If we date

If we date I don't want your passwords, or your phone. I just want the truth if I ask you about something.

Real love amounts to withholding the truth, even when you're offered the perfect opportunity to hurt someone's feelings.

Cheap Hearts can be bought with money and lies but the best Heart deserves nothing but Truth and Love.

There's a big difference between: I'm happy with you & I'm happy for You.

4 Ways To Stop Absorbing Other People’s Negative Energy

When you’ve let a chronically negative person into your life, it can be hard to evict their toxic energy once they’ve moved on. These are four useful ways to keep from absorbing that negative energy.

1. Take responsibility for yourself.

The way you feel and the things you do is completely up to you. Maybe we’re tested by some of the people who enter our lives, but all things considered, you’re the one in charge of how you feel. You simply must make a conscious decision not to be impacted by the energy of negative people. That’s step number one.

2. Take some time to breathe.

When I’m surrounded by negative vibes, I just pick up and leave and head to the woods. I spend time in nature because it makes me feel purified in a sense. Like all negativity is washed off of me. Once there, I breathe deeply. I smell the air. I let it revitalize me. When I inhale, I breathe in neutral energy. Once mine, I make it good. When I exhale, I breathe out the negative energy. It’s rather therapeutic.

When You Truly Care For Someone

When you truly care for someone, their mistakes never change your feelings because it's the mind that gets angry but the heart still cares.

Relationships don't last because of the good times, they last because the hard times were handled with love and care.

When I cry, I carry you in my tears. When I sleep, I carry you in my dreams. My ambition is to love and care, for I will always love you and you will be in my heart forever.

Sometimes when you show someone that you love and care for them, you only end up hurting yourself, because they never cared to bother and appreciate it.

The Best Form of Love

Forgiveness is the best form of love. It takes a strong person to say sorry and an even stronger person to forgive.

Forgiveness! It is really hard to forgive someone who intentionally wanted to hurt you. Somehow, you hold the grudge as a revenge. Not until you can forgive, you cannot let go the grudge you had for them. It somehow temporarily heals the pain they have caused you. But at the end of the day, when time reach the point that you are not just truly happy. I realized forgiving others is forgiving yourself. You forgive and lift all up to God for the judgement. In return, love and happiness will start to grow within you. Lessons learned, moving forward to better and stronger you. ~ Kenneth Espejo

What Is Your Angel Name?

What Is Your Angel Name?

Its easy to find out. Just take the month you were born

and the name associated with it.

Take the first initial of your first name 

and the name associated with it.

Put them together and you have your Angel Name.

May yours bring you luck, blessings and comfort.

Best things come to those who don’t give up

“Good things come to those who believe, better things come to those who are patient and the best things come to those who don’t give up.”

Never give up, and be confident in what you do. There may be tough times, but the difficulties which you face will make you more determined to achieve your objectives and to win against all the odds. ~ Marta

“There are no coincidences in life. What person that wandered in and out of your life was there for some purpose, even if they caused you harm. Sometimes, it doesn’t make sense the short periods of time we get with people, or the outcomes from their choices. However, if you turn it over to God he promises that you will see the big picture in the hereafter. Nothing is too small to be a mistake.”
― Shannon L. Alder

Life is a beautiful lie

Life asked Death, “Why do people love me and hate you?” Death replied, “Because you are a beautiful lie and I’m a painful Truth.”

The sea does not reward those who are too anxious, too greedy, or too impatient. One should lie empty, open, choiceless as a beach - waiting for a gift from the sea. ~ Anne Morrow Lindbergh

“It's easier not to say anything. Shut your trap, button your lip, can it. All that crap you hear on TV about communication and expressing feelings is a lie. Nobody really wants to hear what you have to say.” ~ Laurie Halse Anderson

“Never hide things from hardcore thinkers. They get more aggravated, more provoked by confusion than the most painful truths.” ~ Criss Jami

Written By A Cop ~ It Could Save A Life

WRITTEN BY A COP: IT COULD SAVE YOUR LIFE!

In daylight hours, refresh yourself of these things to do in an emergency situation...

After reading these 9 crucial tips, forward them to someone you care about.

It never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do :

The elbow is the strongest point on your body.

If you are close enough to use it, do!

2. Learned this from a tourist guide.

If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM.

Toss it away from you.... Chances are that he is more interested

in your wallet and/or purse than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse..

RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

A Silent Hug Means

A silent hug means a thousand words to the unhappy heart.

If you don't know what to say to them, don't. a silent hug is worth a thousand words to an unhappy heart.

Let your future create something better.

Sometimes you just have to turn the page to realize there's more to your book of life than the page you're stuck on. Stop being afraid to move on. Close this chapter of hurt, and never re-read it. It's time to get what your life deserves, and move on from the things that don't deserve you. Don't try to fix what's been broken in your past, let your future create something better.

Everything you need for better future and success has already been written. And guess what? All you have to do is go to the library. ~ Henri Frederic Amiel

I believe with all my heart that God still destines for us an even better future and the opportunity to continue to serve as an inspiration to the world. ~ Marco Rubio

These Jokes Are For Intellectuals Only. The 5th One Had Me Confused!

I love a good smart joke, even if they sometimes take me a minute to figure out. Here’s my favorite 20:

1. Einstein, Newton and Pascal are playing a rousing game of hide and seek. Einstein begins to count to ten. Pascal runs and hides. Newton draws a one meter by one meter square in the ground in front of Einstein then stands in the middle of it. Einstein reaches ten, uncovers his eyes, and exclaims “Newton! I found you! You’re it!” Newton replies “You didn’t find me. You found a Newton over a square meter. You found Pascal!”

2. A mathematician and an engineer decided they’d take part in an experiment. They were both put in a room and at the other end was a naked woman on a bed. The experimenter said that every 30 seconds they could travel half the distance between themselves and the woman. The mathematician stormed off, calling it pointless. The engineer was still in. The mathematician said “Don’t you see? You’ll never get close enough to actually reach her.” The engineer replied, “So? I’ll be close enough for all practical purposes.”

3. A buddhist monk approaches a burger foodtruck and says “make me one with everything.” The buddhist monk pays with a $20 bill, which the vendor takes, puts in his cash box, and closes the lid. “Where’s my change?” the monk asks. The vendor replies, “change comes from within”.

Smart And Intelligent Wife

A married couple is travelling by car from California to New York.

Being seniors, after almost eleven hours on the road, they were too tired to continue and decided to take a room. But, they only planned to sleep for four hours and then get back on the road.

When they checked out four hours later, the desk clerk handed them a bill for $350.00.

The man explodes and demands to know why the charge is so high. He told the clerk although it’s a nice hotel; the rooms certainly aren’t worth $350.00 for four hours. Then the clerk tells him that $350.00 is the ‘standard rate’. He insisted on speaking to the Manager.

Respect Your Parents In Their Old Age — Heart Touching Story

An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45 years old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window.

The Father asked his Son, “What is this?” The Son replied “It is a crow”. After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, “What is this?” The Son said “Father, I have just now told you “It’s a crow”. After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time, What is this?” At this time some expression of irritation was felt in the Son’s tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff. “It’s a crow, a crow”.A little after, the Father again asked his Son the 4th time, “What is this?”

This time the Son shouted at his Father, “Why do you keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told you so many times ‘IT IS A CROW’. Are you not able to understand this?”

16 Moving Quotes Teaching You How To Let Go

Letting go is one of the most important process in one’s spiritual growth. Since ancient times, spiritual leaders and philosophers have discussed the importance of surrender and letting go.

It’s easier said than done, but sometimes all it takes is a shift in perspective to completely free yourself from the burdens you have been carrying around.

Here are 16 powerful quotes that will help you let go:

1. “Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go.” -Hermann Hesse

2. “There’s a victory in letting go of your expectations.” -Mike White

3. “To design the future effectively, you must first let go of your past.” -Charles J. Givens

4. “The creative process is a process of surrender, not control.” -Julia Cameron

5. “If you surrender completely to the moments as they pass, you live more richly those moments.” -Anne Morrow Lindbergh

Sleep Paralysis: 9 Facts About Waking Up And Being Unable To Move

1. You feel like you’ve woken up dead.

Basically your mind wakes up but your body doesn’t, so you essentially feel trapped inside of your body unable to move. Many people wake up feeling like they’re dead.

2. It happens as you fall asleep and wake up.

Sleep paralysis can happen during either of the two transitions in your natural sleep cycle. Your body goes into REM and must eventually come out, but sleep paralysis happens when your body has trouble making the transition.

3. Sleep paralysis often includes hallucinations.

20 Things You Don’t Owe Anyone

How many things in your day do you do because you feel you should? Well honestly, the word “should” should be eliminated from our vocabulary. The things we “should” do take us away from the things that matter, the things we must do to live our best and happiest life.

It’s hard to overcome the tendency to explain, but it can be done with focus and intention. Awareness is the key. To help you become more aware, here are 20 things you don’t owe anyone an explanation for.

1. You don’t owe anyone a justification for your values and your priorities.

2. You don’t owe anyone a yes when you want to say no.

3. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your relationships, whether lovers or friends.

4. You don’t owe anyone assistance with their happiness journey at the cost of your own.

5. You don’t owe anyone a debate around your political views especially when the other person’s mind is made up.

The Story Of The Three Old Men.

The story of the three old men.

A Woman came out of her house and saw Three(3) Old Men with Long White Beards sitting in Her front yard. She did not recognize them.

She said "I don't think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat."

"Is the man of the house home?", They asked.

"No", She replied. "He's out."

"Then We cannot come in", They replied.

In the evening when Her Husband came home, She told Him what had happened.

"Go tell Them I am home and invite Them in!"

The Woman went out and invited the Men in"

"We do not go into a House together," They replied.

Be proud & Choose The Month You Were Born In

Be proud & Choose The Month You Were Born In

1) JANUARY= you are naughty and rude you don’t tolerate crap

2) FEBRUARY= you are too knowing

3) MARCH= you are cute & (players)

4) APRIL= you are sweet

5) MAY= you are fun to be with

6) JUNE= you are God fearing

When a Beautiful Feelings

A beautiful feeling, when someone tells you “I wish I knew you earlier."

Being in love with somebody is a wonderful feeling. ~ Shane Warne

It is the most wonderful feeling in the world, knowing you are loved and wanted. ~ Jayne Mansfield

It's a wonderful feeling to be a bridge to the past and to unite generations. The sport of baseball does that, and I am just a part of it. ~ Vin Scully

I'm singing in the rain, just singing in the rain; What a wonderful feeling, I'm happy again. ~ Arthur Freed

20 Things A Father Should Tell His Daughter

How true Daddy's words were when he said: all children must look after their own upbringing. Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands.

1) Pay attention to the way a man loves his mother. That is the way he will love you.

2) You can do anything a man can do, including organic chemistry, unclogging toilets and assembling IKEA furniture.

3) Older women wear makeup so THEY can look like YOU. Less is more. A lot less is a lot more.

4) People will judge you by the way you look. It isn’t fair, but it’s the way the world works. Keep that in mind as you pick your outfit in the morning.

5) Never let anyone do your thinking for you. There are far too many people with far too much invested in you believing what they believe.