Just Because I don’t say I love you

Just Because I'm quiet, doesn't mean I don't have a lot to say. 

Just Because I appear happy, doesn't mean everything's okay. 

Just Because I laugh a lot, doesn't mean I don't take things seriously. 

Just Because I forgive, doesn't mean you can take me for granted. 

Just Because I don't keep in touch all the time, doesn't mean I don't care. 

Just Because I'm gullible, doesn't mean you can lie to me.

Just Because I'm stubborn, doesn't mean I expect you to change for me. 

Just Because I don't show my feelings, doesn't mean I don't have any. 

Just Because I don't say I love you, doesn't mean I don't. 

Just Because I'm honset, doesn't mean I'm outspoken. 

Just Because I'm not like you, doesn't mean I'm werid. 

Just Because I don't say anything, doesn't mean I'm afraid.

Some people really have a hard time expressing their feelings and words like “I love you”. They were never told they were loved all their childhood and they feel unloved themselves. They were told to keep their feelings to themselves. There are all kinds of people in the world. Some are so inept with their feelings. We have to open our minds and our hearts that these situations exists and be understanding.

“Have you ever heard the wonderful silence just before the dawn? Or the quiet and calm just as a storm ends? Or perhaps you know the silence when you haven't the answer to a question you've been asked, or the hush of a country road at night, or the expectant pause of a room full of people when someone is just about to speak, or, most beautiful of all, the moment after the door closes and you're alone in the whole house? Each one is different, you know, and all very beautiful if you listen carefully.” ~ Norton Juster

There are two amazing places you can be.

There are two amazing places you can be... The nicest place to be in is someone's thoughts. The safest place to be in is someone's prayers.

“Prayer is not asking. It is a longing of the soul. It is daily admission of one's weakness. It is better in prayer to have a heart without words than words without a heart.” ~ Mahatma Gandhi

Prayer is a privilege and the soul's sincere desire. We can move beyond routine and 'checklist' prayers and engage in meaningful prayer as we appropriately ask in faith and act, as we patiently persevere through the trial of our faith, and as we humbly acknowledge and accept 'not my will, but Thine, be done.' ~ David A. Bednar

I pray every night, sometimes long prayers about a lot of things and a lot of people, but I don't talk about it or brag about it because that's between God and me, and I'm no better than anybody else in God's sight. ~ Peyton Manning

Sometimes, I’m not angry, I’m hurt

Anger is defending oneself when you feel threatened. Any time you have an outburst, just ask yourself what you fear losing and be honest with yourself, even if it makes you cry, then tell yourself your mind is mistakenly telling you have much less control over your situation than you actually do, and work toward self control. It’s the only thing you can really control. To the situations you can’t control, give everything you can, build the world you want to see, acquire skills to improve your life and the lives of people around you. Feed the hopes, not the fears. ~ Oliva Sullen 

“The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected.” ~ Nicholas Sparks

“Pain is a pesky part of being human, I've learned it feels like a stab wound to the heart, something I wish we could all do without, in our lives here. Pain is a sudden hurt that can't be escaped. But then I have also learned that because of pain, I can feel the beauty, tenderness, and freedom of healing. Pain feels like a fast stab wound to the heart. But then healing feels like the wind against your face when you are spreading your wings and flying through the air! We may not have wings growing out of our backs, but healing is the closest thing that will give us that wind against our faces.” ― C. JoyBell C.

Hurt is hard to hide, if you let them know maybe they won’t be a part of your life anymore, so you bury it deep inside and let it eat at you, hurts you but not them. ~ Joan Olson

Be that man in a woman’s life

A woman can forget a man who broke her heart and left her shattered but she can never forget the man who gathered the broken pieces, healed her soul and made her smile again. Be that man in a woman’s life… Aarti Khurana 

The real man smiles in trouble, gathers strength from distress, and grows brave by reflection. ~ Thomas Paine

A real man loves his wife, and places his family as the most important thing in life. Nothing has brought me more peace and content in life than simply being a good husband and father. ~ Frank Abagnale

It takes a real man to handle you, embrace your imperfections, tell you the truth no matter how brutal it is, never give up on you no matter how hard it is, pleasure you, treat you like you're the only one, and give up the game.

The biggest coward of a man

'The biggest coward of a man is to awaken the love of a woman without the intention of loving her.'~ Bob Marley 

Sometimes it's better to keep silent than to tell others what you feel because it will only hurt you when you know they can hear you but they can't understand.

Never Play With The Feelings Of Others, Because You May Win The Game But The Risk Is That You Will Surely Lose The Person For Life Time.

William Shakespeare

If you can't see and estimate my feelings towards you, and you can't love me as much as I do. One day you will find out that some other man is very grateful to you, as he was able to find me. And he will be the only one who will deserve my love.

Unknown

There are loads of dodgy women out there who pretends they love you but in real they not. Sincere man who seek love encounter women who play with them for their own motives. In my books that man is brave who get hurt, emotionally wounded by women but still fall in love with women after bad experiences. ~ Horus Khan 

What a nice definition of TODAY.

What a nice definition of TODAY.

T- This is an

O- Opportunity to

D- Do

A- A work, better than

Y- Yesterday.

Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone - we find it with another. ~ Thomas Merton

Promise me you'll always remember: You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.~ A. A. Milne

The Beauty of a Woman

“The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows & the beauty of a woman only grows with passing years.”~ Audrey Hepburn

My mother was the most beautiful woman I ever saw. All I am I owe to my mother. I attribute all my success in life to the moral, intellectual and physical education I received from her. ~ George Washington

I'm not a stereotypically beautiful woman, and I'm so happy that I'm not. I've seen those ladies - the need to be attractive at all times is ghastly. Also, in your twenties, if you are beautiful, everything comes to you, so you never need to develop a personality. I never had that problem. ~ Miranda Hart

A beautiful woman delights the eye; a wise woman, the understanding; a pure one, the soul.~ Minna Antrim

Definition of TIME

Definition of TIME!

Slow, when you wait!

Fast, when you are Late!

Deadly, when you are Sad!

Short, when you are Happy!

Endless, when you are in Pain!

Long, when you feel bore!

Sometimes, time is determined by your feelings

and your psychological conditions not by clocks...

So, Have A Nice Time Always!! 

Be Gentle With Yourself

If you’re struggling, you deserve to make self-care a priority. Whether that means lying in bed all day, eating comfort food, crying, sleeping, rescheduling plans, finding an escape through a good book, watching your favorite tv show, or doing nothing at all — give yourself permission to put your healing first. Quiet the voice telling you to do more and be more, and today, whatever you do, let it be enough. Feel your feelings, breathe, and be gentle with yourself. Acknowledge that you’re doing the best you can to cope and survive. And trust that during this time of struggle, it’s enough. — Daniell Koepke

Avoid, Avoid

Avoid people who mess with your head. Avoid people who intentionally and repeatedly do and say things that they know upset you. Avoid people who expect you to prioritize them but refuse to prioritize you. Avoid people who can’t and won’t apologize sincerely.

Avoid. Avoid.

Always Do Your Best. Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret. ~ Miguel Angel Ruiz

Don't Make Assumptions. Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life. ~ Miguel Angel Ruiz

3 Things I Want In A Relationship

3 things I want in a relationship: Eyes that wont cry, lips than wont lie, and love that wont die.

I don't want the perfect relationship, because perfect is impossible. I want trustworthy, honest, loyal and love. I love imperfections. I don't want perfect. I want worth it.

I want a relationship where we talk like best friends, play like kids, argue like husband and wife, and protect each other like siblings.

Some think love can be measured by the amount of butterflies in their tummy. Others think love can be measured in bunches of flowers, or by using the words 'for ever.' But love can only truly be measured by actions. It can be a small thing, such as peeling an orange for a person you love because you know they don't like doing it. ~ Marian Keyes

The relationship between husband and wife should be one of closest friends.~ B. R. Ambedkar

When you allow yourself to feel Hurt

“To be rejected by someone doesn't mean you should also reject yourself or that you should think of yourself as a lesser person. It doesn't mean that nobody will ever love you anymore. Remember that only ONE person has rejected you at the moment, and it only hurt so much because to you, that person's opinion symbolized the opinion of the whole world, of God.” ~ Jocelyn Soriano

“Nobody can hurt me without my permission.” ~ Mahatma Gandhi

“This is my simple religion. There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness.” ~ Dalai Lama XIV

Dear Heart, it is good to feel the wonderful emotions, but don’t overdo it when you are hurt or else you will get sick too. You will get tired easily to perform your duties. In the end you will be the one to suffer most. I may suffer stress from your depression but it will just make you weaker. Your Brain! ~ Ghie Morales 

Dear Brain – if you do not allow yourself to feel your emotions, it can make you sick.

The Four Agreements

“1. Be Impeccable With Your Word

Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love. 

2. Don't Take Anything Personally

Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering. 

3. Don't Make Assumptions

Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life. 

4. Always Do Your Best

Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.” 

― Miguel Ruiz

One moment of patience

One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.

Patience is not simply the ability to wait - it's how we behave while we're waiting. ~ Joyce Meyer

I have seen many storms in my life. Most storms have caught me by surprise, so I had to learn very quickly to look further and understand that I am not capable of controlling the weather, to exercise the art of patience and to respect the fury of nature. ~ Paulo Coelho

“The two hardest tests on the spiritual road are the patience to wait for the right moment and the courage not to be disappointed with what we encounter.” ~ Paulo Coelho

Part of my writing style can be attributed to my mother's impatience with comedy, because whenever I told her a story she would say, 'Yeah, yeah, just tell me: is it good for you or bad for you?' Consequently, I think, I was always afraid to indulge in the time that you need to tell a joke, very nervous about anything that constituted an Act II. ~ Patricia Marx

Growth & Change is painful

'Growth is painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don't belong.' ~ Mandy Hale 

A person who truly loves you is someone who sees the pain in your eyes while everyone else believes in the smile on your face.

Pain changes people.

Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have - life itself. ~ Walter Anderson

It’s usually the deepest pain which empowers you to grow to your full potential. It’s the scary, stressful choices that end up being the most worthwhile. Without pain, there would be no change. But remember, pain, just like everything in life, is meant to be learned from and then released. ~ Amanuel Misganu

Dont waste time on people that leave you

In some cases you have to walk away maybe for your own self respect or dignity.

When someone walks out of your life, let them. There's no use in wasting your time on people that leave you. What you make of yourself and your future is no longer tied to them. Yeah, you may miss them. But remember that you weren't the one that gave up.

Leave your past and be ready for your future.

If you love life, don't waste time, for time is what life is made up of. ~ Bruce Lee

We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love. ~ Tom Robbins

So you want to be happy?

So you want to be happy? Then stop letting the smallest things ruin your whole entire day. If you're bored with your daily routine, do something unexpected. Stop complaining about how alone you are when you're surrounded by people who actually care about you. Forget all the drama and let go of all the grudges you've been holding. Take a risk for once. Let yourself be happy, because you deserve it.

It is not what happens that make you stressed or unhappy, but how you react or think about the situation that makes it worst or better. Do not sweat the small stuff, move on, and be happy.

Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy. ~ Norman Vincent Peale

You don't develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity. ~ Epicurus

Walk away from anything that gives you bad vibes

“Give yourself permission to immediately walk away from anything that gives you bad vibes. There is no need to explain or make sense of it. Just trust the little inner voice when it’s telling you.”

Follow your inner guidance and hear it clearly. Learn to love the process as much as the goal. Your choices and possibilities are expanding with every forward step you take. Embrace your loving, mindful path. All that you seek is within you. ~ Creig Crippen

I need positive people with character in their lives, not shallow people with no character. ~ Nancy Crowder

How do you move on?

How do you move on? You move on when your heart finally understand that there is no turning back.

“You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened... or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on.” ~ Tupac Shakur

“It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.” ~ Nicholas Sparks

Every experience, every person, every place we find ourselves in, is meant to be, for it leads us to the next persons, places things we are meant to experience. Also: Change is inevitable, growth is optional. ~ Kelly Stewart

Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have - life itself.~ Walter Anderson

Which People Really Loves You?

In the end, you'll know which people really love you. They're the ones who see you for who you are and no matter what, always find a way to be at YOUR SIDE.

“We can throw stones, complain about them, stumble on them, climb over them, or build with them.”~ William Arthur Ward

Sometimes we realize it later in life, but never to late to see the truth , and life goes on. ~ Maria Lalli