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Showing posts with label Psychology. Show all posts

5 Psychological Reasons Why Nice Guys Don’t Always Get The Girl

“You are really a nice guy, but we can only be friends” – How many of you have heard this kind of response when you proposed your love, she seems to be into you but the response changes when you try to escalate. The reason is you are being a gentleman and never got her attracted/attached.

Here’re 5 Psychofacts Why Nice Guys Don’t Always Get The Girl

1.Being Nice is associated with Being Fake
Whenever someone acts too nicely, it is always associated with some hidden motive. Girls can easily smell the fishy things in your mind from distance whenever you act too nicely and tries to get their attention.

2. Nice people are taken for granted
Expectations are lit up from your behavior. Consistently doing favor to a girl to get into her good books will do no good for you. Favors or helps don’t create any sort of attraction.

3. You don’t give her anything to obsess
Being Nice means being too predictable and this means zero attention. If you are not able to make a girl constantly think about you when you are not around her, you cannot make her fall for you. She knows every aspect of your personality and there is nothing attractive about it. Nice guys don’t have a hidden charisma around their personality.

Psychology Story

One day, during an evening class for adults, the psychology Teacher entered the class and told students, “Let’s all play a game!” “ What Game?”
The Teacher asked one of the students to volunteer.

A lady, Aliza came forward.

The Teacher asked her to write 30 names of most important people in her life on blackboard.

Aliza wrote names of her family members, relatives, friends, her colleagues and her neighbors.

The Teacher told her to erase 3 names that Aliza considered most unimportant.
Aliza erased names of her colleagues.
The Teacher again told her to delete 5 more names. Aliza erased her neighbor's names.

This went on until there were just four names left on the blackboard. These were names of her mother, father, husband and the only son...

The entire class became silent realizing that this wasn’t a game anymore for Aliza alone.

Now, The Teacher told her to delete two more names.

It was a very difficult choice for Aliza.
She unwillingly deleted her parents names.


A guy asked a girl in a library;

“Do you mind if I sit beside you”?

The girl answered with a loud voice; "I DON’T WANT TO SPEND THE NIGHT WITH YOU!!!"

All the students in the library started staring at the guy and he was embarrassed.

After a couple of minutes,

the girl walked quietly to the guy’s table and she told him “I study psychology and I know what a man is thinking, -

I guess you felt embarrassed, right?”

The guy responded with a loud voice: "$200 JUST FOR ONE NIGHT!? THAT’S TOO MUCH!!!" And all the people in the library looked at the girl in shock and the guy whispered in her ears;

“I study Law and I know how to make someone feel guilty"

Never Ask The Man Who Loves You These 10 Things

In every relationship, there are questions asked simply to fill the silence, in the heat of the moment, there are questions that are used to wound and there are always questions asked to eased one person’s anxiety about the relationship. However, psychologically speaking, there are some questions which can be harmful to your guy and harmful to your relationship. Here are ten questions you should never ask the man who loves you:

1. Do you really love me? You may say this out of insecurity, but this may make him insecure. If he feels he shows you his love, and you ask him this, he will start reflecting on what he’s done wrong for you to think he may not actually love you.
2. Why don’t you ever listen to anything I have to say? Chances are he has listened to more about you than he cares to know. This may make him defensive since he actually spends a lot of time listening to you.
3. How do you know her? Unless you have some reason to doubt his commitment to you, don’t offensively inquire about someone he was talking to. This will make him feel like you don’t trust him, and trust is so imperative to a healthy relationship.

Differences Between Men And Women

Very Funny Differences Between Men And Women!! Watch & Read.. Enjoy

1. A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he wants. A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't want. 

2. A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband. A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

3. A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man.

4. To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot & love him a little. To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot & not try to understand her at all.

5. Married men live longer than single men - but married men are a lot more willing to die.

6. Any married man should forget his mistakes - there's no use in two people remembering the same thing.

21 Truths About Depression No One Really Talks About

This topic makes people uncomfortable, but it shouldn’t. One in five Americans will be depressed at least once in their lifetime.

1. Depressed people do not cry constantly.
Depressed people don’t always appear sad and often keep intrusive thoughts to themselves.
2. Having “good” days doesn’t help.
Taking a depressed loved one on a trip will not cure their depression.
3. Failure is not the cause.
Failure is not the main cause of this illness. Many suffering from this illness may have inherited a genetic predisposition.

8 Things You Should Never Say To A Woman

The biggest mistake most men make when talking to the women in their lives is to forget who their audience is. Most women are complex creatures because–in order to survive in a world that simultaneously exalts and devalues female sexuality—we must know how to be both virgin and whore in both the work and personal arenas of our lives.
Sounds complex, doesn’t it? It is. Now do you see why asking “direct” questions seems ever-so-charming to you but has the exact opposite impact on us?

Here are some examples of what not to do:
1) Don’t treat women as fungible objects. Just because your last five girlfriends loved getting busy in the shower to Echo and the Bunnymen doesn’t mean the next one will.
2) Don’t slam her friends. At best, it makes you look like you’re attempting to control her by isolating her from her support network. At worst, you seal your own doom. In all likelihood, her friends will be around longer than you will.

9 Things You Should Never Tell A Woman

1. You Talk To Many Guys. 
As a guy, it is one of the weakest moves to make in the beginning of a relationship to tell your girlfriend That she talks to too many guys and you don’t like it. Once you make this mistake, you’ll always be tagged As “insecure” and “bounding” and that comfort level might never come back. She might start hiding stuff From you, they may be minor things, but she will still hide them in order to not hear sermons from you in Return. Relationships are all about trust and space, give them their space and give them your trust, you Will get the same in return. Don’t be insecure.

Sleep Paralysis: 9 Facts About Waking Up And Being Unable To Move

1. You feel like you’ve woken up dead.

Basically your mind wakes up but your body doesn’t, so you essentially feel trapped inside of your body unable to move. Many people wake up feeling like they’re dead.

2. It happens as you fall asleep and wake up.

Sleep paralysis can happen during either of the two transitions in your natural sleep cycle. Your body goes into REM and must eventually come out, but sleep paralysis happens when your body has trouble making the transition.

3. Sleep paralysis often includes hallucinations.

Be proud & Choose The Month You Were Born In

Be proud & Choose The Month You Were Born In

1) JANUARY= you are naughty and rude you don’t tolerate crap

2) FEBRUARY= you are too knowing

3) MARCH= you are cute & (players)

4) APRIL= you are sweet

5) MAY= you are fun to be with

6) JUNE= you are God fearing

9 Things Only Highly Creative People Understand

1. They challenge the system.

To put it plainly, highly creative people like to challenge the status quo. They ask why and why not often and embrace alternate values. It may seem like they’re fighting against order, but really, they’re trying to make sense of it.

2. Their creativity is cyclic.

There are times that they paint all day, or stay up all night writing music. There will be other times they don’t produce much of anything. That’s okay. Creativity sometimes runs in cycles.

3. They need their space.

If they retreat to their studios to work, pop in and say hi once in a while but know that they need their space to do what they do.

4. They are focused.

Highly creative people, once their juices are flowing, will be difficult to distract from it. Remember to stay flexible with your schedules.

Here’s What This Line On Your Hand Reveals About Your Personality And Life

We’ve all heard palm readers try to tell us what the different lines on our hands actually mean, but they’re often rather off. For thousands of years, people have read palms to try to tell a person’s character and emotions. To be clear, the heart line begins near the middle of your hand at the edge of your palm and ends toward the pinky finger.
Which heart line is yours?
1) If this is your heart line, you’re the ambitious one! You’re independent, intelligent, and have a lot of good qualities when it comes to judgement and making decisions. You may have a selfish, materialistic outlook on life though. Use your good qualities to better your community and yourself.
2) If this is your hear line, you’re more considerate, kind, and trustworthy with people. You tend to give away your heart a little too freely. It may take work, but it’s important to know when to be guarded.
3) If this is your heart line, you tend to be content and confident in your love life, whether you’re single or in a relationship. You’re happy every way.
4) This one was my heart line! You’re patient, caring, calm, warm-hearted and full of good intentions. You’re the charitable type. This one read me like a poem!
Was this accurate? Let us know in the comments below!

14 Amazing Psychology Facts Everyone Needs To Know

1. Your favorite song is likely associated with an emotional event.

You and everyone else. (source)

2. Music impacts your perspective.

This one seems kind of obvious! A study at the University of Groningen showed that music has a dramatic impact on your perception. (source)

Don’t expect them to change

Men will be men, don’t expect them to change…don’t expect them to be something they never will be… don’t expect them to remember things that are not important to them. If your man really loves you then he will change himself just enough to meet you in the middle… if he doesn’t, then you need to decide if you can love and accept him the way he is… or move on…

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