Showing posts with label Trust. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Trust. Show all posts

When trust is broken


When trust is broken, sorry means nothing.

Whoever is careless with the truth in small matters cannot be trusted with important matters. - Albert Einstein

“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you. - Friedrich Nietzsche

“It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier to be sometimes cheated than not to trust.

“The trust has broken down. It will take some time to change attitudes and attitudes are going to be needed to develop trust - Jim Leach

“Rebuilding trust when it's been broken is not dependent only on the person who has broken it, or how many times they can prove they are honest. It depends on the person who has decided not to trust anymore. Though they may be totally justified in their decision not to trust, as long as they choose not to, the relationship has no hope of survival and should be ended. If or when they decide to trust again, there is hope reborn - Doe Zantamata

“I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken, and I'd rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken pieces as long as I lived ~ Margaret Mitchell

“We're never so vulnerable than when we trust someone - but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy

 

When Trust Is Broken


I find that sorry has an arbitrary meaning anymore. People say it so often in life that when you mean it, it’s hard to differentiate when it’s real. If you bump into someone, you arbitrarily say, I’m sorry or drop a coin as your handing back change, “I’m sorry” but when it counts you say it and how is one to differentiate what’s true and what’s arbitrary? No one means to do what they do and if they do, why should u be “sorry” especially if there’s intent. So don’t be “sorry”. Live with intent, check to see that they’re ok when you bump into them, pick up the coin and say “there you go”! Stop being overly polite. ~ Michael Bonacci

Sorry works when a mistake is made, but not when trust is broken. So in life, make mistakes but never break trust. Because forgiving is easy, but forgetting and trusting again is sometimes impossible.

Trust means everything, when that’s gone, it’s hard to rebuild no matter how hard you try. It’s impossible to get back!

How beautiful it is to stay silent ?


I close my eyes, then I drift away, into the magic night I softly say. A silent prayer, like dreamers do, then I fall asleep to dream my dreams of you. ~ Roy Orbison

Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt. ~ Abraham Lincoln

How beautiful it is to stay silent when someone expects you to be enraged.

Silence is a very good language of expression. You don’t say anything, but silence says everything. So don’t get enraged.Trust Me! ~ Deepti Valecha 

Silence is golden when someone is deliberately trying to push your buttons, particularly if have a little smile on your face. You walk away calm, their blood pressure is off the charts. ~ Carol Muller

Never trust a person that has let you down more than two times.


Never trust a person that has let you down more than two times. Once was a warning, twice was a lesson and anything more than that is simply taking advantage!

Trust is the glue of life. It's the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It's the foundational principle that holds all relationships. ~ Stephen Covey

The most important lesson that I have learned is to trust God in every circumstance. Lots of times we go through different trials and following God's plan seems like it doesn't make any sense at all. God is always in control and he will never leave us. ~ Allyson Felix

8 Truths Of Life


Truth no 1 : Nobody is real in this world except Mother.

Truth no. 2 : A poor person has no friends.

Truth no. 3 : People do not like good thoughts they like good looks.

Truth no 4 : People respect the money not the person.

Truth no 5 : The person you love the most, will hurt you the most!

Truth no 6 : Truth is Simple, But, The Moment YOU try to Explain It, it Becomes Difficult.

Truth no 7 : When you are happy you enjoy the music", but
"when you are sad, you understand the lyrics".

Truth no 8 : IN LIFE Two things define you "Your patience" when you have nothing & "Your attitude" when you have everything..

Stay Honest In A Relationship


In a relationship, honesty and trust must exist. If they dont, theres no point of loving. So if you cant afford to be honest, stay single.

“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”~ Jess C. Scott

Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. Relationships must be chosen wisely. It's better to be alone than to be in bad company. There's no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you're ready, not when you're lonely.

I'm tired of being in relationships where I'm not trusted...

It's not important to have all the best things in the world to be happy. Find happiness in relationships with people rather than material things.

Only Trust Someone Who Can See These Three Things In You


Only trust someone who can see these three things in you: The sorrow behind your smile, the love behind your anger, and the reason behind your silence.

The truth is just know who you are then if you don’t received feedback from this person who cares, this person doesn’t have love in him to give it to you. ~ Rasmi Ang

Hurting someone can be easy as throwing a stone in the sea


Hurtful words spoken cannot be taken back. Wound may be healed by an apology, but the scar remains.

“Don't worry about hurting me, if that's what you're afraid of. I want to get hurt. At least I´ll feel something for a change.” ~ Katie Kacvinsky

Unforgivable! People are selfish because they don’t want to be hurt but they turn around and like hurting others. Of course they know how that feels but they just think it’s ok to hurt others. I would say when someone tries to hurt you, try to avoid the person and not letting it happens is the best way to fix the problem. It sounds not easy, but it could work. ~ Cherylin Phan

Perfect maturity is when a person hurt you and you try to understand their situation and don’t hurt them back.

Hurting someone can be as easy as throwing a stone in the sea. But do you have any idea how deep that stone can go?

“To be rejected by someone doesn't mean you should also reject yourself or that you should think of yourself as a lesser person. It doesn't mean that nobody will ever love you anymore. Remember that only ONE person has rejected you at the moment, and it only hurt so much because to you, that person's opinion symbolized the opinion of the whole world, of God.” ~ Jocelyn Soriano

Just Because I don’t say I love you


Just Because I'm quiet, doesn't mean I don't have a lot to say. 
Just Because I appear happy, doesn't mean everything's okay. 
Just Because I laugh a lot, doesn't mean I don't take things seriously. 
Just Because I forgive, doesn't mean you can take me for granted. 
Just Because I don't keep in touch all the time, doesn't mean I don't care. 
Just Because I'm gullible, doesn't mean you can lie to me.
Just Because I'm stubborn, doesn't mean I expect you to change for me. 
Just Because I don't show my feelings, doesn't mean I don't have any. 
Just Because I don't say I love you, doesn't mean I don't. 
Just Because I'm honset, doesn't mean I'm outspoken. 
Just Because I'm not like you, doesn't mean I'm werid. 
Just Because I don't say anything, doesn't mean I'm afraid.

Some people really have a hard time expressing their feelings and words like “I love you”. They were never told they were loved all their childhood and they feel unloved themselves. They were told to keep their feelings to themselves. There are all kinds of people in the world. Some are so inept with their feelings. We have to open our minds and our hearts that these situations exists and be understanding.

“Have you ever heard the wonderful silence just before the dawn? Or the quiet and calm just as a storm ends? Or perhaps you know the silence when you haven't the answer to a question you've been asked, or the hush of a country road at night, or the expectant pause of a room full of people when someone is just about to speak, or, most beautiful of all, the moment after the door closes and you're alone in the whole house? Each one is different, you know, and all very beautiful if you listen carefully.” ~ Norton Juster

How to holds all relationships ?


“Trust is the glue of life. It's the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It's the foundational principle that holds all relationships.”― Stephen R. Covey

“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you.” ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

“I don't trust people who don't love themselves and tell me, 'I love you.' ... There is an African saying which is: Be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt.” ~ Maya Angelou

Marriage does not guarantee you will be together forever, it's only paper. It takes love, respect, trust, understanding, friendship and faith in your relationship to make it last.

Never trust a person that has let you down more then 2 times. Once was a warning, twice was a lesson and anything more then that is simply taking advantage!