeply


If she loves you truly and deeply then she will be demanding, possessive and jealous but the bottom line is that she will love you endlessly with all she has and all she will want is your undivided time and attention. She won’t be happy to share you with anyone or anything in this world. You might ignore her but she will still give you all her attention. You might keep telling her that you are busy and you don’t have time to meet her but she will still keep making plans to spend most of her time with you. You might talk to her only when you are free from everything else but she will leave everything else in her life and talk to you. Your life might not change because of her but her life will start revolving around you. She may not become the center of your world but you will be the most important person in her life and you will be the center of her world. And then if you betray her and leave her shattered with a broken heart she will quietly move away from you and go back into her shell to protect her sensitive heart and soul from further damage. And then once she is able to deal with her heartbreak she will forgive you and move on. Women are blessed with compassionate, sensitive, tolerant and forgiving hearts. When they love they love completely and when they move on then they move on completely. Women have the greatest capacity to endure pain and then let go and move on…Aarti Khurana

Why Couples Who Argue Love Each Other More


Relationships usually begin with hearts and butterflies. 

Everything is fine and dandy. You agree with each other and you compromise. But, as the relationship moves past the “honeymoon stage,” you start to show opinions, differences, and your individual personalities. It is then that you experience a fluctuation in the harmony of the union. A relationship gets tested. If you can have healthy arguments, you can truly learn from one another.

Arguing is a major form of communication. 

It shows individualism, different perspectives and the ability to teach each other. Arguments aren’t necessarily an indicator that there are problems in a relationship. Psychiatrist explains that arguing well requires skills that take time to build. Here are five of his suggestions:

* Don’t insist on being right
* Speak up as soon as you feel anger rising
* Listen
* Stick to the topic at hand
* Don’t say something you will regret

Why Couple Who Argue Love Each Other More

Arguing doesn’t determine that a relationship is suffering.  

Having arguments can actually indicate that two people have their own individual ideas and opinions. They can bring them to the table and share them in a healthy manner. Relationships that do not argue can be withdrawn and full of tension, as neither party wants to share their thoughts to not hurt each other. They may bottle it all up. The lack of arguing can also be expressed as a lack of engagement to the relationship. There may be a problem with trust. Perhaps you need to ask yourself the following questions:

How committed are you if you can express your own ideas? 

Are you afraid of stepping over boundaries? In your relationship, can you truly be your authentic self? Are you afraid to speak your ideas and opinions?

Dr. Stephanie Sarkis, shared on Psychology Today, that there are seven ingredients to a healthy and happy relationship, and arguing is one of them. She goes on to explain, “I’ve never seen a healthy couple that doesn’t argue. They never fight, however – they argue. If a couple comes into my office and tells me they’ve never argued, something isn’t quite right. You can argue without fighting. Arguing is non-combative – you and your partner state your points of view without name-calling or raising your voice. Sometimes you agree to disagree – and that’s okay. Figure out what your ‘non-negotiables’ are – the things that you will not budge on. Now rethink that list. I like the saying, You can either be right, or married.”

There will always be challenges and conflicts in a relationship. 
Once the initial stages pass on to stability and longevity, people tend to fall into their own territories again. They want to be heard and understood, follow their passions, and be acknowledged for who they are. Couples who argue are expressing their desires to be heard. When done constructively, it isn’t fighting. It is expressing their needs. And happy couples hear each other. In a moment of heavy discussion. they will stand their ground, and this is a sign of mutual respect. You can respect and show vulnerability.
There is a difference between angry fighting and truly expressing your thoughts in a relationship. 

Military: A Beautiful True Love Story


One day, a young guy and a young girl fell in love.

But the guy came from a poor family. The girl’s parents weren’t too happy.

So the young man decided not only to court the girl but to court her parents as well. In time, the parents saw that he was a good man and was worthy of their daughter’s hand.

But there was another problem: The man was a soldier. Soon, war broke out and he was being sent overseas for a year. The week before he left, the man knelt on his knee and asked his lady love, “Will you marry me?” She wiped a tear, said yes, and they were engaged. They agreed that when he got back in one year, they would get married.

But tragedy struck. A few days after he left, the girl had a major vehicular accident. It was a head-on collision.

When she woke up in the hospital, she saw her father and mother crying. Immediately, she knew there was something wrong.

She later found out that she suffered brain injury. The part of her brain that controlled her face muscles was damaged. Her once lovely face was now disfigured. She cried as she saw herself in the mirror. “Yesterday, I was beautiful. Today, I’m a monster.” Her body was also covered with so many ugly wounds.

Right there and then, she decided to release her fiance from their promise. She knew he wouldn’t want her anymore. She would forget about him and never see him again.

For one year, the soldier wrote many letters—but she wouldn’t answer. He phoned her many times but she wouldn’t return her calls.

But after one year, the mother walked into her room and announced, “He’s back from the war.”

The girl shouted, “No! Please don’t tell him about me. Don’t tell him I’m here!”

The mother said, “He’s getting married,” and handed her a wedding invitation.

The girl’s heart sank. She knew she still loved him—but she had to forget him now.

With great sadness, she opened the wedding invitation.

And then she saw her name on it!

Confused, she asked, “What is this?”

That was when the young man entered her room with a bouquet of flowers. He knelt beside her and asked, “Will you marry me?”

The girl covered her face with her hands and said, “I’m ugly!”

The man said, “Without your permission, your mother sent me your photos. When I saw your photos, I realized that nothing has changed. You’re still the person I fell in love. You’re still as beautiful as ever. Because I love you!”

A Newly Married Husband saved his Wife’s number on His Mobile as…


A newly Married Husband saved his Wife's number... on his mobile as... "My Life".. 

After one year of marriage he changed the number to "My Wife".. 

After 2 years of marriage he changed the number to "Home"..
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After 5 years of marriage he changed the number to "Hitler"..!!
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After 10 years of marriage he changed the number to "WRONG NUMBER "..!!! 

Wife: You had lunch?


Husband(in fun mood) : You had lunch? 


Wife : I am asking You. ... 


Husband : I am asking You. 


Wife: You copying me? 


Husband: You copying me? 


Wife: Lets go shopping 


Husband: I had lunch.

I Am Addicted To You - A Sad Love Story


Phone call *

Boy: Hey, baby!

Girl: Hey.

Boy: I missed you at office today. Why weren’t you there?

Girl: Yeah, I had to go to the doctor.

Boy: Oh my God, are you okay??

Girl: Silence

Boy: Sweetie!! Talk to me!!

Girl: I . . .

Boy: You what?? YOU WHAT???

Girl: I have CANCER and I’m on life support.

Boy: *breaks into tears*

Girl: They’re taking me off tonight.

Boy: Why??

Girl: I wanted to tell you, but I couldn’t .

Boy: Why didn’t you tell me?

Girl: I didn’t want to hurt you.

Boy: You could never hurt me.

Girl: I just wanted to see if you felt about me the same as I felt about you.

Boy: …?

Girl: I love you more than anything. I would give you the world in a heartbeat. I would die for you and take a bullet for you.

Boy: (crying)

Girl: Don’t be sad. I love you and I’ll always be here with you.

Boy: Then why did you break up with me?

Nurse: Young man, visiting hours are over.

(The boy leaves and later that night the girl is taken off of life support and dies, but what the boy didn’t know is that the girl only asked him those questions so she could hear him say it one last time. She only broke up with him because she knew she only had 3 more weeks left to live and thought that it would cause him less pain and give him time to get over her before she died.)

NEXT DAY The boy is found dead with a gun in one hand and a note in the other.

THE NOTE SAID:

“I told her that I would take a bullet for her, just like she said she would die for me.”

put this on your profile this if it touched you heart.

True Love Is Acceptance


A man and his girlfriend were married. All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony.

The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black suit. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true. 

A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal: “I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage.” she offered. “Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together.”

The husband agreed, so each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.

The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists. “I’ll start,” offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it enough to fill 3 pages, in fact. As she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband’s eyes. “What’s wrong?” she asked. “Nothing” the husband replied, “keep reading your lists.”The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over top of it. 

“Now, you read your list and then we’ll talk about the things on both of our lists.” She said happily. Quietly the husband handed over his page to her. It was blank. He Said , “I am sorry . I don’t have anything on my list. You are perfect the way that you are. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn’t want to try and change anything about you.” The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her hugged him and wept. 

Remember Nobody’s PERFECT but we can find PERFECTNESS in anybody.

6 Signs You're In The Wrong Relationship



Relationships can get messy. And that's only because we're capable of feeling intense emotions rapidly, sometimes so fast that we forget to take a step back every now and then to really think about what's going on.

Sometimes those intense initial feelings you have for one another can keep your relationship happy for a short time, but eventually there has to be something else that takes its place.

Otherwise, you're likely to succumb to the boredom, fear, anger and frustrations of an unhappy relationship. Here are six signs you're in the wrong relationship and need to move on:

You're starting to resent them


Falling out of love with your partner can happen, but when you start to have feelings of hate or contempt for them, it's a sign that things are about to get bad. Don't let yourself become bitter and fearful.


You blame each other for everything

You think that everything wrong with the relationship is their fault, while they think the same about you. Of course, you both know that neither person is 100 percent to blame. But you're not about to let the other person know that. Time to move on.

You're entirely different from each other

If you like to be outside in the mountains all day, but your partner won't get off the couch for more than five minutes, certain needs and desires will eventually feel unfulfilled if both partners are not okay with the other's lifestyle.

Maybe the two of you met and had an instant connection, but as time went on you started to realize that you don't actually have much in common. These differences can be a dealbreaker.

You're not being yourself

If you've noticed that you've lost a lot of what it meant to be you, you might want to step back and re-evaluate things. If we're not growing and changing for the better when we're with someone, or are actually getting worse, then it's a sign that things are not right. Your partner should bring out the best version of yourself.

You fantasize about being with other people

While you might not be physically cheating on your partner, fantasizing about a life that doesn't include them is a form of emotional cheating. Daydreams and visions of a better life with someone else, even if they're not real, is telling that you're currently unsatisfied.

You're not really trying

A great way to tell if you really want to be in a relationship is whether or not you care. If you're feeling more and more apathetic as the relationship moves forward, there really is no point in throwing time, money and effort at it, is there?

If you're bored with a relationship and can't find a reason to care, it's a sign to move on without each other. Apathy is the opposite of love.

Want To Be Married


When people walk out of your life let them go if they honestly ever wanted to be there in the first place they would never chose to leave.When you truly love anyone you never even consider that person out of your life for even a day...if they leave appreciate your friends and family that never left your side, but were there for you at your darkest, loneliest moments as those that really love you and can always no matter what be counted on.Those people would never abandon you, they care too much to ever hurt you.In life, you meet one person besides family that wants to spend their life with you and when you meet that one right person there's never any reason to ever have to worry because that right person will be your soul mate, they will be there, they will be supportive, your best friend, you will be their top priority,there will always be trust and communication just between the two of you not shared with others.

“I don't want to be married just to be married. I can't think of anything lonelier than spending the rest of my life with someone I can't talk to, or worse, someone I can't be silent with.”

5 Common Mistakes That Will Hurt Your Relationship (And How To Avoid Them)


Communication is key to any loving, healthy and strong relationship.

Through simple mistakes, and careless words, that communication can be twisted. To avoid these mistakes you have to simply slow down, breathe deep and follow the advice below.

Don't Tune Them Out As You Form Your Opinion

Conversations are not cycles of you talking and listening just enough to form a response. If you don't fully invest in the conversation at hand, you are disrespecting your partner and not reacting appropriately. What you have to say is only part of the conversation, and your partner's opinion is a crucial part of the problem and solution.

They Don't Deserve Judgments

Your partner deserves better than judgments, they deserve to be heard and understood. You shut down potential solutions when you judge. Not only is it not productive, but you wouldn't want to be judged, so keep it fair and give them the benefit of the doubt.

Actively And FULLY Listen

Actively listening is a skill that you have to build up and a beautiful gift you can give your partner. Clear your mind and put aside your formations. Listen to the words they say and explore their meaning. Ask probing questions to better understand them. Make lots of eye contact and don't interrupt.

Assumptions Never Help

Assumptions detract from the truth. the truth we fabricate is specifically designed to cater to our fears and desires, basically our egos. Only by exploring the truth of the situation and our partner's position can any genuine and productive solutions can occur. Don't waste your time and energy with assumptions, or the trouble they cause. You will have to deal with the assumption's effects plus the original problem.

Don't Shut Down Or Resort To The Silent Treatment

As the argument heats up, or you find yourself far beyond your comfort zone, acknowledge your feelings and relay them to your partner. It's is fair to ask for a break in the conversation or argument. Be sure to remind them you aren't avoiding the subject, and BE SURE to get back to them after you cool down.

You can always preface the conversation by honestly and non aggressively explaining where you are emotionally.

8 Thoughts That Keep You From Leaving A Person Who Doesn’t Deserve You!


If you are in a relationship that is unfulfilling or, worse, makes you feel bad about yourself, scared or depressed, you are not alone. Sometimes this relationship pattern is repeated throughout the woman’s life. Here are the thoughts you might hold about yourself that could be keeping you from seeking and allowing a better relationship.

1. Not Beautiful Enough
When you look in the mirror, what do you see? If your first thoughts are criticisms of your appearance, then you probably have a negative view of yourself and perhaps you don’t think you are attractive enough to find the kind of man you really want.
2. Unworthy
If you feel guilt or shame, you will feel unworthy and you won’t allow a better partner into your life. On a subconscious level, you will find ways to sabotage potential relationships with a better partner.
3. Not the Right Social Class
If you grew up poor, a part of you might always feel you are at a lower social class than others who grew up with more money.
4. Cannot Survive on My Own
Some women feel they do not have the skills, strength, education or talent to survive in the world without a partner. This leaves them more vulnerable to staying in a relationship with the wrong man out of fear that they won’t be able to survive if it ends.

5. Love means Putting up with Problems

Many women feel they must put up with problems, even serious ones, because they were taught that they are obligated to do so in a relationship.
6. I am not Important
If you don’t feel like you matter, then you won’t seek the relationship you really deserve.

If Your Girl Does One of These 15 Things, Do Not Let Her Go:

Humanity was created in a manner that enables two such opposites to come together and become one. Identifying your other half is an intense journey, but the rewards are fantastic. If you are fortunate to pinpoint that lady, that rare jewel, then hold on to her as tightly as you can.

1. If she respects your Privacy
You might know a person who screwed up as quickly as he identified his sweetheart. However, maybe the lady became too possessive. So, if your girl lets you have quality time with your buddies, you are very fortunate.
2. If She Trusts You
Stories of how women attempt to unlock their men’ phones are increasingly famous. But if you look carefully, it ruins many relationships considerably. It is wonderful, certainly, to have someone who trusts you completely.
3. She does not take your excuses seriously
If your lady does not buy your excuses, never leave her. Such women want to see you achieve your dreams. Such girls strengthen you, and they support you throughout your life.
4. She’s smarter than you
Every male needs a smarter lady to help him survive life’s troubles. The adage that attributed a man’s success to a woman is quite popular. Without such a woman, your ego might do more harm than good. If a smarter woman comes into your life, that ego turns into confidence.
5. She’s gorgeous
Beauty is always in the eyes of the beholder. If she is incredibly beautiful, then she is worth it. These days, some people put excessive emphasis on the looks. Individuals should learn how to appreciate such beauty.

5 Signs He’s Serious With You



In dating world, Men can play cool at first and its hard to know if his serious with you or not, below are signs that he’s really into you a lot, enjoy!

1. He calls you Like Every time.

If a guy calls you anytime or like when you expect his call that’s a sign his into you, he will call you in the morning, mid-day and during nights to wish you good night, shows how much he cares for you.

2. He wants to see Like Every time.

As for me when am interested on someone, I will do anything just to see them, Even when am so held up, I will get time for her, so if any guy wants to see you as often as he wants he’s really into you.

3. He Gets Jealous When your with other guys.

Jealousy is one thing that shows someone cares about you, so long as his not possessive. So when he gets jealous and starts asking about who those guys are or what you are to them is a good signs He wants to be with you and his serious about you.

4. He talks a lot about you to his friends.

You know how hard men can be to talk about their woman, so If all he talks about when his with friends is about you then you should be lucky cause his serious about you.

5. He spends His Free Time With you Mostly.

Most men will go out on weekends to have fun, it takes that serious man who wants to be with you to spend his quality free time, even when he has no time, he will find one for you .

6 Differences Between A Man Who Loves You And A Man Who Is Poisoning Your Life

Love is hard to find, and it’s even harder to know whether or not it’s real when your feelings cloud your judgement. However, deep down we all have that voice in the back of our head that won’t shut up. We convince ourselves it’s fear, and maybe sometimes it is, but if you really do wonder whether or not the man you’re with is there for the right reasons, then take a look at these six differences between a man who loves you and one who is poisoning your relationship and wasting your time.


1. Respectful vs. Tolerant
A man who loves you will respect you and admire you for your strong opinions. On the opposite end of the spectrum are men who will tell you that you’re wrong or agree to let you think what you want without believing that your opinion is as equally valid and important as theirs, no matter how different the two may be.
2. Encouraging vs. Controlling
Men who love a woman want her to be the best version of herself. He’ll encourage her to pursue new opportunities and experiences. He may introduce her to plenty of new things, but he’ll never force her into something she’s uncomfortable with or make her feel bad about herself for not doing something he wanted her to.
3. Honest vs. Cruel
If you ask him how you look in a pair of jeans and he says you should change, that doesn’t mean he’s evil or thinks you’re gross. Would you honestly want him walking around in a shirt that didn’t fit properly?
Men who love women will tell them what they need to hear. The truth may sting a little in certain situations, but his words never should. A man who tells you to lose weight insults the things you like, your style or anything else about you doesn’t do so out of love; he does it because he doesn’t respect you and knows he can get away with talking to you that way.

Meaning of Marriage and Love


A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.

Then he saw another bigger one... But may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, "...this is love... You keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person...."

"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, "This time you bring back a corn.... You look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.... This is marriage.

When I say I love you


When I say I love you, I don’t say it just for the sake of saying it. When I say I love you …I want you to know that deep in my heart I have a feeling that we were always meant to be. I visualize us spending the rest of our lives together in each other’s arms. I see us cooking together, I see us growing old together , I see us fighting and making up, I see us sleeping and waking up in each others arms, I see us watching sunsets and watching the night sky together. I see us living with each other and living for each other. So When I say I love you …Just remember that I see us …TOGETHER FOREVER..Aarti Khurana