This Man Just Made A Big Sacrifice For His Wife. Then She Said This.

A married couple was in a terrible accident where the man’s face was severely burned.

The doctor told the husband that they couldn’t graft any skin from his body because he was too skinny.

So the wife offered to donate some of her own skin.

However, the only skin on her body that the doctor felt was suitable would have to come from her buttocks.

The husband and wife agreed that they would tell no one about where the skin came from, and they requested that the doctor also honor their secret. After all, this was a very delicate matter.

Don’t Waste Time on People That Leave You

When someone walks out of your life, let them. There's no use in wasting your time on people that leave you. What you make of yourself and your future is no longer tied to them. Yeah, you may miss them. But remember that you weren't the one that gave up.

In some cases you have to walk away maybe for your own self respect or dignity.

Leave your past and be ready for your future.

Give Your Best And The World Comes To You

Its Just Awesome... Read it....

A Little boy went to a telephone booth which was at the cash counter of a store and dialed a number. The store-owner observed and listened to the conversation:

Boy: “Lady, can you give me the job of cutting your lawn?”

Woman: (at the other end of the phone line) “I already have someone to cut my lawn.”

Boy: “Lady, I will cut your lawn for half the price than the person who cuts your lawn now.”

Woman: “I’m very satisfied with the person who is presently cutting the lawn.”

Boy: (with more perseverance) “Lady, I’ll even sweep the floor and the stairs of your house for free.”

Woman: “No, thank you.”

With a smile on his face, the little boy replaced the receiver. The store-owner, who was listening to all this, walked over to the boy.

Store-owner: “Son….I like your attitude; I like that positive spirit and would like to offer you a job.”

Boy: “No thanks.”

Store-owner: “But you were really pleading for one.”

10 Principles Of Life:

10 Principles Of Life:

Stop and ask yourself today, "How do I really feel about myself? " Before you answer read these ten principles.

(1) Never think or speak negatively about yourself; that puts you in disagreement with God.

(2) Meditate on your God-given strengths and learn to encourage yourself, for much of the time nobody else will.

(3) Don't compare yourself to anybody else. You're unique, one of a kind, an original. So don't settle for being a copy.

(4) Focus on your potential, not your limitations. Remember, God lives in you!

(5) Find what you like to do, do well, and strive to do it with excellence.

(6) Have the courage to be different. Be a God pleasure, not a people pleasure .

(7) Learn to handle criticism. Let it develop you instead of discourage you.

(8) Determine your own worth instead of letting others do it for you. They'll short-change you!

(9) Keep your shortcomings in perspective - you're still a work in progress.

(10) Focus daily on your greatest source of confidence - the God Who lives in you !

Husband Leaves Shocking Letter For His Wife. Then She Responds.

A husband wrote the following letter for his wife and left it on the dining room table:

"To My Dear Wife,

You will surely understand that I have certain needs that you, being 54 years old, can no longer satisfy. I am very happy with you and I value you as a good wife. Therefore, after reading this letter, I hope that you will not wrongly interpret the fact that I will be spending the evening with my 18 year old secretary at the Comfort Inn Hotel.

Please don't be upset -I shall be home before midnight."

When the man came home late that night, he found the following letter on the dining room table:

"My Dear Husband, I received your letter and thank you for your honesty about my being 54 years old. I would like to take this opportunity to remind you that you are also 54 years old. As you know, I am a math teacher at our local college. I would like to inform you that while you read this, I will be at the Hotel Fiesta with Michael, one of my students, who is also the assistant tennis Coach. He is young, virile and like your secretary, is 18 years old.

As a successful businessman who has an excellent knowledge of math, you will understand that we are in the same situation, although with one small difference - 18 goes into 54 a lot more times than 54 goes into 18.

Therefore, I will not be home until sometime tomorrow."

After 21 Years Of Marriage

After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, “I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.”

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.

That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. “What’s wrong, are you well ?” she asked. She was suspicious of something. “I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you,” I responded. “Just the two of us.” She thought about it for a moment, and then said, “I would like that very much.”That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up , She was waiting at the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel’s. “I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, “she said, as she got into the car.

A Man Is Dating Three Women And Wants To Decide Which To Marry…

A man is dating three women and wants to decide which to marry.
He decides to give them a test. He gives each woman a present of $5,000 and watches to see what they do with the money.
The first does a total makeover. She goes to a fancy beauty salon, gets her hair done, purchases new make-up and buys several new outfits, and dresses up very nicely for the man.
She tells him that she has done this to be more attractive for him because she loves him so much.
The man is impressed.
The second goes shopping to buy the man gifts.
She gets him a new set of STRONG golf clubs, some new gizmo’s for his computer, and some expensive clothes.As she presents these gifts, she tells him that she has spent all the money on him because she loves him so much.
Again, the man is impressed.
The third invests the money in the stock market.
She earns several times the $5,000. She gives him back his $5000 and reinvests the remainder in a joint account.

Expiry Date

Wife:What are you doing?

Husband : Nothing.

Wife :Nothing...? You have been reading our marriage certificate for an hour.

Husband : I was looking for the expiry date.

Wife : Do you want dinner?’

Husband : Sure! What are my choices?’

Wife :Yes or no.

Wife:You always carry my photo in your wallet. Why?

Husband: When there is a problem, no matter how great, I look at your picture and the problem disappears

Wife: You see how miraculous and powerful I am for you?

Husband: Yes! I see your picture and ask myself: What other problem can there be greater than this one?

Respect Your Parents ( A Short Story Must Read )

After his father’s death, the Son decided to leave his mother at old age home and visited her on and off.

Once he received a call from old age home….Mom very serious ….. please come to visit.

Son went and saw mom very critical, on her dying bed.

He asked: Mom what can I do for you?

Mom replied… “Please install fans in the old age home, there are none…. Also put a fridge for betterment of food because many times I slept without food”.

Son was surprised and asked: mom, while you were here you never complained, now you have few hours left and you are telling me all this, why?

Mom replied…..”it’s OK dear, I’ve managed with the heat, hunger & pain, but when your children will send you here, I am afraid you will not be able to manage!

BILL GATES in a restaurant.

BILL GATES in a restaurant. 

After eating, he gave $5 to the waiter as a tip. The waiter had a strange look on his face after the tip, Gates realized, and asked the waiter what had happened. 

The waiter replied, "I'm just amazed because on the same table your son gave a tip of $500, but you, his father, the richest man in the world, only gave me $5." 

Gates smiled and replied with meaningful words: "He is Son of the world's richest man, but I am the son of a wood cutter..." 

(Never Forget Your Past. It's Your Best Teacher)

Conversation Between Boy And Girl After Break-up

She was sitting alone at the coffee shop. He had just walked in to get something too. And there he saw his ex girlfriend, sitting across the table sipping on coffee. Within a second, she saw him too. Their eyes met, and thousands of memories flashed by in a single millisecond. The days and nights of laughter, the heavenly times they spent together, the romantic moments, the bitter sweet fights and the long hours of constant talking that they did and finally that ugly night, when they had the biggest fight and couldn’t bear to be in the same room also. She packed her bags and left that day. It all flashed by in their minds. Gathering some strength, the guy walked towards her and sat opposite her on the same table. She looked at him with a blank expression, not knowing what to say, for it had been almost two months since they broke up and she didn’t know where he was in his life.

Finally the guy mustered up some courage and started speaking:
Guy – How are you?
Girl – I am fine. How are you doing? (Nervously)
Guy – I am fine too. It’s been a long time.
Girl – Yes, it indeed has. Hope life is treating you well.
Guy – Life has not been the same.
Girl – It has only become better, you mean? (Sarcastically)
Guy – Are you trying to hurt me?

Depression, anxiety and panic attacks are NOT a sign of weakness.

Depression, anxiety and panic attacks are NOT a sign of weakness. They are signs of having tried to remain strong for way too long. Did you know that 1 in 3 of us will go through this at some point in our lives? Show support that they are not alone.

“Anxiety is love's greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you. You want to save him, but you know he will strangle you with his panic.” ~ Anaïs Nin

“After all, what is happiness? Love, they tell me. But love doesn't bring and never has brought happiness. On the contrary, it's a constant state of anxiety, a battlefield; it's sleepless nights, asking ourselves all the time if we're doing the right thing. Real love is composed of ecstasy and agony.”~ Paulo Coelho

“Anxiety is the dizziness of freedom.” ~ Søren Kierkegaard

Admitting you suffer from any one of those disorders doesn’t mean you are weak but strong enough to realise you are never alone. There are always people willing to help, whether its through medication or having someone to talk to. ~ Kim Miller

If you haven’t experienced it you will never know how this feels & those who have not experienced it, don’t really empathize without you. So seek professional help & know that there is hope. Also pray & do not give up and don’t be ashamed, it could happen to any one. ~ Marianne Fernandez

If someone doesn’t care about losing you

Close one door and another (only then) opens; let go of the past in order to embrace the present/future. Let those people go mainly to make space for someone more appropriate and deserving. They are there even if you can’t see them right now. ~ David Wolfaardt 

Never lose yourself while trying to hold on to someone who doesn't care about losing you.

Move on and don’t put energy into wondering “how did this happen” or “why did this happen”! Those questions can be revisited after you begin taking care of yourself and are in a much better place “emotionally. ~ Charles Brown

Interview at Alcohol factory

In an alcohol factory the regular tester died and the director started looking for a new one to hire.

A drunkard with a ragged, dirty look came to apply for the position.

The director of the factory wondered how to send him away. They tested him.

They gave him a glass with a drink. He tried it and said,”It’s red wine, a muscat, three years old, grown on a north slope, matured in steel containers.”

“That’s correct”, said the boss.

Another glass.”It’s red wine, cabernet, eight years old, a south western slope, oak barrels.”

“Correct.”The director was astonished. He winked at his secretary to suggest something.

She brought in a glass of urine. The alcoholic tried it.

“It’s a blonde, 26 years old, three months pregnant, made inside the office. And if you don’t give me the job, I’ll also tell who’s the father!”

The boss collapsed…

Prank Phone Call

A man at work calls home and his 8 years old daughter picks the phone:

“Hi honey,this is daddy.Is mommy near the phone?”

“No daddy she is upstairs in the bedroom with Uncle Paul.” The little girl quipped.

“After a brief pause daddy says,“But honey you haven’t got an uncle Paul!”

“Oh yes I do,and he is upstairs in the room with mommy right now.”

Brief pause,“Uh okay then,this is what I want you to do:put the phone down on the table,run upstairs,knock on the bedroom door,and shout to mommy that daddy’s car has just arrived at the gate.”

“Ok daddy just a minute....”

A while later the little girl comes back to the phone, “Done it daddy.

”"What happened honey?”

Don’t Underestimate Anyone Because Everyone has a Different Story!

A poor boy was in love with a rich man daughter….One day the boy proposed to her and the girl said…”Hey! Listen, your monthly salary is my daily hand expenses..How can I be involved with you..?

How could you have thought of that? I can never love you, so forget about me and get engaged to someone else OF your level”

But somehow the boy could not forget her so easily…..Some time 10 years later they stumbled into each other in a shopping mall.

The lady again said….,”Hey.. ! You! How are you? Now I’m married and do you know how much my husband’s salary is..? $15,700 per month! Can you beat that? And he is also very smart”

The guy’s eyes got wet with tears on hearing those words from the same lady….

A few seconds later, her husband came around but before the lady could say a word her husband seeing the guy, said……
“Sir you’re here and you’ve met my wife..” Then he said to his wife,”This is my boss, I’m also one of those working on his $100 million project!

And do you know a fact my dear? My boss loved a lady but he couldn’t win her heart….That’s why he has remained unmarried since.

How lucky would that lady have been, if she had married this my boss now? These days, who would love someone that much he said all these to his wife.

The lady looked in total shock but couldn’t utter a word….

Epic Funny Conversation Between Dad & Son

Dad: if you Pass in the exam I will Present you 1 Cycle.

Son: if I fail?

Dad: Then I will Present 10 Cycles

Son: why?

Dad: To Open a Cycle Shop..

After Exam Result

Dad: What's your Grade, son?

Son: Under water, Dad.

Dad: Under water? What do You mean?

Real couples stay faithful

Real couples aren’t perfect. They have good and bad sides, they make mistakes, they do things well. They are simply people. ~ Carla da Costa

Real people in real couples sometimes do stray, but real relationships can grow stronger if both parties commit to sharing themselves and fully knowing one another. ~ MelodieTucker

Real men stay faithful. They don't have time to look for other women because they're too busy looking for new ways to love each other.

Real couples minds wonder just like everyone else. They just choose not to stray like cheaters do. ~ Marybeth McCauley

Nothing is Impossible

A young man working in the army was constantly humiliated because he believed in God.
One day the captain decided to humiliate him before the troops. He called the young man and said:

- Young man, take the key and go and park the Jeep in front.
The young man replied:
- I can not drive!
The captain said:

- But then ask your assistance from God! Shows us that He exists!
The young man took the key and walked to the vehicle, praying the whole time.
…As a result he parked the Jeep to the place PERFECTLY well as the captain wanted.
The young man came out of the jeep and saw them all crying.
They all said together:

Never leave someone for little Misunderstandings.

There was a couple who decided to end their relationship. 

Boy was not ready to accept it but he had to….....

One day boy got married……

His Ex-Girlfriend approached him and said :- 

How dare you used my favorite color as the theme for your Wedding!!!

How dare you use my favorite flower as your Decoration!!!

How dare you to set our anniversary as your Wedding Day!!!

And How dare you use our theme song for the Ceremony!!!

The boy cried and said :-

“Because this is the only way I could pretend that you are My Bride….”

Moral : Never leave someone for little Misunderstandings. Only few in the millions gets True Love..

Don’t Worry About the Family that Ignores You

Never give up on your children. Sometimes you shouldn’t worry about the family who chose to ignore you no matter how many time you try to make them part of your life and they don’t reciprocate but when it comes to your kids, always worry about them and Never give up on them. I know they hurt us sometimes and it can be difficult but pray and hang in there.

Don't worry about the family that ignores and acts like don't matter, love the ones who are always there for you no matter what.

Many times, the decisions we make affect and hurt your closest friends and family the most. I have a lot of regrets in that regard. But God has forgiven me, which I am very thankful for. It has enabled me to forgive myself and move forward one day at a time. ~ Lex Luger

Isn’t it sad that there are so many broken families? If that is your situation, there comes a time when you must rise above the pain and go forth doing what makes you most happy with people who sincerely care for you. Always keep an open heart for those that have hurt you, forgive them quickly and pray for them. ~ Gloria Gharib 

I don't like talking unnecessarily, and my communication skills are zilch. I just can't converse with people. Maybe it's because of my stuttering or stammering, but I'm not confident of talking with people. I only talk to very close friends and family. ~ Pritam Chakraborty

My Soul is Getting Tired

I am slowly learning that some people are not good for me, no matter how much I love them. I deserve someone who is gentle and kind, because my soul is getting tired. Realizing that I deserve something good is one of the first steps. 
Michelle K., Why I Need To Say Goodbye To You.

If my world were to cave in tomorrow, I would look back on all the pleasures, excitements and worth whilenesses I have been lucky enough to have had. Not the sadness, not my miscarriages or my father leaving home, but the joy of everything else. It will have been enough. ~ Audrey Hepburn

People are sad. People are broke. People are worried about money, people are worried that they're not enough and not amounting to anything and they don't feel good about themselves. People have rough times, and everybody's pretending it's not true, and we need to break that veneer. ~ Eve Ensler

Struggles of our Life : A Short Inspiring Story

Once upon a time a daughter complained to her father that her life was miserable and that she didn’t know how she was going to make it. She was tired of fighting and struggling all the time. It seemed just as one problem was solved, another one soon followed.

Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Once the three pots began to boil, he placed potatoes in one pot, eggs in the second pot and ground coffee beans in the third pot. He then let them sit and boil, without saying a word to his daughter. The daughter, moaned and impatiently waited, wondering what he was doing. After twenty minutes he turned off the burners. He took the potatoes out of the pot and placed them in a bowl. He pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. He then ladled the coffee out and placed it in a cup.

Turning to her, he asked. “Daughter, what do you see?” “Potatoes, eggs and coffee,” she hastily replied.

“Look closer”, he said, “and touch the potatoes.” She did and noted that they were soft.

He then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.

Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. Its rich aroma brought a smile to her face.

“Father, what does this mean?” she asked.

The Farmer’s Mule

A newlywed farmer and his wife were visited by her mother, who immediately demanded an inspection of the place.
The Farmer had genuinely tried to be friendly to his new mother-in-law, hoping that it could be a friendly, non-antagonistic relationship.
To no avail, she kept nagging them at every opportunity, demanding changes, offering unwanted advice and making life unbearable to the farmer and his new bride.
While they were walking through the barn, the farmer’s mule suddenly reared up and kicked the mother-in-law in the head, killing her instantly.
At the funeral service a few days later, the farmer stood near the casket and greeted folks as they walked by.
The pastor noticed that when ever a woman would whisper something to the farmer, he would nod his head yes and say something. Whenever a man walked by and whispered to the farmer, however, he would shake his head, no and mumble a reply.
Very curious as to this bizarre behavior, the pastor later asked the farmer what that was all about.
The farmer replied, “The women would say, ‘What a terrible tragedy’ and I would nod my head and say, ‘Yes, it was.’
The men would ask, ‘CAN I BORROW THAT MULE ??’
And I would shake my head and say ….
…………………………………….. ‘CAN’T, IT’S BOOKED FOR A YEAR’

Don’t worry about the haters in your life

Some people can’t stand to see you happy so they try to make you miserable. Don’t let it get to you because they are the unhappy ones!

Don't worry about the haters… They are just angry because the truth you speak contradicts the lie they live.

If you want to know someone’s mind

If you want to know someone's mind, listen to their words. If you want to know their heart, watch their actions.

“Words can be twisted into any shape. Promises can be made to lull the heart and seduce the soul. In the final analysis, words mean nothing. They are labels we give things in an effort to wrap our puny little brains around their underlying natures, when ninety-nine percent of the time the totality of the reality is an entirely different beast. The wisest man is the silent one. Examine his actions. Judge him by them.” ~ Karen Marie Moning

Someone that says, “I love you” and continues to be disrespectful, or worse, is saying more with their actions than their words.

A Son teaches his wealthy Father a lesson

“One day a very wealthy father took his son on a trip to the country for the sole purpose of showing his son how it was to be poor. They spent a few days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.

After their return from the trip, the father asked his son how he liked the trip. “It was great, Dad,” the son replied. “Did you see how poor people can be?” the father asked. “Oh Yeah,” said the son.

“So what did you learn from the trip?” asked the father. The son answered, “I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon.

We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have servants who serve us, but they serve others.

We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us, they have friends to protect them.” The boy’s father was speechless. Then his son added, “It showed me just how poor we really are.”

This Guy Isn’t Making Love to His Girlfriend Tonight. the Reason Why Is Hilarious.

Last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed. As our passion began to heat up she said, “I don’t feel like it. I just want you to hold me.”
I said, “WHAT?! What was that?!”
She said, “You’re just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man.”
She responded to my puzzled look by saying, “Can’t you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?” Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.
The next day I took off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big department store. I walked around with her as she tried on several very expensive outfits. She couldn’t decide which one to take, so I told her we’d just buy them all.
She wanted new shoes to go with her new clothes, so I said, “Lets get a pair for each outfit.” We went on to the jewelry counter where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. She was so excited. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet. I threw her for a loop when I said, “That’s fine, honey.” She was nearing $exual satisfaction from all of the excitement.

Never Lie to a Smart Women

Man on phone: “Honey I’ve been asked to go fishing in China with my boss for a week. This is a good opportunity for me to get the promotion. So could you please pack enough clothes for a week, set out my rod & fishing box. We’re leaving from office & I’ll swing by the house to pick my things. Oh, Please pack my new blue silk pyjamas!”

The wife thinks this sounds a bit fishy, but being a good wife she did exactly as her husband said.

The following weekend he came home a little tired but looking good…

The wife welcomed him & asked if he caught many fish?

He said “Yes, Lots of Salmon, Blue gill & a few Swordfish. But why didn’t u pack my blue silk pyjamas?”

You’ll love the answer..!!

She says, “I did…..They’re in your fishing box”

Game over !!

Nurse reveals the top 5 regrets people make on their deathbed ...

For many years I worked in palliative care. My patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared. I was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives. People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality.

I learnt never to underestimate someone’s capacity for growth. Some changes were phenomenal. Each experienced a variety of emotions, as expected, denial, fear, anger, remorse, more denial and eventually acceptance. Every single patient found their peace before they departed though, every one of them.

When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, common themes surfaced again and again. Here are the most common five:

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

This was the most common regret of all. When people realize that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.

It is very important to try and honour at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.

2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.

Polish Man Married A Canadian Girl

Polish man married a Canadian girl after he had been in Canada a year or so, and although his English was far from perfect, the couple got on very well. One day, though, he rushed into a lawyer’s office and asked if he could arrange a divorce for him, “Very quick”!
The lawyer explained that the speed of getting a divorce would depend on the circumstances, and asked these questions:
LAWYER: “Have you any grounds?”

POLE: An acre and half, and a nice 3 bedroom house.
LAWYER: “No, I mean what is the foundation of the case?”

POLE: “It is made of concrete, bricks & mortar.”
LAWYER: Does either of you have a real grudge?”

POLE: No, We have a carport and don’t need a grudge.
LAWYER: “I mean, what are your relations like?”

POLE: “All my relations live in Poland.”
LAWYER: “Is there any infidelity in your marriage?”

POLE: “Yes, we have hi-fidelity stereo set & DVD player with 6.1 sound.
LAWYER: “No, I mean does your wife beat you up?”

POLE: “No, I’m always up before her.”
LAWYER: “Why do you want this divorce?”

POLE: “She going to kill me!”
LAWYER: “What makes you think that?”

Pay Attention To Her!

Pay Attention To Her! 
When a woman is “tripping” she cares. When a woman is “mad” she believed in you and you let her down. When she’s “asking questions” she is trying to gain clarity. When she’s quiet and letting things “slide” she is giving up. And when she’s not doing any of the above just know you lost a good woman.

A pretty face gets old. A nice body will change. But a good woman will always b a good woman.

A GOOD WOMAN can only take so much. Don't underestimate her desire be happy even if it means moving on without you.

A real woman doesn't hate on another woman. She gives props and compliments instead of insults.

The Heart Of A Teacher

A young man, a student was taking a walk with a professor who was known for his kindness. As they went along, they saw lying in the path a pair of old shoes, which they supposed belonged to a poor man who was employed in a field close by, and who had nearly finished his day’s work.

The student turned to the professor, saying: “Let us play the man a trick: we will hide his shoes, and conceal ourselves behind bushes, and wait to see his confusion when he cannot find them.”

“My young friend,” answered the professor, “we should never amuse ourselves at the expense of the poor. But you are rich and can give yourself much greater pleasure this way . Put a coin into each shoe, and We watch to see how the discovery affects him.”

The student did so and they both placed themselves behind the bushes close by. The poor man soon finished his work, and came across the field to the path where he had left his coat and shoes. While putting on his coat he slipped his foot into one of his shoes; but feeling something hard, he stooped down to feel what it was, and found the coin. He was absolutely astonished . He gazed upon the coin, turned it round, and looked at it again and again. He then looked around him on all sides but no person was to be seen. He now put the money into his pocket, and proceeded to put on the other shoe; but his surprise was doubled on finding the other coin. His feelings overcame him; he fell upon his knees, looked up to heaven and uttered aloud a fervent thanksgiving thanking some unknown hand which would save his sick wife and his children who were without bread.

The student stood there deeply affected, and his eyes filled with tears.

“Now,” said the professor, “are you not much better pleased than if you had played your wicked trick?”

The youth replied, “You have taught me a lesson which I will never forget. I feel now the truth of those words, which I never understood before:

‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.”

11 Things Man Should Do Consistently To Make His Wife Happy

The relationship between a man and a woman is fluid and subject to many external influences. There are always people interacting with the husband and the wife, including family members, friends, and co-workers. They will express their opinions, which can range from positive to negative. These influence each partner’s perspective on the status of the marriage. With that being said, there are things that a man can consistently do to make his wife happy. His efforts will serve to minimize the influence of people on the outside of the relationship and reassure his wife of the depth of his feelings.

1. Wake up in the morning and give your wife a hug and a kiss. There is no better way to start. This gesture can sustain her throughout the day.
2. Leave little notes to her that you’re thinking of her. Plant one in the laundry basket because she is about to wash laundry on Saturday morning, or you might email her a romantic electronic greeting card at work.
3. Get home early and cook her favorite dinner. If your wife works, raises the kiddos, or keeps the home, she is subject to feeling burnt out too at the end of the day. Throw in a bottle of wine or her favorite dessert to make it special.
4. Schedule a romantic getaway for a weekend during her busiest time of year. This might take some convincing to get her away from her obligations, but she can relax away from the usual sources of stress.
5. Pick up flowers on the way home from work. If you can’t get there in time to cook dinner, this is something to do when you know she had a bad day.

We Are All Motivated – Either Positively Or Negatively

This is a story of two brothers. One was a drug addict and a drunker who frequently beat up his family. The other one was a very successful businessman who was respected in society and had a wonderful family.

Some people wanted to find out why two brothers from the same parents, brought up in the same environment, could be so different. The first one was asked, “How come you do what you do? You are a drug addict, a drunk, and you beat your family. What motivates you?”

He said, “My father.” They asked, “What about your father?” The reply was, “My father was a drug addict, a drunk and he beat his family. What do you expect me to be? That is what I am.” They went to the brother who was doing everything right and asked him the same question. “How come you are doing everything right? What is your source of motivation?” And guess what he said? “My father. When I was a little boy, I used to see my dad drunk and doing all the wrong things. I made up my mind that that is not what I wanted to be.”

Both were deriving their strength and motivation from the same source, but one was using it positively and the other negatively.

Negative motivation brings the desire to take the easier way which ends up being the tougher way.

When Someone Is So Sweet To You

When someone is so sweet to you, don't expect that person will be like that all the time. Remember, even the sweetest chocolate expires.

10 Seemingly Small Things That Mean the World to Women

Are you baffled by your beloved’s behavior? Grandiose gifts leave her lukewarm. Your professions of love seem to fall on deaf ears. It’s got you scratching your head in confusion. What’s a guy to do? Learn the little things that capture a woman’s heart and confirm she’s a special lady. Here we present small things that mean the world to women and why.

1. Hold her hand.
There are two reasons why holding her hand sends her over the moon. One is scientific, and the other is romantic. Research proves that holding hands reduces stress. MRIs show a significant reduction in stress-related brain activity with hand-holding. That’s the scientific reason she loves it so much. The romantic reason is that this spontaneous gesture reflects the genuine state of your heart. So squeeze a little hand-holding into her day. Reach for her hand while having dinner, watching TV, or just walking together. Then get ready for a beaming smile to shine your way.
2. Listen without trying to fix what’s wrong.
When she’s struggling with a problem, you naturally want to fix it. Men are wired this way. But she doesn’t necessarily want a solution, or at least not just yet. She wants to feel better. Listening with empathy will help her sort out conflicting emotions and thoughts. Then she’ll set her sights on a solution. Talking about the problem is her strategy for fixing it. She’ll get to the answer eventually. Meanwhile, just listen attentively.
3. Give her compliments.
Compliments convey your appreciation. They make her feel valued and special. Here are five sample compliments for a five-star partner rating:
  • “I don’t know what I’d do without you.” You’re saying she’s irreplaceable. You need her. She’s vital to your very life.
  • “You are my sunshine.” Acknowledging how happy she makes you will send her spirits soaring.
  • “You’re perfect just the way you are.” This conveys your unconditional love. She doesn’t have to do or be anything specific for you to adore her.
  • “I’m so proud of you.” Paying attention to your partner’s achievements demonstrates your support. It’s another way to validate her.
  • “I love your new [hairstyle, dress, lipstick,” etc. Fill in the blank.] This shows you’re attentive to details and to her.

Top 10 Promises Men Make To Their Future Wives Without Realizing It

If you have been in a relationship for a significant amount of time, and these topics have never come up, it might be time to ask your man outright – Are we ever going to get married?

Top 10 Promises Men Make to their Future Wives without Realizing it:

1.) Exclusivity – Easily the top sign that your man has marriage on the mind, and a definite must. If he is unwilling to be exclusive, there is a good chance he’s just not ready to grow up and be a husband. Better to know now, rather than after the fact. Some men will give into pressure and simply marry women their families approve of, but won’t stop going out and meeting others. Don’t even think about marrying a man who won’t make you his one and only.
2.) You’ll have children – Men only discuss children with women they can see as the mother of their own. If your man discusses plans for schools, names, or other important factors that come with having children, he definitely wants you to be his wife. There may simply be other factors preventing him from popping the question.
3.) Building a home together – Asking for your input on a future home means that your man intends to have you in his life for a long time. He might not be so obvious about the subject, bringing up topics like decorating, or even features of a home he’d like to own someday. Nevertheless, these discussions are reserved for women with whom men plan to build a life with.

5 Psychological Reasons Why Nice Guys Don’t Always Get The Girl

“You are really a nice guy, but we can only be friends” – How many of you have heard this kind of response when you proposed your love, she seems to be into you but the response changes when you try to escalate. The reason is you are being a gentleman and never got her attracted/attached.

Here’re 5 Psychofacts Why Nice Guys Don’t Always Get The Girl

1.Being Nice is associated with Being Fake
Whenever someone acts too nicely, it is always associated with some hidden motive. Girls can easily smell the fishy things in your mind from distance whenever you act too nicely and tries to get their attention.

2. Nice people are taken for granted
Expectations are lit up from your behavior. Consistently doing favor to a girl to get into her good books will do no good for you. Favors or helps don’t create any sort of attraction.

3. You don’t give her anything to obsess
Being Nice means being too predictable and this means zero attention. If you are not able to make a girl constantly think about you when you are not around her, you cannot make her fall for you. She knows every aspect of your personality and there is nothing attractive about it. Nice guys don’t have a hidden charisma around their personality.

Psychology Story

One day, during an evening class for adults, the psychology Teacher entered the class and told students, “Let’s all play a game!” “ What Game?”
The Teacher asked one of the students to volunteer.

A lady, Aliza came forward.

The Teacher asked her to write 30 names of most important people in her life on blackboard.

Aliza wrote names of her family members, relatives, friends, her colleagues and her neighbors.

The Teacher told her to erase 3 names that Aliza considered most unimportant.
Aliza erased names of her colleagues.
The Teacher again told her to delete 5 more names. Aliza erased her neighbor's names.

This went on until there were just four names left on the blackboard. These were names of her mother, father, husband and the only son...

The entire class became silent realizing that this wasn’t a game anymore for Aliza alone.

Now, The Teacher told her to delete two more names.

It was a very difficult choice for Aliza.
She unwillingly deleted her parents names.

8 Tips to Overcome Loneliness, A Guide for Women

Loneliness can be frightening. While some people enjoy being single, its difficult for others to get through this. Loneliness can have severe effects on your mental health, even leading to depression and anxiety. Many think that single people are lonelier than others, but the American Psychological Association states married women are actually lonelier and more stressed than women who are single. Loneliness can be avoided by doing simple things. Here is a list:

1. Take time for yourself
The best way to avoid loneliness is to spend time making yourself a better person with each passing day. Focus on what you want to change and work on self-improvement. Spend time doing what matters to you like time with family, career, and hobbies. Doing what you love will uncover new traits in your personality.

2. Analyze your loneliness
Loneliness is a feeling, not a fact. Our brain pays more attention to pain and danger so it gives more attention to feelings of loneliness. Its important to make yourself believe that you are not actually lonely. Surround yourself with people who support you and love you.

3. Get enough sleep
One of the biggest indicators of loneliness is lack of sleep. When we feel lonely we sometimes beat ourselves up emotionally questioning our life and choices. This overthinking can keep us awake. Lack of sleep during the night makes you feel sleepy during the day. Moreover, lack of sleep deteriorates mood and worsens feelings of loneliness. If you are not able to sleep involve yourself in physical activities and make yourself tired. Avoid overthinking.