A Complicated Girl with Simple Needs

“What you are is a complicated girl with simple needs. You need your books and time to read, and you need a few friends and you need someone-not to take care of you, but to care for you. If you have all those things, you'll always be alright.”

My needs are simple even though my life’s seriously complicated and hopelessly tangled. I have my family and friends as well as several local libraries to feed my voracious thirst for reading. What more do I want or need. ~ Margaret Young 

Every girl needs a man; the kind that will treat you right as well as others; the kind that has enough respect for himself, family, and others; the one that will change for you to just be with you. The kind that searches for you with his heart, the kind that can be trusted alone with a room full of many other beautiful ladies, the kind that won’t cheat on you cause he knows he’s got all he wants and needs already, the kind that’s willing to be your friend and lover, the kind that doesn’t mind calling early in the morning to say good morning and late at night to say good night; maybe even sing you a good morning and tell you a good night story or talk to you until you fall asleep. That kind that will do anything for you, even if it’s just to buy your favorite kind of candy. The kind that will defend and fight for you, the kind that won’t ditch you for his friends when you need him the most, the kind that won’t leave you lonely and wondering. The kind that isn’t afraid to smile to his friends every time you’re around and tell them, “She’s the one.” The kind that appreciates you for the things to do for him, even if they’re small gestures. The kind that actually thanks you for the little love notes you leave him, the kind that is willing to wait for you when you’re falling behind, the kind that will actually open the door for you, take you out on dates once in a while and buy you flowers cause it’s a Wednesday. The kind that notices your hair when you just got it cut or done beautifully for him, the kind that reminds you that he loves you and that he’s happy with you in case you forget. The kind that kisses your forehead when you’re down, the kind that tells you to be strong and not to cry, the kind that will go through thick and thin with, and for you, the kind that just loves you for who you are. That kind of man, that’s the kind you keep.

The Person Who Cares Lot For Other..

The person who cares lot for others, is the one who needs more care than others. The person who makes others laugh and smile all the time, is the one who holds lot of pain in heart. The person who tries to be a good friend to all, is the one who needs a best friend for own.The person who always smile and says,”I’m fine” is the one who is broken at heart. But still strong enough to believe that at end everything is GOING TO BE FINE. 

“Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, Nothing is going to get better. It's not.”~ Dr. Seuss, The Lorax

What is the meaning of 'gossip?' Doesn't it originate with sympathy, an interest in one's neighbor, degenerating into idle curiosity and love of tattling? Which is worse, this habit, or keeping one's self so absorbed intellectually as to forget the sufferings and cares of others, to lose sympathy through having too much to think about? ~ Lucy Larcom

When you love and accept yourself, when you know who really cares about you, and when you learn from your mistakes, then you stop caring about what people who don't know you think. ~ Beyonce Knowles

How do you move on?

How do you move on? You move on when your heart finally understand that there is no turning back.

“You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened... or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on.” ~ Tupac Shakur

“It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.” ~ Nicholas Sparks

Every experience, every person, every place we find ourselves in, is meant to be, for it leads us to the next persons, places things we are meant to experience. Also: Change is inevitable, growth is optional. ~ Kelly Stewart

Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have - life itself.~ Walter Anderson

Which People Really Loves You?

In the end, you'll know which people really love you. They're the ones who see you for who you are and no matter what, always find a way to be at YOUR SIDE.

“We can throw stones, complain about them, stumble on them, climb over them, or build with them.”~ William Arthur Ward

Sometimes we realize it later in life, but never to late to see the truth , and life goes on. ~ Maria Lalli

Just because a person smiles all the time

Just because a person smiles all the time, doesn't mean their life is perfect. That smile is a symbol of Hope and Strength.

Let my soul smile through my heart and my heart smile through my eyes, that I may scatter rich smiles in sad hearts. ~ Paramahansa Yogananda

What sunshine is to flowers, smiles are to humanity. These are but trifles, to be sure; but scattered along life's pathway, the good they do is inconceivable. ~ Joseph Addison

You may not always have a comfortable life and you will not always be able to solve all of the world's problems at once but don't ever underestimate the importance you can have because history has shown us that courage can be contagious and hope can take on a life of its own. ~ Michelle Obama

“All that is gold does not glitter,
Not all those who wander are lost;
The old that is strong does not wither,
Deep roots are not reached by the frost.

From the ashes a fire shall be woken,
A light from the shadows shall spring;
Renewed shall be blade that was broken,
The crownless again shall be king.” 
― J.R.R. Tolkien

My Wonderful Man

If you have a wonderful man who is your whole world, who isn't perfect, but perfect for you, who works hard and would do anything for you.Who treats you with respect and dignity. Who makes you laugh, who is your best friend and sometimes your only friend, who you want to grow old with (if you don't kill him first) who you are thankful for everyday, then feel free to share this as your status.

It takes a real man to handle you, embrace your imperfections, tell you the truth no matter how brutal it is, never give up on you no matter how hard it is, pleasure you, treat you like you're the only one, and give up the game.

If you want to be a real human being - a real woman, a real man - you cannot tolerate things which put you to indignation, to outrage. You must stand up. I always say to people, 'Look around; look at what makes you unhappy, what makes you furious, and then engage yourself in some action.'~ Stephane Hessel

Don't do something

Don't do something permanently stupid just because you are temporarily upset.

Every day we have plenty of opportunities to get angry, stressed or offended. But what you're doing when you indulge these negative emotions is giving something outside yourself power over your happiness. You can choose to not let little things upset you. ~ Joel Osteen

God is not upset that Gandhi was not a Christian, because God is not a Christian! All of God's children and their different faiths help us to realize the immensity of God. ~ Desmond Tutu

When you're happy you don't always have to be laughing, and when you're sad you don't have to be crying; sometimes it's the opposite. You laugh when you're the most upset. ~ Freddie Highmore

I am sorry to upset my colleagues by saying we wasted four years in opposition, but if you do get so badly defeated as a party you do have to face up to some painful facts and you do have to change. ~ Kenneth Clarke

Why a sister is so special?

Your sister is always the first female friend you will have in your life. Nobody will ever be able to understand your craziness like your sister and although you don't see each other as much as you'd like, she will always remain your friend and be there for you when you need her the most. While people will come and go in your life, your sister will be in your heart for a lifetime. If you have a sister that you love with all your heart..

“Sister. She is your mirror, shining back at you with a world of possibilities. She is your witness, who sees you at your worst and best, and loves you anyway. She is your partner in crime, your midnight companion, someone who knows when you are smiling, even in the dark. She is your teacher, your defense attorney, your personal press agent, even your shrink. Some days, she's the reason you wish you were an only child.” ~ Barbara Alpert

“Sisters, as you know, also have a unique relationship. This is the person who has known you your entire life, who should love you and stand by you no matter what, and yet it's your sister who knows exactly where to drive the knife to hurt you the most.” ~ Lisa See

Sister is probably the most competitive relationship within the family, but once the sisters are grown, it becomes the strongest relationship. ~ Margaret Mead

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Don’t worry about the family that ignores you

Never give up on your children. Sometimes you shouldn’t worry about the family who chose to ignore you no matter how many time you try to make them part of your life and they don’t reciprocate but when it comes to your kids, always worry about them and Never give up on them. I know they hurt us sometimes and it can be difficult but pray and hang in there.

Don't worry about the family that ignores and acts like don't matter, love the ones who are always there for you no matter what.

Many times, the decisions we make affect and hurt your closest friends and family the most. I have a lot of regrets in that regard. But God has forgiven me, which I am very thankful for. It has enabled me to forgive myself and move forward one day at a time. ~ Lex Luger

Isn’t it sad that there are so many broken families? If that is your situation, there comes a time when you must rise above the pain and go forth doing what makes you most happy with people who sincerely care for you. Always keep an open heart for those that have hurt you, forgive them quickly and pray for them. ~ Gloria Gharib 

I don't like talking unnecessarily, and my communication skills are zilch. I just can't converse with people. Maybe it's because of my stuttering or stammering, but I'm not confident of talking with people. I only talk to very close friends and family. ~ Pritam Chakraborty

Sometimes you find the wrong person at the right time

Sometimes you find the right person at the wrong time. sometimes it’s the wrong person at the right time. but when you find the right person, at the right time, in the right situation, it’s because you’re meant to be together. fate has grabbed both of your hands. Don't let go!

“There are no coincidences in life. What person that wandered in and out of your life was there for some purpose, even if they caused you harm. Sometimes, it doesn’t make sense the short periods of time we get with people, or the outcomes from their choices. However, if you turn it over to God he promises that you will see the big picture in the hereafter. Nothing is too small to be a mistake.”~ Shannon L. Alder

If you find the right person at the wrong time and are just trying to forget them because you got your confidence back then they weren’t the right person. It’s during the hard times that the right person will let themselves be seen or heard. If he cares he will at least make a attempt to see you. He will let you know that he is not going anywhere. He will also let you know that he doesn’t mind waiting. If he is the right person in your eyes then you have to have a little faith that things will work out. If it’s meant to be sometimes you have to let it go and if it comes back to you then you know he was the right one. When you do find the right person forget the situation and just focus on them. ~ Jeffrey Boone 

There are time whens you want to say or feel things but you don't, as we end up thinking if it's right or wrong. But we forget feelings does not have boundaries unlike the norms of life made by us... Sometimes it's better to let them flow.

Tired of being in the When Am I going to find a love club, I've come close, get a dose, but it just ain't enough. Right guy, wrong time, Right time, wrong guy. What's the use? Why even try?

If they are the right person at the wrong time, don’t take second best just because you think they will never come back around. If they really are the one, they will always find a way back into your life. ~ Gracie Casey


9 tips to work out a long distance relationship

Today is truly the tech age. People manage work from home. They can be best friends with someone who is half way around the world. They can have a love interest is in a different continent. In such a modern, tech savvy age, long distance relationships are no strange thing to people. It might be that your spouse has to move to a different city or country for work or that your new boyfriend is somebody you met online and lives in a different continent. It can be that you both met at a friend’s wedding and now one of you has to head back to their home country. Several scenarios, several reasons, but it all boils down to one thing – a long distance relationship. Those three words can be quite frightening to some people, mostly because long distance relations don’t usually work for long.

Several reasons like lack of hanging around, lack of trust and time differences can result into a break up. But is it really that difficult to work it out? Of course, no one wants to be in a long distance relationship forever, but if it is temporary or for a couple of years, and you really love your partner, don’t you think it deserves an honest try?

Some tips to work out a long distance relationship:

How you can make a difference in someone’s life?

"To make a different in someone's life you don't have to be brilliant, rich, beautiful or perfect. You just have to care."

A smile is the light in your window that tells others that there is a caring, sharing person inside. ~ Denis Waitley

Nobody can predict the future. You just have to give your all to the relationship you're in and do your best to take care of your partner, communicate and give them every last drop of love you have. I think one of the most important things in a relationship is caring for your significant other through good times and bad. ~ Nick Cannon

The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years. ~ Audrey Hepburn

Love is something you give and not expect anything in return enjoying the moment is best few hours of true love a thousand years living a lie.

Best Relationship Advice

One of the best things you can do for your relationship is to do more for yourself. Be independent, have your own opinions, enjoy your own interests. Even harder for some of us, do for yourself the things you want done, give yourself the things you want to receive. Now I’m not suggesting that you become selfish and only do things for yourself. Not at all! But you know those things you want from your loved ones? The things they seem unable or unwilling to give? What if you gave them to yourself? If you love art galleries, instead of waiting for someone to go with you, go by yourself. Instead of waiting to be invited to dinner, do the inviting. Instead of hinting about what you want, ask for it. Waiting for someone else to bring you flowers puts pressure on them and denies you the pleasure of enjoying those blooms. Instead, plant your own garden, decorate your own soul, take responsibility for your own happiness. And then if someone brings you flowers, it will be an added joy.

One of the best message:

One of the best message:

As soon as you die, your identity becomes a "Body". People use phrases like: "Bring the Body", "Lower the Body i n the Grave", "Take the Body to the Grave yard", etc. People Don't Even call you by your Name whom you tried to Impress whole Life.... Live a Life to Impress the Creator not the Creation. Take chances.. Tell the truth... Learn to say NO...Spend money on the things u love... Laugh till your stomach hurts... Dance Even if u are too bad at it... Pose stupidly for photos... Be child-like..... 

Moral: Death is not the greatest loss in life. Loss is when life dies inside you while you are alive. Celebrate this event called LIFE.

Moles On The Face And What They Mean?

The Chinese Almanac, also known as the Tung Shu, is commonly known as the book of auspicious and inauspicious dates, but there is so much more to Tung Shu than that. This is a huge source of information relating to astrology, codes and symbols derived wise sages and philosophers of ancient China. In this issue, we bring to you the secrets from the almanac regarding moles on the face and what they mean depending on which part of your face they appear.

First, check your face for any moles, and then look at the pic above to determine the number(s) that are closest to the moles on your face. As a rule, praying only hold meaning for you if they are prominent and they are the only one. If your face if full of spots, acne or "little" they say, they do not count. When you set that corresponds to the position of a mole on your face, look at the values ​​listed numbers below.

One of the most courageous decisions you'll ever make

One of the most courageous decisions you'll ever make is to finally let go of what is hurting your heart and soul. -Brigitte Nicole

“Love is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever. A feeling comes and it may go. How can I judge that it will stay forever, when my act does not involve judgment and decision.” ― Erich Fromm

“She looked like the kind of woman I could fall in love with. Trouble is, she was standing next to the kind of woman I’d like to make love to. 
” ― Jarod Kintz

“Life has no victims. There are no victims in this life. No one has the right to point fingers at his/her past and blame it for what he/she is today. We do not have the right to point our finger at someone else and blame that person for how we treat others, today. Don’t hide in the corner, pointing fingers at your past. Don’t sit under the table, talking about someone who has hurt you. Instead, stand up and face your past! Face your fears! Face your pain! And stomach it all! You may have to do so kicking and screaming and throwing fits and crying- but by all means- face it! This life makes no room for cowards.” ― C. JoyBell C

“Waiting hurts. Forgetting hurts. But not knowing which decision to take can sometimes be the most painful...” ― José N. Harris


7 Reasons why true love is selfless

Love is a deep emotion. Some think it is about caring for someone, some think it is pure obsession about someone, some think its selfish and you must get everything what you want from the person. But the truth is that, true love is the most selfless emotion of all. In true love, you don’t expect anything, you don’t want anything, you are free of all kinds of obsession, and you just want the person to be happy with their life. True love is indeed selfless and doesn’t demand anything from the person you love. 

Let’s see a few reasons why true love is selfless.

My soul is getting tired

If my world were to cave in tomorrow, I would look back on all the pleasures, excitements and worth whilenesses I have been lucky enough to have had. Not the sadness, not my miscarriages or my father leaving home, but the joy of everything else. It will have been enough. ~ Audrey Hepburn

People are sad. People are broke. People are worried about money, people are worried that they're not enough and not amounting to anything and they don't feel good about themselves. People have rough times, and everybody's pretending it's not true, and we need to break that veneer. ~ Eve Ensler

You left and I cried tears of blood. My sorrow grows. Its not just that You left. But when You left my eyes went with You. Now, how will I cry? ~ Rumi

If my world were to cave in tomorrow, I would look back on all the pleasures, excitements and worthwhilenesses I have been lucky enough to have had. Not the sadness, not my miscarriages or my father leaving home, but the joy of everything else. It will have been enough. ~ Audrey Hepburn

I am slowly learning that some people are not good for me, no matter how much I love them. I deserve someone who is gentle and kind, because my soul is getting tired. Realizing that I deserve something good is one of the first steps. 
Michelle K., Why I Need To Say Goodbye To You.

It is truly rare to find true love

It is truly rare to find true love. I have so much respect and admiration for couples who share love all through their lifetime. They are blessed to know what love really is. “for richer or poorer, in sickness or in health, till death do you part.”

True love is not a strong, fiery, impetuous passion. It is, on the contrary, an element calm and deep. It looks beyond mere externals, and is attracted by qualities alone. It is wise and discriminating, and its devotion is real and abiding. ~ Ellen G. White

True love doesn't happen right away; it's an ever-growing process. It develops after you've gone through many ups and downs, when you've suffered together, cried together, laughed together.~ Ricardo Montalban

True Love is not perfect, it’s accepting and loving one another unconditionally regardless of imperfection, it’s accepting that perfection and happiness is in the eye of the beholder. If you can love, laugh and be happy through the roller coaster of life then you have found true love and should cherish it always. ~ Sharlene Oates

I love my husband very much. I knew it was real true love because I felt like I could be myself around that person. Your true, true innermost authentic self, the stuff you don't let anyone else see, if you can be that way with that person, I think that that's real love. ~ Idina Menzel

What Makes a Happy, Successful Marriage? 9 Psychological Factors

What Makes a Happy, Successful Marriage? 9 Psychological Factors

There are several factors that play a vital role in making marriages successful or unsuccessful. Psychologists have conducted studies to narrow down the essential factors that contribute to a successful marriage. Dr. Judith S. Wallerstein, PhD, gathered 50 couples who had been happily married for at least 9 years and had children together and conducted separate and joint interviews.

Wallerstein also conducted follow-up interviews after 2 years and concluded that there are 9 psychological factors, which she refers to as pillars, on which happy marriages rest.

Here they are:

1. Separation of emotions from one’s childhood

It’s important to detach yourself from your childhood family to build strong connections with your adult family. This does not mean estrangement, maintain and balance the relationships with both families and forge a separate identity from your siblings and parents.

Fake people are only nice

Fake people are only nice when it’s convenient for them or they usually have a hidden agenda. Genuinely nice people go out of their way to help others and they have an honest heart. Stick with the ones who never let you down and keep their promises. You can’t fake that.

“I hate fake people. You know what I’m talking about. Mannequins.” ~ Jarod Kintz

“Always sleep with one eye open. Never take anything for granted. Your best friends might just be your enemies.” ~ Sara Shepard

Bad food is made without pride, by cooks who have no pride, and no love. Bad food is made by chefs who are indifferent, or who are trying to be everything to everybody, who are trying to please everyone... Bad food is fake food... food that shows fear and lack of confidence in people's ability to discern or to make decisions about their lives. ~ Anthony Bourdain

Confidence and empowerment are cousins in my opinion. Empowerment comes from within and typically it's stemmed and fostered by self-assurance. To feel empowered is to feel free and that's when people do their best work. You can't fake confidence or empowerment. ~ Amy Jo Martin

If there ever comes a day when we can’t be together

“If there ever comes a day when we can't be together, keep me in your heart.I'll stay there forever.”

“Some things don't last forever, but some things do. Like a good song, or a good book, or a good memory you can take out and unfold in your darkest times, pressing down on the corners and peering in close, hoping you still recognize the person you see there.” ~ Sarah Dessen

“What i like about photographs is that they capture a moment that’s gone forever, impossible to reproduce.” ~ Karl Lagerfeld

There will never be a day we won’t be as close as we are right now, you’ve always been by my side and helped me through so much and only good friends like you and I can still be this close even with distance between us. I love you all and miss you so much my friend. ~ Judy Slaney 

Good friends care for each other, close friends understand each other. But true friends stay forever. Beyond words, Beyond distance, Beyond time.

Love is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever. A feeling comes and it may go. How can I judge that it will stay forever, when my act does not involve judgment and decision.

Not every one comes in your life to stay forever. Only a few enter in such a way that even if they go away tomorrow they leave a mark on your heart that will always stay. Such people live with you forever, even if they're miles apart. Thanks for being such a person. Happy Thanksgiving! 

The real power of a man

The real power of a man is in the size of the smile of the woman sitting next to him.

Power is of two kinds. One is obtained by the fear of punishment and the other by acts of love. Power based on love is a thousand times more effective and permanent then the one derived from fear of punishment. ~ Mahatma Gandhi

Every man builds his world in his own image. He has the power to choose, but no power to escape the necessity of choice. ~ Ayn Rand

Love him or hate him, Trump is a man who is certain about what he wants and sets out to get it, no holds barred. Women find his power almost as much of a turn-on as his money. ~ Donald Trump

Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power. ~ Abraham Lincoln

I am the kind of girl who never gives up and fights till the end.

I am the kind of girl who never gives up and fights till the end. Maybe I am a little shattered but I m not broken. I may be a little disheartened but I have not given up the hope to achieve what I want from my life. I have some scars on my heart and soul but I’m still beautiful. I have forgiven people and I am trying to forget what they did to break me down.. But I don’t regret my past anymore because I just want to live my life beautifully. I am confident that somehow I will make it through. Aarti Khurana

No Woman Deserves Pain And Agony…

Women are meant to be admired, cherished, treasured and loved. A woman falls in love with a man to give him everything she has with all her vulnerability, honesty and sincerity. She doesn’t deserve to be dumped or abandoned without even an explanation. She doesn’t deserve comparisons and jealousy. She doesn’t deserve pain and agony just because she fell in love. So every man who gets into a relationship for physical pleasure and sexual satisfaction is a coward because No WOMAN deserves…Tears ,Shattered hopes ,Broken promises, Heartbreaks ,Physical abuse, Emotional cheating, Disrespect and Disloyalty. If a man can’t treasure the love of a woman and stay sincere to her for an entire lifetime he actually doesn’t deserve the love of a woman…Aarti Khurana

I love you means:

“I love you” means that I accept you for the person that you are, and that I do not wish to change you into someone else. It means that I will love you and stand by you even through the worst of times. It means loving you even when you’re in a bad mood, or too tired to do the things I want to do. It means loving you when you’re down, not just when you’re fun to be with. “I love you” means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them, asking in return that you do not judge me for mine. It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love you enough not to let go. It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly, and hoping you feel the same way for me. ~ Jonathan Safran Foer

“Love. It seemed impossible that she could love him, but she was so deep in him there was really nowhere to go but further in. So this is what love was. Uncontrollable. Consuming. But so irresistible you wanted to be consumed.” ~ Dianna Hardy

“I think for a time I was unsure what love meant. And now at least I AM sure that a very big part of it involves caring about someone SO much, that you find yourself using Your energy to make their life the BEST it can possibly be. And in turn they do the same for you. Until you both are strong enough to overcome whatever struggles you might have battled on your own, and also struggles you still have yet to face.” ~ Bethany Brookbank

“I loved him because I knew him. Because I'd seen the man he truly was inside, and it never failed to amaze me. I loved him for his heart and his strength. For his endless compassion and his unbreakable spirit even in the face of everything he'd been trough. I loved him because he was the person I wanted to be, and I was a better person just trough the privilege of knowing him.” ~ Julianna Scott

When a girl tells you about her problems

When a girl tells you about her problems, it does not mean she complains. It means she trusts you.

To all us girls: Place your heart into the hands of God and he will place it into the hands of a mans who believes he deserves it.

People talk a lil too much...you never know just who to trust.

Cannot trust anyone these days. Fake is becoming the new trend.

Smart girls are the over thinkers, the insecure ones, the different ones. They know what the real world is like. They analyze every little thing in life. Why? To avoid getting hurt. To find happiness. They stay up at night trying to think about every possible situation to get through all problems. They think too much. They trust less people. Their insecurity proves their respect toward themselves. Of course they live away from a drama-filled life. Smart girls know their worth, now that's the ones worth keeping by your side.

Behind every untrusting girl, is a boy who lied, cheated, broke his promises to her.

The person you are meant to be with

The person you're meant to be with will never have to be chased, begged, or given an ultimatum.

As much it hurts to see them walk away watch them walk away because you don’t want to hold on to someone that doesn’t want to be held. People want to love these days only when things go right & as soon as things get hard they want out. God has that special someone for you. Just be patient & be still. ~ Blanca Salomon

You don’t have to try and make it happen, you just have to be open to letting it happen.

5 things you can't recover in life;

5 things you can't recover in life; 
1) A stone after its thrown. 
2) A word after its said. 
3) An occasion after its missed. 
4) Time after its gone. 
5) Trust after its lost.

“You will lose someone you can’t live without,and your heart will be badly broken, and the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your broken heart that doesn’t seal back up. And you come through. It’s like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly—that still hurts when the weather gets cold, but you learn to dance with the limp.” ~ Anne Lamott

Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.

This life, which had been the tomb of his virtue and of his honour, is but a walking shadow; a poor player, that struts and frets his hour upon the stage, and then is heard no more: it is a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing. ~ William Shakespeare

The truth is you don't know what is going to happen tomorrow. Life is a crazy ride, and nothing is guaranteed. ~ Eminem

When A Woman Loves A Man…

No matter how strong a woman is …there is this one man in her life for whom she has a weak and soft corner in her heart. This is the man she loves unconditionally. She will forgive him for all his mistakes and accept him with all his flaws and imperfections because she can’t love another man for the rest of her life. She will never question his past and never make him feel jealous of other men. She will never give up on this man and she can do anything in this world for this man because she loves him with all her heart and her soul….Aarti Khurana

What Is Love All About ?

Love is when you have seen the absolute worst in each other and you still keep coming back in each others arms despite the fights, despite the arguments, despite the conflicts and despite the mood swings.. BECAUSE… Love is when no matter how tough it gets to be together….you do what ever it takes stay together… Aarti Khurana

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses. ~ Ann Landers

I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge. That myth is more potent than history. That dreams are more powerful than facts. That hope always triumphs over experience. That laughter is the only cure for grief. And I believe that love is stronger than death. ~ Robert Fulghum

I think there is no market for your emotions

I think there is no market for your emotions, so never advertise your feelings, just display your attitude.

“We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.” ~ Kurt Vonnegut

“There is so much about my fate that I cannot control, but other things do fall under the jurisdiction. I can decide how I spend my time, whom I interact with, whom I share my body and life and money and energy with. I can select what I can read and eat and study. I can choose how I'm going to regard unfortunate circumstances in my life-whether I will see them as curses or opportunities. I can choose my words and the tone of voice in which I speak to others. And most of all, I can choose my thoughts.” ~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Positive feelings come from being honest about yourself and accepting your personality, and physical characteristics, warts and all; and, from belonging to a family that accepts you without question. ~ Willard Scott

Humans aren't as good as we should be in our capacity to empathize with feelings and thoughts of others, be they humans or other animals on Earth. So maybe part of our formal education should be training in empathy. Imagine how different the world would be if, in fact, that were 'reading, writing, arithmetic, empathy.' ~ Neil deGrasse Tyson

I appreciate honesty

Honesty is the rarest wealth anyone can possess, and yet all the honesty in the world ain't lawful tender for a loaf of bread. ~ Josh Billings

There is an interaction and action, reaction between two people. One should show honesty in a relationship. Be honest to your partner and tell him everything. How long can you do things with dishonesty and that's wrong. Don't get into a relationship if you can't be honest. ~ Randeep Hooda

A sarcastic person has a superiority complex that can be cured only by the honesty of humility. ~ Lawrence G. Lovasik

Honesty is the best policy - when there is money in it. ~ Mark Twain

I appreciate honesty more than anything. If you tell me what it is up front, you gave me the option to take it or leave it. I respect that.

If a person wants to be a part of your life

If a person wants to be a part of your life, they will make an obvious effort to do so. Think twice before reserving a space in your heart for people who do not make an effort to stay.

When people make you feel unwanted

When people make you feel unwanted, don’t leave to make them feel sad or guilty, they won’t. Leave because you no longer have a reason to stay. Sometimes you have to be strong for yourself. What’s meant to be will end up good and what’s not – won’t. Love is worth fighting for, but sometimes you can’t be the only one fighting. At times, people need to fight for you. If they don’t, you just have to move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you.

It hurts the worst when the person that made you feel so special yesterday, makes you feel so unwanted today.

A common measure of poverty is how much money you have in relation to other people - that is useful as far as it goes, but that excludes the case of, say, a hunter in the rainforest who has no money but is not poor. And there can be a number of people with money but who can consider themselves unwanted or invisible or estranged from society. ~ William T. Vollmann

You can sell millions of records, be showered with all this love and admiration and still feel despised and unwanted. That's what I felt. I've made a lot of mistakes I'm not proud of. ~ Scott Stapp

If you love someone make sure they know it

If you love someone make sure they know it or someone else will.

If you love someone who is ruining his or her life because of faulty thinking, and you don't do anything about it because you are afraid of what others might think, it would seem that rather than being loving, you are in fact being heartless. ~ William Wilberforce

Don't do anything by half. If you love someone, love them with all your soul. When you go to work, work your ass off. When you hate someone, hate them until it hurts. ~ Henry Rollins

Most important thought, if you love someone, tell him or her, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store. ~ Walter Payton

When you have it and if you don’t know how to take care of it, he will be gone. Some people do not know how to appreciate love that’s why there’s so many divorce and separation. You have to treat you partner the way you want to be treated. ~ Frances Lopez

A stronger heart continue to love after it’s been hurt

“Prayer is not asking. It is a longing of the soul. It is daily admission of one's weakness. It is better in prayer to have a heart without words than words without a heart.” ~ Mahatma Gandhi

“And now here is my secret, a very simple secret: It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.” ~ Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

“One love, one heart, one destiny.” ~ Bob Marley

One who still believes there is hope for love regardless of past broken loves, to me is not just a strong heart but an inward determination and willingness to still hold onto wanting to love and to be loved and to be keep apart of your heart open to it. ~ Margaret Saba 

It takes a strong heart to love but it takes a stronger heart to continue to love after it's been hurt.

When a friend does something wrong to you

When a friend does something wrong, don't forget all the things they did right.

A true friend freely, advises justly, assists readily, adventures boldly, takes all patiently, defends courageously, and continues a friend unchangeably. ~ William Penn

My best friend is the man who in wishing me well wishes it for my sake. ~ Aristotle

One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives. ~ Euripides

When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. ~ Henri Nouwen

Don't Worry About The People Who Hurt Or Hate You

Don't worry about the people who hurt or hate you, worry about the people who love you, because that's where your happiness is.

“Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.”~ Dr. Seuss

“Sometimes crying or laughing are the only options left, and laughing feels better right now.” ~ Veronica Roth

“When someone is crying, of course, the noble thing to do is to comfort them. But if someone is trying to hide their tears, it may also be noble to pretend you do not notice them.” ~ Lemony Snicket

“Crying is all right in its way while it lasts. But you have to stop sooner or later, and then you still have to decide what to do.” ~ C.S. Lewis

Intelligent people always ignore.

Weak people revenge. Strong people Forgive. Intelligent people ignore.

I look for strong people. I don't like people who'll say yes to everything I might bring up. I want people who can argue and disagree and have a point of view that's reflected in the magazine. My dad believed in the cult of personality. He brought great writers and columnists to 'The Standard.' ~ Anna Wintour

Strong people make as many mistakes as weak people. Difference is that strong people admit their mistakes, laugh at them, learn from them. That is how they become strong. ~ Richard J. Needham

Smart people wait for karma. Everyone I’ve ever known who tried to hurt me ended up with karma coming back at them and I never had to do anything for it to happen, can’t even say I sat back and watched. Let God deal with it and move on. ~ Brenda Watson 

I look for strong people. I don't like people who'll say yes to everything I might bring up. I want people who can argue and disagree and have a point of view that's reflected in the magazine. My dad believed in the cult of personality. He brought great writers and columnists to 'The Standard.' ~ Anna Wintour

God will provide - Joke

A young woman brings home her fiancee to meet her parents. After dinner, her mother tells her father to find out about the young man. The father invites the fiancee to his study for a drink.

"So what are your plans?" the father asks the young man.

"I am a Torah scholar," he replies.

"A Torah scholar. Hmmm," the father says. "Admirable, but what will you do to provide a nice house for my daughter to live in, as she's accustomed to?"

"I will study," the young man replies, "and God will provide for us."

"And how will you buy her a beautiful engagement ring, such as she deserves?" asks the father.

"I will concentrate on my studies," the young man replies, "God will provide for us."

"And children?" asks the father. "How will you support children?"

"Don't worry, sir, God will provide," replies the fiancee.

The conversation proceeds like this, and each time the father questions, the young idealist insists that God will provide.

Later, the mother asks, "How did it go, Honey?"

The father answers, "He has no job and no plans, but the good news is he thinks I'm God."

Don’t be afraid of losing someone

The art of being happy is to be satisfied with what you have.

DON'T be afraid of losing someone who doesn't feel lucky to have you.

Open your eyes, look within. Are you satisfied with the life you're living? ~ Bob Marley

Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. ~ Steve Jobs

After time goes by, it does get easier & better. I have learn to live without him in. My life and today and can truly say that I deserved better. ~ Alba Perez

Who is Happy?

A Crow Lived in the Forest and was absolutely satisfied in life. But one day he saw a swan… This swan is so white and I am so black…crow thought.

This swan must be the happiest bird in the world.

He expressed his thoughts to the swan. “Actually,” the swan replied,

When you are

Every day we have plenty of opportunities to get angry, stressed or offended. But what you're doing when you indulge these negative emotions is giving something outside yourself power over your happiness. You can choose to not let little things upset you. ~ Joel Osteen

God is not upset that Gandhi was not a Christian, because God is not a Christian! All of God's children and their different faiths help us to realize the immensity of God. ~ Desmond Tutu

When you're happy you don't always have to be laughing, and when you're sad you don't have to be crying; sometimes it's the opposite. You laugh when you're the most upset. ~ Freddie Highmore

I am sorry to upset my colleagues by saying we wasted four years in opposition, but if you do get so badly defeated as a party you do have to face up to some painful facts and you do have to change. ~ Kenneth Clarke

Don't do something permanently stupid just because you are temporarily upset.

Be careful not to hurt people

“Be careful not to hurt people, they can begin to love you less. The pain you cause can chisel their hearts, until there's nothing left.” ~ Brigitte Nicole

I really believe I've been a good person. Not perfect - forget about perfect - but just learning by what I was taught and living by my own values. I might have stepped on a few ants - and a few other things as well - but I've never hurt anybody. ~ Kiri Te Kanawa

Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them. ~ Dalai Lama

If someone decides they're not going to be happy, it's not your problem. You don't have to spend your time and energy trying to cheer up someone who has already decided to stay in a bad mood. Believe it or not, you can actually hurt people by playing into their self-pity. ~ Joyce Meyer

Truth is everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for. ~ Bob Marley

DON`T marry a rich man.

DON`T marry a rich man. Marry a good man. He will spend his life trying to keep you happy. No rich man can buy that.

I believe in soulmates, yes, but I believe you also have to work at love. I happen to believe your soulmate doesn't have to be your partner - your soulmate could be your best friend, your sibling, it doesn't have to be the person you marry. ~ Cheryl Cole

Men marry because they are tired; women, because they are curious; both are disappointed. ~ Oscar Wilde

The institution of marriage works better when there's a spiritual connection. If you're marrying just for the sake of the woman, then you may lose interest in each other very soon. When we marry in the interest of the Holy Spirit with the intention of serving God and humanity, then it gives a much larger perspective. ~ A. R. Rahman

Don't marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can't live without. ~ James Dobson

Whom to get married?

When people get married because they think it's a long-time love affair, they'll be divorced very soon, because all love affairs end in disappointment. But marriage is a recognition of a spiritual identity. ~ Joseph Campbell

Do not marry the person that you can live without but marry the person that you can’t live without. ~ Leny Maglente

You don't marry someone you can live with – you marry the person who cannot live without.

If you don’t want to marry, you’re not in love and you’re just wasting everyone time and space on the couch. ~ Audra Beard 

Marry someone you want to sit next to for the rest of your life.

Don't come to my funeral

Don't come to my funeral to show me how much you cared about me. Show me now how much you care, how much I mean to you, whilst I'm still alive.

When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive - to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love. ~ Marcus Aurelius

Keep your dreams alive. Understand to achieve anything requires faith and belief in yourself, vision, hard work, determination, and dedication. Remember all things are possible for those who believe. ~ Gail Devers

The hours I spend with you I look upon as sort of a perfumed garden, a dim twilight, and a fountain singing to it. You and you alone make me feel that I am alive. Other men it is said have seen angels, but I have seen thee and thou art enough. ~ George Edward Moore

Challenge is the pathway to engagement and progress in our lives. But not all challenges are created equal. Some challenges make us feel alive, engaged, connected, and fulfilled. Others simply overwhelm us. Knowing the difference as you set bigger and bolder challenges for yourself is critical to your sanity, success, and satisfaction. ~ Brendon Burchard