Judge people by their actions, not words

"You're going to come across people in your life who will say all the right words at all the right times. But in the end, it's always their actions you should judge them by. It's actions, not words, that matter." - Nicholas sparks

You can't please everyone. When you're too focused on living up to other people's standards, you aren't spending enough time raising your own. Some people may whisper, complain and judge. But for the most part, it's all in your head. People care less about your actions than you think. Why? They have their own problems! ~ Kris Carr

I think we judge talent wrong. What do we see as talent? I think I have made the same mistake myself. We judge talent by people's ability to strike a cricket ball. The sweetness, the timing. That's the only thing we see as talent. Things like determination, courage, discipline, temperament, these are also talent. ~ Rahul Dravid

Actions are the result of choices made. If the same choices keep being made and actions not changing decide if this is the best life for you, release and let go with love. ~ Keryl Jamieson

Don't judge me. You wanna judge me, put on a black gown and get a gavel. Get in line with the rest of them that's about to judge me. I got court dates every other month. It's me against the world - that's how I feel. ~ Lil Wayne

A New Year's Prayer to help those in need.

A New Year's Prayer to help those in need.

May all of my family members and friends who need a New Year miracle be blessed. May whoever has had a bad year face this New Year with hope in their heart.

May all of those who have had heavy burdens this year have their load lightened and the opportunity to enjoy the New Year. and May the person reading this prayer have a happy and prosperous new year.

Share this New Year's prayer on your wall for all of those who may need it.

What is your "New year's Prosperity name?"

What is your "New year's Prosperity name?"

Could your name hint at what 2015 has in store for you?

Its easy to find out your "New Year Prosperity name" Just take the first initial of your first name and the number of the month you were born. Put them together and you have your prosperity Name.

Just a little fun for the New Year :-)

May 2015 bring you good fortune and many blessing.

Here are some New Year 2015 Wishes Greetings that are sure to touch the hearts of the recipients :

I wish that the New Year turns out to be a very special one for you filling each day with peak of health, abundance of happiness and sunshine, bountiful luxury and prosperity and Zen like serenity.

Here is wishing a very happy and prosperous New Year to a person who brings sunshine to the family always.

May your days be as glittery as diamond, may your friends be as good as gold, may your heart stay as green as emerald, and may your soul remain as pure as pearl.

Some people can’t be replaced if they left

Some people come into your life and you just know you will never be able to replace them if they left.

Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future. ~ John F. Kennedy

You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of. ~ Jim Rohn

“Why do you go away? So that you can come back. So that you can see the place you came from with new eyes and extra colors. And the people there see you differently, too. Coming back to where you started is not the same as never leaving.” ~ Terry Pratchett

Not a moment goes by in our lives that someone, something, things you can or can’t touch or hear make all of us special and unique. Passing forward little gifts, smiles, etc may be the very thing someone needs at that moment and like a domino that circles the universe we can’t change what comes next but certainly can cherish and love everyone that comes into our life. People that have moved away are still with me every moment of the day and night. Sometimes it is hard to remember the forgotten moments but I sincerely believe God keeps their heart and soul alive in all of us. ~ Connie Edwards

Definition of best relation?

Definition of best relation: The relation is the best one, in which yesterday's fights do not stop today's communication.

“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”~ Jess C. Scott,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.” ~ C.G. Jung

“I mean, if the relationship can't survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?” ~ Nicholas Sparks

We've got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can't just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it's going to get on by itself. You've got to keep watering it. You've got to really look after it and nurture it. ~ John Lennon


Success isn’t written in the stars, it’s in the length of your fingers.

Choose The People You Want In Your Life.

It is you who has to decide who stays in your life and who doesn’t. You will come across many people in your life. They will all have a purpose to fulfill. Some will teach you a lesson and some will leave your soul wounded. Some will love you for their selfish motives and some will love you unconditionally. Some will cheat you, lie to you and stab you in your back. Learn from the lessons life teaches you and don’t waste your time on people who are there in your life for their convenience and who never take you seriously. Don’t allow people to use you for their happiness. Just be Strong and don’t let anything break you or leave you shattered. Choose the people whom you want in your life ~ Aarti Khurana

Sensitive People.

“Sensitive people are the most genuine and honest people you will ever meet. There is nothing they won’t tell you about themselves if they trust your kindness. However, the moment you betray them, reject them or devalue them, they will end the friendship. They live with guilt and constant pain over unresolved situations and misunderstandings. They are tortured souls that are not able to live with hatred or being hated. This type of person needs the most love anyone can give them because their soul has been constantly bruised by others. However, despite the tragedy of what they have to go through in life, they remain the most compassionate people worth knowing and the ones that often become activists for the broken-hearted, forgotten and the misunderstood. They are angels with broken wings that only fly when loved.” ― Shannon L. Alder

Accept! They aren’t that person anymore

Sometimes you just have to erase the messages, delete the numbers, and move on. You don't have to forget who that person was to you; only accept that they aren't that person anymore.

Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have - life itself. ~ Walter Anderson

Forgiving does not erase the bitter past. A healed memory is not a deleted memory. Instead, forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember. We change the memory of our past into a hope for our future. ~ Lewis B. Smedes

Ask yourself is that what you want? Is that what you deserve? Do you want to stay in that drama? Do you really love yourself? Do you want to move on to something better? Ask yourself those questions and you will see. Never let that solitude makes you go back with someone who you know is not for you. It’s ok to be alone for a while, learn to love yourself, respect yourself and enjoy life.~ Andy Jean

You build on failure. You use it as a stepping stone. Close the door on the past. You don't try to forget the mistakes, but you don't dwell on it. You don't let it have any of your energy, or any of your time, or any of your space. ~ Johnny Cash

When you miss someone so much

“They say when you are missing someone that they are probably feeling the same, but I don't think it's possible for you to miss me as much as I'm missing you right now” ~ Edna St. Vincent Millay

Once, years ago, I dreamt about my parents (both deceased) and ached for missing them. The dream seemed very real. My parents were in it, looking at me and smiling. We were able to hug each other one last time. I actually felt it and that sensation lingered for several days. Occasionally, I can feel their arms around me even now. ~ Sue Tremaine 

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real.

“Anyway, it doesn't matter how much, how often, or how closely you keep an eye on things because you can't control it. Sometimes things and people just go. Just like that.” ~ Cecelia Ahern

I would hold you if only my arms could reach you. Since you’ve been gone, I can’t hardly breath. My heart can’t stop bleeding. A part of me is gone that I’ll never get back. After being with you for 13 years, I’m just lost now. I love you with every best of my heart. From now until eternity. One life, One love! Forever! ~ Edie Rose

Hold on or let go

We are often let down by the most trusted people and loved by the most unexpected ones. Some make us cry for things that we haven’t done, while others ignore our faults and just see our smile. Some leave us when we need them the most, while some stay with us even when ask them to leave. The world is a mixture of people. We just need to know which hand to shake and which hand to hold! After all that’s life, learning to hold on and learning to let go.

When you are loved by the most unexpected person in our life it is worth considering this person could hold a part of them that can connect to you and make a balance. Each of us fall short from time to time but there are those who give of themselves in a very special way. Hold on or let go depends on how it is with that person. Are they someone that inspires you and not let you down? Consider how they make you feel -do they bring out the best in you? The qualities that a person has could make you feel that they are a part of you especially when these qualities are shared and they can be the most beautiful person you know.

Never apologize for being sensitive or emotional.

Never apologize for being sensitive or emotional. Let this be a sign that you’ve got a big heart and aren’t afraid to let others see it. Showing your emotions is a sign of strength. Author ~ Brigitte Nicole

Never ruin an apology with an excuse. ~ Benjamin Franklin

Never apologize for showing feeling. When you do so, you apologize for the truth. ~ Benjamin Disraeli

Sincere forgiveness isn't colored with expectations that the other person apologize or change.

Don't worry whether or not they finally understand you. Love them and release them.
Life feeds back truth to people in its own way and time. ~ Sara Paddison

Never apologize, mister, it’s a sign of weakness. ~ John Wayne

Sorry I painted the word 'twat' on your garage door. ~ David Shrigley

Never apologize for having high standards. People who really want to be in your life will rise up to meet them. ~ Suman Rai

There’s something you’re afraid to say someone

I’m afraid to love someone with all my heart, because it hurts so much when I lose them. I lost two loves of my life in the past 8 yrs. They were 4yrs. Apart, they both are now my angels watching over me. ~ Valerie Koss

For years I put up a facade because of my fear of getting hurt and I realized that I can’t be me until I let go of all my fears. ~ Retchel Bermejo

“Maybe there's something you're afraid to say, or someone you're afraid to love, or somewhere you're afraid to go. It's gonna hurt. It's gonna hurt because it matters.”~ John Green

I truly believe that everything that we do and everyone that we meet is put in our path for a purpose. There are no accidents; we're all teachers - if we're willing to pay attention to the lessons we learn, trust our positive instincts and not be afraid to take risks or wait for some miracle to come knocking at our door. ~ Marla Gibbs

To be a champion, I think you have to see the big picture. It's not about winning and losing; it's about every day hard work and about thriving on a challenge. It's about embracing the pain that you'll experience at the end of a race and not being afraid. I think people think too hard and get afraid of a certain challenge. ~ Summer Sanders

8 Secret Woman Keep From Men

A woman may give you her heart and her body, but there are certain things a woman will always keep from the man she’s in a relationship with. They keep these secrets in the vault for a reason, mainly to spare your feelings or because they’re too afraid to admit what’s really on their minds. Here are eight of the most common secrets women keep hidden from the men in their lives.

The best Cosmetics in Life

The Best Cosmetics in Life: 
TRUTH – for lips, 
SYMPATHY – for eyes, 
PRAYER – for voice, 
CHARITY – for hands, 
SMILE – for face and
LOVE – for heart.
Use them well and make Life Beautiful!

Life is a song - sing it. Life is a game - play it. Life is a challenge - meet it. Life is a dream - realize it. Life is a sacrifice - offer it. Life is love - enjoy it. ~ Sai Baba

Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like. ~ Lao Tzu

A life is not important except in the impact it has on other lives. ~ Jackie Robinson

Intimacy is not purely physical

Intimacy is not just about sleeping with someone or being able to get physical pleasure out of a relationship. In a sweet and loving relationship intimacy is not purely physical; it’s the act of connecting with someone so deeply, you feel like you can see into their soul. 

Physically I love being with my husband but its hot working in Texas. Heat so I big long hug cuddling sitting watching tv is all I need. I melt in his arms when we need to ho to sleep, His hugs and words make my world perfect and make my stress go away. I love my husband so much, his not my number one, he’s my only one. ~ Karen Anderson 

A home with a loving and loyal husband and wife is the supreme setting in which children can be reared in love and righteousness and in which the spiritual and physical needs of children can be met. ~ David A. Bednar

Intimacy goes beyond the “physical intimacy” (i.e. sex) and, in fact, may exist even without it. It is a very close connection with someone else as a result of a bond that is formed through the knowledge and experience of the other. Genuine intimacy requires dialogue, transparency, vulnerability and reciprocity. It’s wonderful, although it is actually quite rare. ~ Calin Gheorghiu 

Sometimes we may ask God for success, and He gives us physical and mental stamina. We might plead for prosperity, and we receive enlarged perspective and increased patience, or we petition for growth and are blessed with the gift of grace. He may bestow upon us conviction and confidence as we strive to achieve worthy goals. ~ David A. Bednar

Being Strong

“All that is gold does not glitter,
Not all those who wander are lost;
The old that is strong does not wither,
Deep roots are not reached by the frost.

From the ashes a fire shall be woken,
A light from the shadows shall spring;
Renewed shall be blade that was broken,
The crownless again shall be king.” 
― J.R.R. Tolkien

Sometimes, being strong is to forgive in the name of love, to make someone smile when our own heart is broken, to comfort a friend when we ourselves needed help and to keep faith when we have lost hope. ~ Brigitte Nicole

To make someone smile when your own heart is broken because that person’s happiness is more important than my own.

True love is not a strong, fiery, impetuous passion. It is, on the contrary, an element calm and deep. It looks beyond mere externals, and is attracted by qualities alone. It is wise and discriminating, and its devotion is real and abiding. ~ Ellen G. White

Letting go of someone dear to you

Letting go of someone dear to you is hard but holding on to someone who doesn't even feel the same is much Harder.

It is always more difficult to hold on to someone who does not feel the same. In the long run the best decision made is letting go of someone who does not feel the same for us. We all deserve to be with someone who in return wants to be with us. ~ Oscar Perdomo 

The first step towards healing is to ask yourself, “For what reason am I holding onto this person? What am I getting out of holding on? What do I fear will happen if I let go?” ~ Blair Robinson

“The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.” ― Steve Maraboli

“If you want to forget something or someone, never hate it, or never hate him/her. Everything and everyone that you hate is engraved upon your heart; if you want to let go of something, if you want to forget, you cannot hate.” ~ C. JoyBell C.

Hurting back the people who hurt you

Hurting back the people who hurt you, makes you just like them.

Hurting people serves no purpose. It is a waste of time even thinking about them. Karma happens, we have to let it go, in time they will evaporate just like a tear that you may have shed over them when they hurt you. ~ Linda McMinis

Truth is everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for. ~ Bob Marley

Many times, the decisions we make affect and hurt your closest friends and family the most. I have a lot of regrets in that regard. But God has forgiven me, which I am very thankful for. It has enabled me to forgive myself and move forward one day at a time. ~ Lex Luger

Let God Fight Your Battles because if you don’t you’re going to mess it up but If You Let Go And Let God he will step in and make everything alright. ~ Charesse Jeter

Love is not about Sex

“Love is a cheap word. Anyone can say it, and few truly know what it means.” ~ Julianna Scott

Love is not about Sex, going on fancy dates, or showing off. It's about being with a person who makes you happy in a way nobody else can.

Some people think love is just talking kind, warm and cute words to each other, love is just telling “I love you”, is just being together and having fun. But reality is a bit different and love is hard. So what the true love meant to be? It's caring of someone you love, being with him when he needs your help, doing everything to protect and look after him.

To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him first.

Stop trying to know what love means, just live it and experience it. Whether if it is the good or the bad, because trying to know what it is from someone else's meaning, will not have the same meaning to you.

When you care for someone

Give yourself whatever gifts of time and rest you need to feel better and know that you're surrounded by caring thoughts and prayers and heartfelt wishes. Rest easy. Get well.

Nobody cares how much you know, until they know how much you care.~ Theodore Roosevelt

You cry and you scream and you stomp your feet and you shout. You say, 'You know what? I'm giving up, I don't care.' And then you go to bed and you wake up and it's a brand new day, and you pick yourself back up again.~ Nicole Scherzinger

Nobody can predict the future. You just have to give your all to the relationship you're in and do your best to take care of your partner, communicate and give them every last drop of love you have. I think one of the most important things in a relationship is caring for your significant other through good times and bad. ~ Nick Cannon

When you care for someone more than they deserve, you get hurt more than you deserve.

She’s the woman who believes

She’s the woman who believes that what comes around goes around. The one who hopes for a better day. The one who won’t give up on you. She’s the woman who’s unlike the rest. The one who spent her days smiling, and her nights crying. She’s the woman who would love to be loved. The one who looks so damn strong, but feels so weak. She’s the woman who picks herself up every time she falls.

I'm that woman and i've learned to love myself inspite of life. I still have hope for better things to come and God is there because he will never leave me nor forsake me. Amen,been there done that,But God gives me my strength, I am never alone with Him by my side. We are all THAT woman at one time or another, I find strength to know that I have tried in the past and that I am still trying, never giving up.. 

Be mature enough to walk away from the nonsense

In most cases we need to learn to turn the other cheek and I am learning with age that the Good pride in life doesn’t mean fighting/arguing when someone says something against you, it means that your strong enough to ignore it and focus on the people who are not putting you down. Or if what there saying is true, to be open to improving ourselves. ~ Mandy Wilson 

I love those who can smile in trouble, who can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection. 'Tis the business of little minds to shrink, but they whose heart is firm, and whose conscience approves their conduct, will pursue their principles unto death. ~ Leonardo da Vinci

Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will. ~ Mahatma Gandhi

Silence is a source of great strength. ~ Lao Tzu

It took me a while to learn this, but once I started doing it, it was so liberating and I got the last laugh too. Try it, you won’t regret. ~ Laurie Relyea

If you find someone who checks up on you

“If you find someone who makes you smile, who checks up on you often to see if you’re okay. Who watches out or you and wants the best for you. Who loves and respects you. Don’t let them go. People like that are hard to find.”

“Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.” ~ Dr. Seuss

“I was smiling yesterday,I am smiling today and I will smile tomorrow.Simply because life is too short to cry for anything.” ~ Santosh Kalwar

The bad thing is when you care so much to a person then they don’t appreciate what your doing just for them. ~ Irvin Garcia

“If you're reading this... Congratulations, you're alive. If that's not something to smile about, then I don't know what is.” ~ Chad Sugg

How you will find your perfect life partner?

When you truly love a person, you see beyond imperfection. You see her innate beauty and value beyond reproach and compare. So the next time you’re tempted to “whine” when reality starts to set in, go back to the times when all you see in that person is more than perfection. It’s you’re love that completes, complement and perfect that imperfect person. ~ Ace Gregorio Lagasca

Nobody can predict the future. You just have to give your all to the relationship you're in and do your best to take care of your partner, communicate and give them every last drop of love you have. I think one of the most important things in a relationship is caring for your significant other through good times and bad. ~ Nick Cannon

Sometimes, in order to follow our moral compass and/or our hearts, we have to make unpopular decisions or stand up for what we believe in. It can be difficult and even frightening to go against the grain, whether it's a personal disagreement with a friend, partner, or family member or a professional decision that affects coworkers and colleagues. ~ Tabatha Coffey

Your perfect person says it all. They don’t have to be perfect, just have to be perfect for you. No one is perfect but people are so perfect for each other. ~ Sheral Jackson 

Perfect is when you find the one that matches almost close to everything you need, want and can accept for the rest of your life. That is perfect!

It has been said, “time heals all wounds.

It has been said, “time heals all wounds.” I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone” ~Rose Kennedy

“Time heals nothing, it merely rearranges our memory.”~ Gary Numan

Time heals nothing. It’s what you do with the time to help yourself to heal. Even then the scars remain making you into a different person. We are constantly growing and changing from life’s experiences. That’s why we’re here, to learn and grow and change. Some wounds are so deep that the most you can hope for is accepting that part of your history and moving forward to create a better history for yourself. ~ Shelley Flitcroft 

“The emotion that can break your heart is sometimes the very one that heals it...” ~ Nicholas Sparks

“They say time heals all wounds, but that presumes the source of the grief is finite” ~ Cassandra Clare

Hurting someone can be easy as throwing a stone in the sea

Hurtful words spoken cannot be taken back. Wound may be healed by an apology, but the scar remains.

“Don't worry about hurting me, if that's what you're afraid of. I want to get hurt. At least I´ll feel something for a change.” ~ Katie Kacvinsky

Unforgivable! People are selfish because they don’t want to be hurt but they turn around and like hurting others. Of course they know how that feels but they just think it’s ok to hurt others. I would say when someone tries to hurt you, try to avoid the person and not letting it happens is the best way to fix the problem. It sounds not easy, but it could work. ~ Cherylin Phan

Perfect maturity is when a person hurt you and you try to understand their situation and don’t hurt them back.

Hurting someone can be as easy as throwing a stone in the sea. But do you have any idea how deep that stone can go?

“To be rejected by someone doesn't mean you should also reject yourself or that you should think of yourself as a lesser person. It doesn't mean that nobody will ever love you anymore. Remember that only ONE person has rejected you at the moment, and it only hurt so much because to you, that person's opinion symbolized the opinion of the whole world, of God.” ~ Jocelyn Soriano

I may not be pretty, I'm not rich

I may not be pretty, I'm not rich, I don't have a perfect body, but I have a good and warm heart for those who care. 

A Good Heart And A Good Nature Are Two Different Issues, A Good Heart Can Win Many Relationships, But A Good Nature Can Win An Sustain Life Long Relationship .

Your beautiful heart is everything believe me , not money or beauty. 

It is very important to generate a good attitude, a good heart, as much as possible. From this, happiness in both the short term and the long term for both yourself and others will come. ~ Dalai Lama

A good heart will help you to a bonny face, my lad and a bad one will turn the bonniest into something worse than ugly. ~ Emily Bronte

When someone Loves you

When you say something, it’s not what you say but how you say it will show the kind of attitude you have to the person.

When someone loves you, they don't always have to say it. You can always know it by the way they treat you. ~ Carson kolhoff

“Falling in love is very real, but I used to shake my head when people talked about soul mates, poor deluded individuals grasping at some supernatural ideal not intended for mortals but sounded pretty in a poetry book. Then, we met, and everything changed, the cynic has become the converted, the sceptic, an ardent zealot.” ~ E.A. Bucchianeri

Love is the flower of life, and blossoms unexpectedly and without law, and must be plucked where it is found, and enjoyed for the brief hour of its duration. ~ D.H. Lawrence

Words are nice when they are sincere, but don’t mean anything when not backed up with actions.

Meaning of Best Relationship?

Best relationship: Talk like best friends, play like children, argue like husband and wife, protect each other like brother and sister. 

“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”~ Jess C. Scott

A flower cannot blossom without sunshine, and man cannot live without love. ~ Max Muller

Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible - it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could. ~ Barbara de Angelis

Good relationships are not just about the good times you share; they’re also about the obstacles you go through together, and the fact that you still say “I love you” in the end.

What Door Would You Walk Through?



Pick the door that looks the most appealing to you. This might reveal a few things about your personality. Let us know what door you picked and if the answer was accurate for you. Feel free to SHARE!

Every Woman Is The Queen Of Her Life….

Respect every single woman you meet, every single woman you come across and every single woman you have in your life .Even if they are victims and survivors of abuse. Even if they live in little attics or old age homes. Even if they wear rags, torn or old worn out clothes. Even if they are poor, penniless, jobless and miserable. Even if they are not smart or pretty to look at. Even if they are single, divorced widowed or separated. Even if they are paralyzed, handicapped or bedridden for life. All of them…every single one of them..Don’t judge them by their social status or their relationship status because they are all fighting their own physical and emotional battles. EVERY WOMAN IS THE QUEEN OF HER LIFE… Aarti Khurana 

A Woman Can Forgive A Million Times..

When a woman loves a man from the depths of her heart and her soul she will forgive him a million times because she just can’t love another man for the rest of her life…Aarti Khurana 

A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man. ~ Lana Turner

A woman is like a tea bag - you can't tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water. ~ Eleanor Roosevelt

I believe marriage is between a man and a woman. I am not in favor of gay marriage. But when you start playing around with constitutions, just to prohibit somebody who cares about another person, it just seems to me that's not what America's about. Usually, our constitutions expand liberties, they don't contract them. ~ Barack Obama

The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years. ~ Audrey Hepburn

Someone who really loves you

Someone who really loves you sees what a mess you can be, how moody you can get, how hard you are to handle, but still wants you in their life.

“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”~ Jess C. Scott

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.” ~ Lisa Kleypas

You deserve the best and to be happy don’t ever forget that. It makes all your decisions the best they can be once you decide that. ~ Leslie McKenzie

Honey, you’ve seen the mess that I can be at times and you have encouraged me and steadfastly wanted me to remain in your life. I am very fortunate that you are the one that I fell in love with and that the you are the one who loves me unconditionally. ~ Al McCurdy

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.” ~ C.G. Jung

13 Sign's You're Wasting Life But You Can't Admit It

When you were a kid, did you want to grow up to be an astronaut, a singer or an engineer? If so, how’s that working out for you? Hopefully, it’s going great and you are living the life of your dreams. But for the rest of you who are not, here are 13 signs that you might be wasting your life… but you don’t want to admit it:


Video games. Reality TV. Surfing the ‘net. Stuffing your face with too much food. Drinking too much. And the list goes on. Take a serious look at your life. Where are you spending the majority of your time? And does it serve you well? Is it leading to a better life? Is it laying the foundation for a bright future? If not, then you need to reevaluate your routine activities and make changes.

When a Man is truly a Man?

A man who shows respect and good manners to all at all times, will win the heart of a woman he loves and this woman will want to respect him, and if he continues showing her respect and good manners, he will never lose her respect and trust but this goes to say about anyone’s trust and respect as unfortunately many times people show respect and trust until they think they possess/own the other and the respect and good manners go out the window and then obviously respect and trust is destroyed. Show respect and trust and you will receive respect and trust as it is earned. ~ Stéphanie Carter 

A man is truly a man when he wins the love of a good woman, earns her RESPECT and keeps her TRUST.

And the greatest lesson that mom ever taught me though was this one. She told me there would be times in your life when you have to choose between being loved and being respected. Now she said to always pick being respected. ~ Chris Christie

Respect is what we owe; love, what we give. ~ Philip James Bailey

You are not a man

Men are the ones who are given strength by God to protect women. So if you hurt a woman you are not a man.

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can't figure out what from.” ~ Mae West

“She didn't need to understand the meaning of life; it was enough to find someone who did, and then fall asleep in his arms and sleep as a child sleeps, knowing that someone stronger than you is protecting you from all evil and all danger” ~ Paulo Coelho

“People can have their opinions about everything in the world, but people's opinions end where the tip of my nose begins. Your opinions of others can only go so far as to where their own shoreline is. The world is for your taking, but other people are not. One is only allowed to have an opinion of me, if that person is done educating him/herself on everything about me. Before people educate themselves on everything about you, they're not allowed to open their venomous mouthes and have an opinion about you.” ~ C. JoyBell C.

“Protect your good image from the eyes of negative viewers, who may look at your good appearance with an ugly fiendish eye, and ruin your positive qualities with their chemical infested tongues.” ~ Michael Bassey Johnson

When I Was A Child?

When I was a child I was afraid of ghost… as I grew up I realized people are more scary.

Every child should have a caring adult in their lives. And that's not always a biological parent or family member. It may be a friend or neighbor. Often times it is a teacher. ~ Joe Manchin

There is no life to be found in violence. Every act of violence brings us closer to death. Whether it's the mundane violence we do to our bodies by overeating toxic food or drink or the extreme violence of child abuse, domestic warfare, life-threatening poverty, addiction, or state terrorism. ~ bell hooks

The greatest destroyer of peace is abortion because if a mother can kill her own child, what is left for me to kill you and you to kill me? There is nothing between. ~ Mother Teresa

Bravery is the capacity to perform properly even when scared half to death. ~ Omar N. Bradley

People say to me all the time, 'You have no fear.' I tell them, 'No, that's not true. I'm scared all the time. You have to have fear in order to have courage. I'm a courageous person because I'm a scared person.' ~ Ronda Rousey

When someone walks out of your life

When someone walks out of your life, let them. There's no use in wasting your time on people that leave you. What you make of yourself and your future is no longer tied to them. Yeah, you may miss them. But remember that you weren't the one that gave up.

I’m thankful knowing that I deserve way a lot more than what I do deserve. I’m a real good woman only been taken for granted but I’ve learned that those didn’t deserve me. He had opened my eyes for sure that there’s more opportunities and way a lot more mature, classy, well mannered gentlemen that can treat a really good woman like me. Don’t ever waist your time on bad people. They’re the weak ones who can’t finish and live life of knowing how to learn and take on life challenges in every way but to walk and they can only give up like cowards. ~ Molly Aylani

Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like. ~ Lao Tzu

Sometimes you have to walk away to be good to yourself. What’s left behind deserves to be left behind in many cases. ~ Thelma Corpas

This life, which had been the tomb of his virtue and of his honour, is but a walking shadow; a poor player, that struts and frets his hour upon the stage, and then is heard no more: it is a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing. ~ William Shakespeare

Why Most Relationship Fail ?

Most relationships tend to fail. Not because the absence of love. Love is always present. It's just that one was being loved too much and the other wasn't being loved enough.

“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.” ~ Jess C. Scott

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.” ~ Lisa Kleypas

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.” ~ C.G. Jung

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won't mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever.... connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.” ~ C. JoyBell C.

How you will find your perfect life partner?

You will find your perfect person when you realize there's no such things.

When you truly love a person, you see beyond imperfection. You see her innate beauty and value beyond reproach and compare. So the next time you’re tempted to “whine” when reality starts to set in, go back to the times when all you see in that person is more than perfection. It’s you’re love that completes, complement and perfect that imperfect person. ~ Ace Gregorio Lagasca 

Don't try to be somebody you're not because it doesn't work. If you try to be this perfect person or perfect persona of what you think that somebody should be when they're involved in public office, it's just not going to work. Just be yourself, stay true to your core values, and really just stay abreast of the issues. ~ Ben Quayle

There's no such thing as a perfect person, so it makes no sense to write a perfect person. I don't know any author who'd try. And we write characters, not representations of groups. ~ David Levithan

Your perfect person says it all. They don’t have to be perfect, just have to be perfect for you. No one is perfect but people are so perfect for each other. ~ Sheral Jackson

When you love someone, they are a part of you

That string is what will choke the life out of you when that person no longer loves you and no longer cares about or for you, that feeling becomes the wound where the dagger ripped into your heart and tore it to shreds, and that feeling you once loved becomes a bitter resentment because you will always feel that person you connected with in your soul. Even after they have abused and neglected the precious love you gave them. Yet because of that connection you can’t bring yourself to hate them for all the times they’ve hurt you. ~ Eve Odom 

Boy: What did one Leaf say to the other?
Girl: What?
Boy: I’m falling for you
(She smiles at him softly) 
Girl: Then what did the sand say to the tidal waves?
Boy: You tell me.?
Girl: Take me with you forever 

When you love someone, they’re a part of you. It’s like you’re attached by this invisible thread and no matter how far away you are, you can always feel them.

When you are sad or upset, always remember these points

When you are sad or upset, always remember these points:

Pain is part of growing. 
Everything in life is temporary. 
Worrying and complaining changes nothing.
Your scars are symbols of your strength. 
Every little struggle is a step forward. 
Other people’s negativity is not your problem.
What’s meant to be will eventually, BE. 
The best thing you can do is to keep going.

People dwell so much on the little things, but why should they hold you back when you have the big things to look forward to? By exuding positive energy when dealing with your problems, you will exude it in your being in general. Treat yourself with love and you will exude love to others. ~ Hayley Hasselhoff

I have my team. Like if you see everyone around me - I have my hair and makeup girl, my assistant. They're very calm, they're all about positive energy. There're no drama queens. Everyone wants everyone else to have a positive experience. There are no agendas. I think it creates a healthy environment and there are no boundaries to cross. ~ Fergie

Stop looking for a Life partner

“Stop looking for a partner. Focus on your goals and rebuilding your life. The right person will eventually find their way to you.” ~ Robert Tew

Successful people maintain a positive focus in life no matter what is going on around them. They stay focused on their past successes rather than their past failures, and on the next action steps they need to take to get them closer to the fulfillment of their goals rather than all the other distractions that life presents to them. ~ Jack Canfield

I'm someone who loves to enjoy life and tries to focus on real things and real friendships. That's why I live very simply. I'm a jeans and T-shirt kind of girl. I don't spend much time fixing myself up or trying to look cool. I live like a normal person and even though I'm in a very high-profile business, I really don't let it affect the way I live. ~ Cameron Diaz

It isn’t the life you want that will attract the right partner, it’s the life you are living. No waiting or wondering. No excuses or regrets. Be true to yourself in every moment, and your soul mate will see you for who you are supposed to be. ~ Beth Werner 

The “right person” is you yourself. You have to find happiness of your own. There will never be a right person. That is what I’ve learned in 67 years. ~ Shane Maa