How to holds all relationships ?

“Trust is the glue of life. It's the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It's the foundational principle that holds all relationships.”― Stephen R. Covey

“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you.” ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

“I don't trust people who don't love themselves and tell me, 'I love you.' ... There is an African saying which is: Be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt.” ~ Maya Angelou

Marriage does not guarantee you will be together forever, it's only paper. It takes love, respect, trust, understanding, friendship and faith in your relationship to make it last.

Never trust a person that has let you down more then 2 times. Once was a warning, twice was a lesson and anything more then that is simply taking advantage!

Every Woman has a weak point

Men will never admit it, but it happens to them too. Recently read that for consistent state of joy, one needs 4 hugs a day, make sure your getting your dosage. ~ Kenzie Jensen 

I have learned that there is more power in a good strong hug than in a thousand meaningful words. ~ Ann Hood

No matter how strong a woman is, she has a weak point. And sometimes all she needs is a hug.

I love hugging people. I still hug everybody in my meet-and-greet lines. ~ Taylor Swift

Everyone needs a hug no matter how tough they act because the tougher they act the more they are hurting inside. ~ Melanie McNichols

The worst type of crying is the silent one.

The worst type of crying is the silent one. The one when everyone is asleep. The one where you feel it in your throat, and your eyes become blurry from the tears. The one where you just want to scream. The one where you have to hold your breath and grab your stomach to keep quiet. The one where you can't breath anymore. The one that you realize that the person that meant the most to you, is gone...--

“Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.” ~ Dr. Seuss

“Sometimes crying or laughing are the only options left, and laughing feels better right now.”~ Veronica Roth

Be that man in a woman’s life

A woman can forget a man who broke her heart and left her shattered but she can never forget the man who gathered the broken pieces, healed her soul and made her smile again. Be that man in a woman’s life… Aarti Khurana 

The real man smiles in trouble, gathers strength from distress, and grows brave by reflection. ~ Thomas Paine

A real man loves his wife, and places his family as the most important thing in life. Nothing has brought me more peace and content in life than simply being a good husband and father. ~ Frank Abagnale

It takes a real man to handle you, embrace your imperfections, tell you the truth no matter how brutal it is, never give up on you no matter how hard it is, pleasure you, treat you like you're the only one, and give up the game.

The Beauty of a Woman

“The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows & the beauty of a woman only grows with passing years.”~ Audrey Hepburn

My mother was the most beautiful woman I ever saw. All I am I owe to my mother. I attribute all my success in life to the moral, intellectual and physical education I received from her. ~ George Washington

I'm not a stereotypically beautiful woman, and I'm so happy that I'm not. I've seen those ladies - the need to be attractive at all times is ghastly. Also, in your twenties, if you are beautiful, everything comes to you, so you never need to develop a personality. I never had that problem. ~ Miranda Hart

A beautiful woman delights the eye; a wise woman, the understanding; a pure one, the soul.~ Minna Antrim

One moment of patience

One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.

Patience is not simply the ability to wait - it's how we behave while we're waiting. ~ Joyce Meyer

I have seen many storms in my life. Most storms have caught me by surprise, so I had to learn very quickly to look further and understand that I am not capable of controlling the weather, to exercise the art of patience and to respect the fury of nature. ~ Paulo Coelho

“The two hardest tests on the spiritual road are the patience to wait for the right moment and the courage not to be disappointed with what we encounter.” ~ Paulo Coelho

Part of my writing style can be attributed to my mother's impatience with comedy, because whenever I told her a story she would say, 'Yeah, yeah, just tell me: is it good for you or bad for you?' Consequently, I think, I was always afraid to indulge in the time that you need to tell a joke, very nervous about anything that constituted an Act II. ~ Patricia Marx

5 Deadly Terms Used By a Woman

5 Deadly Terms Used By a Woman:

1) “Fine” – This is the word women use to end an argument when she knows she is right and you need to shut up.

2) “Nothing” – means “Something” and you need to be worried.

3) “Go Ahead” – this is a dare, not permission, don’t do it.

4) “Whatever” – A women’s way of saying screw you.

5) “That’s Ok” – She is thinking long and hard on how and when you will pay for your mistake.

Bonus Word: “Wow!” – This is not a compliment; she’s amazed that one person could be so stupid.

Problems are not reasons to give up

Problems are not reasons to give up, but a challenge to improve ourselves, not an excuse to back out, but an inspiration to move forward. - Unknown.

Never give up. Today is hard, tomorrow will be worse, but the day after tomorrow will be sunshine. ~ Jack Ma

Don't quit. Never give up trying to build the world you can see, even if others can't see it. Listen to your drum and your drum only. It's the one that makes the sweetest sound. ~ Simon Sinek

How to get right friends in your life?

Friends can help each other. A true friend is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself - and especially to feel. Or, not feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at the moment is fine with them. That's what real love amounts to - letting a person be what he really is. ~ Jim Morrison

A true friend freely, advises justly, assists readily, adventures boldly, takes all patiently, defends courageously, and continues a friend unchangeably. ~ William Penn

Some people say they want honesty but when you give it to them they get mad, hence it may not get you a lot of friends or it can make you lose some that can’t handle the plain truth because it’s so foreign to them. ~ Saundra Waycaster 

That’s why I’ve only had one true friend. You take your honesty with honor to your grave. It will be remembered even by those that scorned you for it. ~ Timothy Lavender 

Growth & Change is painful

'Growth is painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don't belong.' ~ Mandy Hale 

A person who truly loves you is someone who sees the pain in your eyes while everyone else believes in the smile on your face.

Pain changes people.

Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have - life itself. ~ Walter Anderson

It’s usually the deepest pain which empowers you to grow to your full potential. It’s the scary, stressful choices that end up being the most worthwhile. Without pain, there would be no change. But remember, pain, just like everything in life, is meant to be learned from and then released. ~ Amanuel Misganu

Walk away from anything that gives you bad vibes

“Give yourself permission to immediately walk away from anything that gives you bad vibes. There is no need to explain or make sense of it. Just trust the little inner voice when it’s telling you.”

Follow your inner guidance and hear it clearly. Learn to love the process as much as the goal. Your choices and possibilities are expanding with every forward step you take. Embrace your loving, mindful path. All that you seek is within you. ~ Creig Crippen

I need positive people with character in their lives, not shallow people with no character. ~ Nancy Crowder

Don't do something

Don't do something permanently stupid just because you are temporarily upset.

Every day we have plenty of opportunities to get angry, stressed or offended. But what you're doing when you indulge these negative emotions is giving something outside yourself power over your happiness. You can choose to not let little things upset you. ~ Joel Osteen

God is not upset that Gandhi was not a Christian, because God is not a Christian! All of God's children and their different faiths help us to realize the immensity of God. ~ Desmond Tutu

When you're happy you don't always have to be laughing, and when you're sad you don't have to be crying; sometimes it's the opposite. You laugh when you're the most upset. ~ Freddie Highmore

I am sorry to upset my colleagues by saying we wasted four years in opposition, but if you do get so badly defeated as a party you do have to face up to some painful facts and you do have to change. ~ Kenneth Clarke

Sometimes you find the wrong person at the right time

Sometimes you find the right person at the wrong time. sometimes it’s the wrong person at the right time. but when you find the right person, at the right time, in the right situation, it’s because you’re meant to be together. fate has grabbed both of your hands. Don't let go!

“There are no coincidences in life. What person that wandered in and out of your life was there for some purpose, even if they caused you harm. Sometimes, it doesn’t make sense the short periods of time we get with people, or the outcomes from their choices. However, if you turn it over to God he promises that you will see the big picture in the hereafter. Nothing is too small to be a mistake.”~ Shannon L. Alder

If you find the right person at the wrong time and are just trying to forget them because you got your confidence back then they weren’t the right person. It’s during the hard times that the right person will let themselves be seen or heard. If he cares he will at least make a attempt to see you. He will let you know that he is not going anywhere. He will also let you know that he doesn’t mind waiting. If he is the right person in your eyes then you have to have a little faith that things will work out. If it’s meant to be sometimes you have to let it go and if it comes back to you then you know he was the right one. When you do find the right person forget the situation and just focus on them. ~ Jeffrey Boone 

There are time whens you want to say or feel things but you don't, as we end up thinking if it's right or wrong. But we forget feelings does not have boundaries unlike the norms of life made by us... Sometimes it's better to let them flow.

Tired of being in the When Am I going to find a love club, I've come close, get a dose, but it just ain't enough. Right guy, wrong time, Right time, wrong guy. What's the use? Why even try?

If they are the right person at the wrong time, don’t take second best just because you think they will never come back around. If they really are the one, they will always find a way back into your life. ~ Gracie Casey

How you can make a difference in someone’s life?

"To make a different in someone's life you don't have to be brilliant, rich, beautiful or perfect. You just have to care."

A smile is the light in your window that tells others that there is a caring, sharing person inside. ~ Denis Waitley

Nobody can predict the future. You just have to give your all to the relationship you're in and do your best to take care of your partner, communicate and give them every last drop of love you have. I think one of the most important things in a relationship is caring for your significant other through good times and bad. ~ Nick Cannon

The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years. ~ Audrey Hepburn

Love is something you give and not expect anything in return enjoying the moment is best few hours of true love a thousand years living a lie.

Best Relationship Advice

One of the best things you can do for your relationship is to do more for yourself. Be independent, have your own opinions, enjoy your own interests. Even harder for some of us, do for yourself the things you want done, give yourself the things you want to receive. Now I’m not suggesting that you become selfish and only do things for yourself. Not at all! But you know those things you want from your loved ones? The things they seem unable or unwilling to give? What if you gave them to yourself? If you love art galleries, instead of waiting for someone to go with you, go by yourself. Instead of waiting to be invited to dinner, do the inviting. Instead of hinting about what you want, ask for it. Waiting for someone else to bring you flowers puts pressure on them and denies you the pleasure of enjoying those blooms. Instead, plant your own garden, decorate your own soul, take responsibility for your own happiness. And then if someone brings you flowers, it will be an added joy.

My soul is getting tired

If my world were to cave in tomorrow, I would look back on all the pleasures, excitements and worth whilenesses I have been lucky enough to have had. Not the sadness, not my miscarriages or my father leaving home, but the joy of everything else. It will have been enough. ~ Audrey Hepburn

People are sad. People are broke. People are worried about money, people are worried that they're not enough and not amounting to anything and they don't feel good about themselves. People have rough times, and everybody's pretending it's not true, and we need to break that veneer. ~ Eve Ensler

You left and I cried tears of blood. My sorrow grows. Its not just that You left. But when You left my eyes went with You. Now, how will I cry? ~ Rumi

If my world were to cave in tomorrow, I would look back on all the pleasures, excitements and worthwhilenesses I have been lucky enough to have had. Not the sadness, not my miscarriages or my father leaving home, but the joy of everything else. It will have been enough. ~ Audrey Hepburn

I am slowly learning that some people are not good for me, no matter how much I love them. I deserve someone who is gentle and kind, because my soul is getting tired. Realizing that I deserve something good is one of the first steps. 

Michelle K., Why I Need To Say Goodbye To You.

I am the kind of girl who never gives up and fights till the end.

I am the kind of girl who never gives up and fights till the end. Maybe I am a little shattered but I m not broken. I may be a little disheartened but I have not given up the hope to achieve what I want from my life. I have some scars on my heart and soul but I’m still beautiful. I have forgiven people and I am trying to forget what they did to break me down.. But I don’t regret my past anymore because I just want to live my life beautifully. I am confident that somehow I will make it through. Aarti Khurana

When a girl tells you about her problems

When a girl tells you about her problems, it does not mean she complains. It means she trusts you.

To all us girls: Place your heart into the hands of God and he will place it into the hands of a mans who believes he deserves it.

People talk a lil too much...you never know just who to trust.

Cannot trust anyone these days. Fake is becoming the new trend.

Smart girls are the over thinkers, the insecure ones, the different ones. They know what the real world is like. They analyze every little thing in life. Why? To avoid getting hurt. To find happiness. They stay up at night trying to think about every possible situation to get through all problems. They think too much. They trust less people. Their insecurity proves their respect toward themselves. Of course they live away from a drama-filled life. Smart girls know their worth, now that's the ones worth keeping by your side.

Behind every untrusting girl, is a boy who lied, cheated, broke his promises to her.

5 things you can't recover in life;

5 things you can't recover in life; 

1) A stone after its thrown. 

2) A word after its said. 

3) An occasion after its missed. 

4) Time after its gone. 

5) Trust after its lost.

“You will lose someone you can’t live without,and your heart will be badly broken, and the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your broken heart that doesn’t seal back up. And you come through. It’s like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly—that still hurts when the weather gets cold, but you learn to dance with the limp.” ~ Anne Lamott

Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.

This life, which had been the tomb of his virtue and of his honour, is but a walking shadow; a poor player, that struts and frets his hour upon the stage, and then is heard no more: it is a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing. ~ William Shakespeare

The truth is you don't know what is going to happen tomorrow. Life is a crazy ride, and nothing is guaranteed. ~ Eminem

When A Woman Loves A Man…

No matter how strong a woman is …there is this one man in her life for whom she has a weak and soft corner in her heart. This is the man she loves unconditionally. She will forgive him for all his mistakes and accept him with all his flaws and imperfections because she can’t love another man for the rest of her life. She will never question his past and never make him feel jealous of other men. She will never give up on this man and she can do anything in this world for this man because she loves him with all her heart and her soul….Aarti Khurana