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Don't pay attention to what people say behind your back

Don't listen to what people say behind you, A lion never look back when dogs bark. Your God is stronger than their witchcrafts.

Some people are real, some people are good, some people are fake and some people are real good at being fake.

It's not about who is real to your face. It's about who stays real behind your back.

Don't worry about what people say behind your back, they are the people who are finding faults in your life instead fixing the faults in their own life.

It is hard to deal with someone who smiles and pretends to like you to your face and sticks that eight inch blade in your back when you turn around.

Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.

Better to have an enemy who slaps you in the face than a friend who stabs you in the back.

Every day we have plenty of opportunities to get angry, stressed or offended. But what you're doing when you indulge these negative emotions is giving something outside yourself power over your happiness. You can choose to not let little things upset you.

Anyone can stay true to your face, it's the people who stay true behind your back that really count.

Avoid him who talks sweetly before you but tries to ruin you behind your back, for he is like a pitcher of poison with milk on top.

Just because they say they're praying for you in your face, doesn't mean they aren't laughing at your struggle behind your back.- Trent Shelton

People always remember bad stories

The story of your life is in your hands. You alone have the power to write the next chapter.
No matter where you began or what happened along the way, you have the power to get to where you're supposed to be.

Lessons learned the hard way will stick with you forever.

The more impressed someone seems to be with themselves, the less impressive I find them to be.

I truly believe that everything that we do and everyone that we meet is put in our path for a purpose.

There are no accidents; we're all teachers - if we're willing to pay attention to the lessons we learn, trust our positive instincts and not be afraid to take risks or wait for some miracle to come knocking at our door. Marla Gibbs

Even if you hear a bad story about me, understand, there was a time I was good to those people too, but they won't tell you that part.

11 Signs There’s A Toxic Person In Your Life

What are the signs of a toxic person? We’ve come up with 11…


Something to address, quickly: it’s normal to want to think of something to say while someone else is talking. After all, nobody likes sounding “unsure” or “dumb”.
Two things: (1) trying to think of something to say when another person is speaking is not effective (2) this is not what makes somebody a bad listener.

A lack of acknowledgement, lack of response and just plain disinterest is what makes someone a bad listener. Many times, they’ll just continue talking about themselves anyways.


To them, any adverse situation is the result of someone else’s actions. Have a break up? It’s always their evil partner. Came in late to work? Well, it’s the traffic (always (despite nobody else seeing it). Flop on the exam? Well, the questions didn’t match the study guide!

It doesn’t matter if they are at fault – they’ll never admit it. These people have usually gotten so good at making up excuses that they’re uttered semiconsciously.


Ever been somewhere and heard a toxic person make a rude comment about someone in the room that they’ve never even met? It’s weird and shocking at the same time – weird because it’s so out of nowhere and shocking because 99% of people don’t do that.

But some toxic people will say they have the magical ability to innately “feel” when something is wrong with someone else. Worse yet is when they make a crack on someone else’s physical appearance.


Then we have this group – the ones always needing attention. The easiest way to detect this is in a conversation: they’re always interrupting, dominating, and controlling.

They only time they’re happy in a conversation is when they are turning it back onto themselves. They’re also the ones who always seem to always find themselves in the middle the group picture while simultaneously being the loudest one anywhere.


It’s still shocking to people watch and witness how some folks act. People still litter, graffiti property, cut people off in traffic, don’t say “thank you” (always, always been a major pet peeve of this writer), etc. These misguided, socially wretched behaviors are very disturbing.
(Anybody else ever wonder who raised these people?)


Interrupting conversations, interrupting traffic, interrupting with their phone; these folks are constantly in “me mode” and to heck with anyone else that tries to get in their way. They’ve got better things to do than display some empathy or patience.

In seriousness, this is really annoying. It’s human nature to interject someone and apologize. It’s downright rude to be so self-centered and clueless.


Quick question: how do most people come to the conclusion that someone is exceptional (as a person or at something)? Well, we simply observe and come to the conclusion.
Michael Jordan never had to tell us he was a great basketball player. Mother Theresa never had to tell us she was a loving, kind person.

So, when we hear someone talk about how they’re great without being asked and without merit, it’s (again) weird and shocking. Most people are modest about their qualities, but toxic people are not “most people.”

This goes without saying, but physically and/or emotionally abusing another person or animal is an unconscionable and toxic act. Nothing else really needs to be said on the subject, except that if we’re being abused or know of another person or animal being abused that it should be reported to authorities immediately.


In other words, they always have to be right. No amount of evidence to the contrary can sway a toxic person’s illogical conclusion that they are right.

Some people will go to the extreme of a loud, vocal argument to “prove” they’re right. Mind you, there is nothing of substance that is being said – they’re trying to “win” the debate on noise level alone.

Bottom line: not being able to admit that they’re wrong and not being able to admit when someone is right are undesirable characteristics in a person.


A close cousin of #2 and #10, some people don’t take responsibility for anything. Unfortunately, these people can’t see that their own actions yielded an undesirable result.

As for examples, we see this when someone is arguing with an authority figure – a cop, teacher, judge, etc. – and illogically pleading a case without actually having a case. For rational folks, we simply see this as a childish attempt to deflect responsibility from where it belongs.


Ever seen the movie Clueless with Alicia Silverstone? If so, it’s quickly apparent that Cher (Silverstone’s character) and their group look down on pretty much everyone. Everyone else is dirty, badly dressed or otherwise unworthy of their recognition.

There are still people who act “as if” (get it?) it’s still high school. If someone else isn’t driving the newest car, flashing the latest threads or populating the same neighborhood, they’re simply not worth the time. Toxic people consider themselves in another class that only a few, if anyone at all, deserve admittance.

A Cute Letter From A Newly Married Girl to Her Mother

Dear Mom,
Like every normal girl, I was excited about marriage right from my childhood days. I never thought beyond the time that I would spend happily with my prince charming. But today when I am married, I realize that marriage is not all roses. It’s not just about being with your beloved and having a gala time. 
There is so much more to it. 

It comes with its own share of responsibilities, duties, sacrifices and compromises. I can’t wake up anytime I want to. I am expected to be up and ready before everyone else in the family. I can’t laze around in my pyjamas throughout the day. I am expected to be presentable every time. I can’t just go out anytime I want to. 

I am expected to be sensitive to the needs of the family. I just can’t hit the bed anytime I want to. I am expected to be active and around the family. I can’t expect to be treated like a princess but am supposed to take care of everyone else in the family. And then I think to myself, ‘why did I get married at all?’ I was happier with you, mom. 

Sometimes I think of coming back to you and getting pampered again. I want to come home to my favourite food cooked by you every evening after a nice outing with friends. 

When you open this, what word will YOU see?

What word will your eyes be attracted to?It is believed that what you see will be something that relates to you or something that you wish for.

When I first opened this, the first word I saw was HEALTH, quickly followed by LOVE, POPULAR and HONESTY.

My HEALTH is very important to me and something I take seriously - I recently gave up smoking.

We are all unique and we will all see different words and they will mean different things to us all.

Please leave a comment either on this article or on the Facebook link that brought you here. Comment the first word you saw and pass on this test so your family and friends can also try.

Have fun.

6 Type Of Woman Men Don't Want To Marry.

Women often spend time wondering what type of women men want to marry, but have you ever considered the type of woman men don’t want to marry?
Here’s some of the most common personality types that send many men running for the door!

The Control Freak 
She comes off like a mother figure, she’s emasculating and treats her man like an improvement project.

The Baggage Lady
She’s still carrying baggage from previous relationships, she often starts sentences with, “My last boyfriend/husband.” She’s driven by fear and unresolved anger.

The Asphyxiator
She has no life outside of her man and expects him to feel the same. She’s dropped all of her friends and no longer engages in any hobbies that are not shared.

She often nags when her partner wants to spend time with his friends, in most cases that equals any amount of time that doesn’t include her. She’s extremely clingy and needy.

7 Types Toxic People That Mentally Strong People Always Avoid

With the people in our lives, there will be lots of different personalities. Some will help you grow as a person. Some will just be fun to be around. Others, however, will do nothing but hold you back. For the mentally strong, these are the 7 types of toxic people people to avoid.

1. The not-so-deep thinker.

They talk about television and celebrities, about conflicts in their lives and gossip about others. They often think they’re some pretty smart people, and they might very well be, but they’re just not deep thinkers. We should surround ourselves with people who can complete a deep thought. At least one.

2. Lazy people.

Laziness is a plague that can only be solved by hard work and purpose. For the mentally strong, the latter comes naturally. But when we surround ourselves with lazy people, we run the risk of being lazy ourselves. Absolutely veg out if that’s what you’re feeling, but don’t let people make it a habit for you.

4 Ways To Stop Absorbing Other People’s Negative Energy

When you’ve let a chronically negative person into your life, it can be hard to evict their toxic energy once they’ve moved on. These are four useful ways to keep from absorbing that negative energy.

1. Take responsibility for yourself.

The way you feel and the things you do is completely up to you. Maybe we’re tested by some of the people who enter our lives, but all things considered, you’re the one in charge of how you feel. You simply must make a conscious decision not to be impacted by the energy of negative people. That’s step number one.

2. Take some time to breathe.

When I’m surrounded by negative vibes, I just pick up and leave and head to the woods. I spend time in nature because it makes me feel purified in a sense. Like all negativity is washed off of me. Once there, I breathe deeply. I smell the air. I let it revitalize me. When I inhale, I breathe in neutral energy. Once mine, I make it good. When I exhale, I breathe out the negative energy. It’s rather therapeutic.

5 Great Lessons for Sensitive People

Sensitive people are often so giving of their time and energy that they forget to care for themselves. It’s an innate quality that can be difficult to navigate with outside influences establishing the expectations of how you should act.

Here are 5 great lessons for sensitive people:

1. Embrace and control your emotional responses.

Sensitive people see the world differently and with that vision comes great power and responsibility. Because we feel what others are feeling, we often feel a moral obligation to help, and we react with bigger emotion and more rapid action. On the surface, this appears to be a good thing, an admirable trait.

There are many challenges with reacting to a situation in the heat of heightened emotion. The other person might not want help, we might not be able to provide the right kind of help or we might offer help that ends up doing more harm than good to them and us.

It’s not about the desire to help; it’s about understanding the true nature of any situation outside of the emotional connection that is felt. Take the time to think both logically and emotionally before jumping into action. Know the whole world can’t be saved no matter how hard we try. The responsibility comes in choosing our reactions wisely.

What Does Your Birthday Say About Your Love Life

What Does Your Birthday Say About Your Love Life?

If you've always wondered if winter babies were "naughtier" than summer babies or vice versa, look no further. 

Astrologer Suzie KerrWright created this interesting article to find out the real story behind what your birth month has to do with how you like to make love and your love life overall.

Read on for yourself.

January: January-born people are going to be a little more conservative when it comes to actually hooking up with someone. 
But once they like someone, they'll be very persistent in making it happen. Those born in January have one of the kinkiest signs. You wouldn't think so, but they're right up there with November birthdays in terms of being freaky in the bedroom. 

What Is Your Angel Name?

What Is Your Angel Name?

Its easy to find out. Just take the month you were born
and the name associated with it.
Take the first initial of your first name 
and the name associated with it.

Put them together and you have your Angel Name.

May yours bring you luck, blessings and comfort.

Let your future create something better.

Sometimes you just have to turn the page to realize there's more to your book of life than the page you're stuck on. Stop being afraid to move on. Close this chapter of hurt, and never re-read it. It's time to get what your life deserves, and move on from the things that don't deserve you. Don't try to fix what's been broken in your past, let your future create something better.

Everything you need for better future and success has already been written. And guess what? All you have to do is go to the library. ~ Henri Frederic Amiel

I believe with all my heart that God still destines for us an even better future and the opportunity to continue to serve as an inspiration to the world. ~ Marco Rubio

Korean Artist Beautifully Captures What Real Love Truly Looks Like

When you think about how love is portrayed, you probably think about the first child being born or a wedding day. You may even picture a 50th anniversary! But the unsung heroes of the long term love are those little gestures that make love so full and rich. A Korean artist named “Puuung” wants to bring it all to the forefront.
“Love is something that everybody can relate to. And Love comes in ways that we can easily overlook in our daily lives. So, I try to find the meaning of love in our daily lives and make it into artwork,” she writes.
Puuung reminds us that the little things really do matter.

13 Interesting Facts About Left-Handers

About 5 to 15 percent of people are left-handed! Interestingly, 4 out of the last 7 U.S. presidents are left-handed: Presidents Obama, Bill Clinton, George H.W. Bush, and Gerald Ford. Other famous examples of left-handers are: Joan of Arc, Napoléon Bonaparte, Alexander the Great, Leonardo da Vinci and Michelangelo.

According to a research published in the American Journal of Psychology, left-handed people are more creative than righties and have the upper hand in at least one creative facet — they’re better at divergent thinking, a method of idea generation that explores many possible solutions. It’s also good to know that if both parents are left-handed, half of their children might be left-handed. If two parents are right-handed, only %2 of their children would be left-handed.
This interesting infographic shares some little-known facts about left-handers:

20 Things A Father Should Tell His Daughter

How true Daddy's words were when he said: all children must look after their own upbringing. Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands.

1) Pay attention to the way a man loves his mother. That is the way he will love you.

2) You can do anything a man can do, including organic chemistry, unclogging toilets and assembling IKEA furniture.

3) Older women wear makeup so THEY can look like YOU. Less is more. A lot less is a lot more.

4) People will judge you by the way you look. It isn’t fair, but it’s the way the world works. Keep that in mind as you pick your outfit in the morning.

5) Never let anyone do your thinking for you. There are far too many people with far too much invested in you believing what they believe.

Love Never Happens With The Beauty of Face

Girl : why do you keep on following me ?

Boy : Because you are so pretty and I think I am falling in love with you.

Girl : Really?…… but you haven’t met my friend yet. She is more prettier than me and she is right behind you.

(The guy looking behind him but found no one)

Boy : are you making fun of me ? There is no one behind me..

Girl : No, but if you really love me, you won’t look back.

because love never happens with the beauty of face. but with the beauty of hearts <3

What Does Your Foot Shape Says About You?

Is your second toe longer than your big toe? The shape of your foot can say a lot of things about your personalty and even provide information about your health. Read on to know about it.
There are mainly four different shapes of feet.

This refers to a foot in which the length of all the toes, including the first or big toe, is almost similar, making it a rectangular shape. It is also called ‘Giselle’ or ‘Peasant Foot’ and is personalty trait of those who like to think carefully, especially before making a decision or reaching a conclusion. These individuals always weighing up the positive and negative aspects before making any decision. They’re practical and reliable, meaning you can really depend of those square-toed friends.

What's your Lucky Leprechaun Name.

What's your "Lucky Leprechaun Name"

We all have a "Lucky Leprechaun Name" 
and Its easy to find out what yours is...
Just take the first initial of your first name and 
the month you were born. 
Put them together and Bejesus - 
You have your "Lucky Leprechaun Name" 

Just a little fun for you to share :)

Don't forget to leave a comment with your "Lucky Leprechaun Name" 
and to share this with your family and friends.

13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do

People who are mentally strong and well adjusted are different in a number of ways. Very often, the best way to learn from such people is to observe what actions and behaviors they avoid. Here are the top 13 things not to do if you want to be mentally strong.

1. Quit When Things Get Tough

One of the most important qualities of mentally strong people is resilience and the ability to keep going when they run into obstacles. This is a quality found in some of the toughest people in the world, such as Navy SEALs.