Someone.


Find someone who loves you well. Someone who never belittles you. Even in the heat of an argument. Someone who is gentle with you, but does not treat you like you are fragile. Someone who knows what you are capable of, and celebrates those pieces of you. Not someone who is intimidated by your strength. Someone who can call you out for being a brat, but doesn’t make you feel guilty for being flawed. It is not love’s job to punish you. And remember the person you love is just as broken as you are when they fall short. No one is perfect – do not hold them to this standard. Find someone who is patient, forgiving, and apologetic. Someone who practices forgiveness freely and often. Love someone who is humble, kind, and empathetic. Not only with you, but with a beggar on the street, or a stranger in the supermarket. Common courtesy is important. Compassion is important. Kindness is important.

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No question asked.


I don't chase people when they walk away. It's not that they're not important. I just believe that if they want me in their life, they'll stay. No question asked.

I never chase after anyone, you just look needy and desperate. If they can’t see how lucky they are to be a part of your life, then it’s their loss. Wish they would stay away though and not come crawling back when they realise they messed up. - Helen Lewis

I like to wait a few days and re-contact a person to see how they feel after their anger has settled. Give them the benefit of the doubt. If they haven’t changed their mind, I’m not pursuing it. I just don’t have the energy. So, if you don’t hear from me, remember something: that is what “you” wanted.


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