It’s better to be single, but happy

“Single is an opportunity to live life on your own terms and not apologize.”

“I’m not single. I’m not taken. I’m simple on reserve for the one who deserves my heart.”

A season of loneliness and isolation is when the caterpillar gets its wings. Remember that next time you feel alone.”

“If you are not happy being single, you will never be happy in a relationship. Get your own life first, then share it.”

It’s better to be single, but happy. Rather than to be with someone who does nothing while you’re doing everything.

I don’t trust words, I trust actions

I don’t trust words, I trust actions. People can tell you anything but actions tell you everything.

“Trust takes years to build, seconds to break, and forever to repair.”

“Trust each other again and again. When the trust level gets high enough, people transcend apparent limits, discovering new and awesome abilities of which they were previously unaware.” – David Armistead

“Trust is like blood pressure. It’s silent, vital to good health, and if abused it can be deadly.”

“I trusted you but now your words mean nothing because your actions spoke the truth.”

True friends aren't the ones who make your problems disappear

True friends aren’t the ones who make your problems disappear. They are the ones who won’t disappear when you are facing problems.

True friends are ones who likes to make you laugh and smile when you are feeling down and love spending time together with you and they care and love you for you.

Growing up means realizing a lot of your friends aren't really your friends.

So blessed to have True friends like this and a beautiful, caring God loving family.Thanks to all who bless us with your presence and prayers.

Strong woman will never get attached to rich man

A strong woman will never get attached to rich man. Instead she will try to get rich herself.

“I am a strong woman. I don’t sit around feeling sorry for myself, nor let people mistreat me. I don’t respond to people who dictate to me or try to bring me down. If I fall I will rise up even stronger because I am survivor and not a victim. I am in control of my life and there is nothing I can’t achieve.”

“A strong woman stands up for herself. A stronger woman stands up for everybody else.”

“A strong woman is one who feels deeply and loves fiercely. Her tears flow as abundantly as her laughter. A strong woman is both soft and powerful, she is both practical and spiritual. A strong woman in her essence is a gift to the world.”

“I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day, and I believe in miracles.” – Audrey Hepburn

“A strong woman loves, forgives, walks away, lets go, tries again, and perseveres… not matter what life at her.”

When you truly care for someone

When you truly care for someone, their mistakes never change your feelings because it's the mind that gets angry but the heart still cares.

Nobody cares how much you know, until they know how much you care.

Caring about others, running the risk of feeling, and leaving an impact on people, brings happiness. 

Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend to them all the care, kindness and understanding you can muster, and do it with no thought of any reward. Your life will never be the same again. 

Caring can be learned by all human beings, can be worked into the design of every life, meeting an individual need as well as a pervasive need in society. 

Always respect others, never look down on anyone

Never judge people. Who have little to nothing, as one day you may find yourself having nothing at all. Always respect one another no matter what, Never look down on anyone.

“The happiest people I know are always evaluating and improving themselves. The unhappy people are usually evaluating and judging others.” Anonymous

“Everything we judge in others is something within ourselves we don’t want to face.” Anonymous

“No one likes feeling judged. Back off and let people live. We’re all on some type of journey, all evolving and growing.” Anonymous

“If you are pained by external things it is not they that disturb you but your own judgment of them. And it is in your power to wipe out that judgment now.” Marcus Aurelius

Bumping into someone who can spark your soul, now that is rare

Falling in love is easy. Having sex is easier. But bumping into someone who can spark your soul…now that is rare.

Falling in love in high school and falling out of love - it's very digital. I've had breakups where they've called me to tell me we were done, and I've gotten a lot of text messages from an old girlfriend letting me know how she felt about me after we had ended everything. ~ Khalid

Falling in love is the best way to kill your heart because then it's not yours anymore. It's laid in a coffin, waiting to be cremated. ~ Ville Valo

Falling in love, romance, matters of the heart - when you fall in love, on some biochemical level you know there is a chance it won't work out. It's ingrained in us that if you take such an enormous risk on someone with your heart that it might not pay off. I gamble all my chips and I might actually lose everything. ~ Rachael Taylor

In life, you have to take the pace that love goes. You don't force it. You just don't force love, you don't force falling in love, you don't force being in love - you just become. I don't know how to say that in English, but you just feel it. ~ Juan Pablo Galavis

If you have a best friend who won't judge you, never let them go

If you have a best friend that you can talk to about anything and they won’t judge you, never let them go.

"One of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and be understood." “A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.” "Friends are the siblings God never gave us." "A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you."

"Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together."

"I think if I've learned anything about friendship, it's to hang in, stay connected, fight for them, and let them fight for you. Don't walk away, don't be distracted, don't be too busy or tired, don't take them for granted. Friends are part of the glue that holds life and faith together. Powerful stuff." Jon Katz

Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time for silence. A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own destiny. And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it's all over." Octavia Butler

My grandmother: My best friend

A grandmother a little bit parent, a little bit teacher, a little bit best friend & a little bit partner in crime.

A grandma is warm hugs and sweet memories. She remembers all of your accomplishments and forgets all of your mistakes. – Barbara Cage

“Nobody can do for little children what grandparents do. Grandparents sort of sprinkle stardust over the lives of little children.” – Alex Haley

“Everyone needs to have access both to grandparents and grandchildren in order to be a full human being.” – Margaret Mead

My Grandmother would say, “Make sure you look good. Make sure you speak well. Make sure you remain that Southern gentleman that I’ve taught you to be." – Jamie Foxx

Grandmothers always have time to talk and make you feel special. – Catherine Pulsifer

It is as grandmothers that our mothers come into the fullness of their grace. – Christopher Morley

We should all have one person who knows how to bless us despite the evidence, Grandmother was that person to me. – Phyllis Theroux

“A child needs a grandparent, anybody’s grandparent, to grow a little more securely into an unfamiliar world.” — Charles and Ann Morse

“A mother becomes a true grandmother the day she stops noticing the terrible things her children do because she is so enchanted with the wonderful things her grandchildren do.” — Lois Wyse

You do not really understand something unless you can explain it to your grandmother. – Albert Einstein

Always pray to have eyes that see the best in people

Always pray to have eyes that see the best in people, a heart that forgives the worst, a mind that forgets the bad, and a soul that never loses faith in God.

Faith is letting down our nets into the transparent deeps at the Divine command, not knowing what we shall draw. 

I trust in God, and His ways are not our ways. So we have to go with that, and there's nothing I can do about that.

You were made by God and for God, and until you understand that, life will never make sense.

Faith in God is an opening up, a letting go, a deep trust, a free act of love but sometimes it was so hard to love.

Faith is not the belief that everything will be all right tomorrow, but the belief that I possess the strength to make everything all right today.

You can believe in God without believing in immortality, but it is hard to see how anyone can believe in immortality and not believe in God. 

Train your mind to be stronger

You gotta train your mind to be stronger than your emotions or else you’ll lose yourself every time.
Train your mind to be calm in every situation.

“Mental toughness is spartanism with qualities of sacrifice, self-denial, dedication. It is fearlessness, and it is love.” ―Vince Lombardi

“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.” ―Thomas Jefferson

“Throw away all weakness. Tell your body that it is strong, tell your mind that it is strong and have unbounded faith and hope in yourself.” ―Swami Vivekananda

You can't force someone to respect you

You can't force someone to respect you, but you can refuse to be disrespected.

Don't force someone to remember you all the time. Just stay silent and let them realize how will they be without you in their life.

Don't force someone to make time for you. If they really want to, they will.

No matter how busy a person is, if they care they will always find time for you.

Stay away from people who make you feel like aren't worth their time.

Once you feel avoided by someone, never disturb them again. It hurts the worst when the person that made you feel so special yesterday, makes you feel so unwanted today.

We learn to respect each other

We don’t always have to agree with one another but it’s important that we learn to respect each other. -Rubyanne.

Respect for ourselves guides our morals, respect for others guides our manners.

I speak to everyone in the same way, whether he is the garbage man or the president of the university. 

If you want to be respected by others, the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self-respect will you compel others to respect you. 

That you may retain your self-respect, it is better to displease the people by doing what you know is right, than to temporarily please them by doing what you know is wrong. 

It is actually a gain, not a loss

Breakups hurt, but losing someone who doesn’t respect and appreciate you is actually a gain, not a loss.

Don't force someone to remember you all the time. Just stay silent and let them realize how will they be without you in their life.

Do not expect respect from worst people, it will only waste your time. Love yourself first, then self-respect will follow. Something isn't right if respect is gone. Without it, no relationship will last.

When you give yourself to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you’ll never get back. There comes a point when you have to let go and stop trying with some people. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll find a way to put you there. Sometimes you just need to let go and accept the fact that they don’t care for you the way you care for them. Let them leave your life quietly. Letting go is oftentimes easier than holding on. We think it’s too hard to let go, until we actually do. Then we ask ourselves, “Why didn’t I do this sooner?”

"You can love them, forgive them, want good things for them ... but still move on without them."

"Pain makes you stronger, fear makes you braver, heartbreak makes you wiser."

Life is a game of Ups and Downs

Some days are better, some days are worse. Look for the blessing instead of the curse. Be positive, stay strong, and get enough rest. You can’t do it all, but you can do your best.

Negative people feed on your response. Don’t give them the pleasure.

Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving. — Albert Einstein

Life becomes easier when you learn to accept the apology you never got. – R. Brault

Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why it’s called the present.

Live for today and not tomorrow,
Live for the Now and whats here,
Stop living for what maybe or what may never come
Live for the day already here.

Sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is Nothing

Don’t waste words on people who deserve your silence. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is nothing at all.

Silence kills. I shut up my mouth if I know that I don’t like to augment the things that I hate to tackle. There’s nothing to explain when everything is self explanatory. I keep my silence whenever I’m angry because I hate to say sorry after saying words that I may have hurt anyone. I said my best when I say nothing at all. ~ Tang Ibrahim Camsa

If the home is deserving, let your peace rest on it; if it is not, let your peace return to you. If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, leave that home or town and shake the dust off your feet. Peace return to you. ~ Matthew 10 13-14

I have learned to believe people when they show me who they are. I no longer make excuses for people and ignore warning signs, I can easily cut someone out of my life, no explanation needed anymore. ~ Loren Tennyson 

I would rather remain silent and thought a fool, then to speak and remove all doubt.

Sometimes silence is more powerful and precious than words.

Miracles happen every day, So never stop believing

Never stop praying. Don’t quit. Miracles happen every day, so never stop believing. God can change things very quickly in your life.

“Prayer is simply a two-way conversation between you and God.”

“Never stop praying, even after God gave you what you prayed for.”

A day without prayer is a day without blessing, and a life without prayer is a life without power.

You live 24 hours a day, you work 8 hours a day, you sleep 8 hours a day, what do you do with the other 8! Put that into years. You live 60 years: you sleep 20 years, you work 20 years, what do you do with the other 20!

Prayers don’t need to be long and eloquent. They need only come from a sincere and humble heart.

When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile.

When God blesses you financially

When God blesses you financially, don’t raise your standard of living. Raise your standard of giving. 

God will give you strength for every battle, wisdom for every decision,and peace that surpasses understanding.

God bless the servicemen who've taken a stand. God bless their families who stand by this great land. God bless the citizens who let their flags wave. God bless my husband for being so brave.

Bless a thing and it will bless you. Curse it and it will curse you....If you bless a situation, it has no power to hurt you, and even if it is troublesome for a time, it will gradually fade out, if you sincerely bless it.

You have achieved a great success. You serious efforts have paid off and you deserve every bit of it. Congratulations and I bless you with my best wishes for you future. May God always take your care.

The two hardest things to find

True love and loyal friends are the two hardest things to find.

This person is your soulmate, don’t ever let them go

The most beautiful feeling is to wake up in the arms of the one you love with all your heart and soul and with the one you are going to spend the rest of your life. No other feeling in the world can compare to the joy of feeling the arms of the one you love every morning and the bliss of seeing the face of this one person the very moment you open your eyes. And then no matter what you do for the rest of your day these peaceful moments will linger on your heart and soul for hours and hours and give you a sense of emotional satisfaction and emotional fulfillment. It gives you the feeling of being loved and cherished to the core…Aarti Khurana

Don’t fall in love with a guy just because he is rich, handsome and popular. Fall in love with a guy who loves to stay up at night just to see you breathing or to see you smiling while you are dreaming. Fall in love with a guy who loves the way you sip your coffee or the way you chew your food. Fall in love with a guy who loves the way you smile or the way you wrinkle up your nose. Fall in love with a guy who loves to hear your heartbeats, your cute little stories, your silly jokes and your laughter. Fall in love with a guy who hates to even blink his eyes because he doesn’t want to miss a single thing about you. A guy who thinks that every single moment spent with you is priceless. Fall in love with a guy who thinks you are his only treasure and he just can’t afford to lose you at any cost. This is the guy who will make you see your real worth and love you till the end of his life. Never let him go…. Aarti Khurana

Throughout life you will meet one person who is unlike any other. You could talk to this person for hours and never get bored. You could tell them anything and they would never judge you… this person is your soulmate, your best friend. Don’t ever let them go.

Don't lie to me

Nothing loses my interest faster than someone lying to me.

Never lie to someone who trust you. Never trust someone who lies to you.

Tell a lie once and all your truth become questionable.

You can’t constantly lie and expect people to trust you.

Of all the lies I’ve heard, “I love you” was my favorite.

Everytime you lie, it brings me a little closer to goodbye.

The worst part about being lied to is knowing that to that person, you weren’t worth the truth.

Lies are a temporary solution to a permanent problem.

I don’t tolerate liars. I’m a nice person, not a stupid one.

I know some people are not happy with me

I know some people are not happy with me, because I am not so good. But few people surely love me because they know that my little goodness is not fake.

“When I despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love have always won. There have been tyrants and murderers, and for a time, they can seem invincible, but in the end, they always fall. Think of it--always.”― Mahatma Gandhi

“Be the reason someone smiles. Be the reason someone feels loved and believes in the goodness in people.”― Roy T. Bennett

“You've a good heart. Sometimes that's enough to see you safe wherever you go. But mostly, it's not.”― Neil Gaiman

Love me today, When I am still alive

When I Die
I don’t want flowers.
I don’t want tears.
I certainly don’t want people flying to come 
and say goodbye.
If you love me that much
What are you waiting for?
Send me flowers now.
Come see me now.
Please don’t wait till I’m gone.
Love Me Today!

“Some people in your family will come miles to bury you, but won’t even cross a street to come support you when you are alive”

“You have to promise you won't fall in love with me.”― Nicholas Spark

“I hope that someday when I am gone, someone, somewhere, picks my soul up off of these pages and thinks, "I would have loved her.”― Nicole Lyons

Everyone has their own story

Don't judge people for the choices they make when you don't know the options they had to choose from.

“Everyone has a story to tell. Everyone is a writer, some are written in the books and some are confined to hearts.”― Savi Sharma

Everyone has a story. It might or might not be a love story. It could be a story of dreams, friendship, hope, survival or even death. And every story is worth telling. But more than that, it’s worth living.”― Savi Sharma

When you point a finger at someone the other three fingers point right back at you. 

By judging others we blind ourselves to our own evil and to the grace which others are just as entitled to as we are. 

“Never judge someone's character based on the words of another. Instead, study the motives behind the words of the person casting the bad judgment. An honest woman can sell tangerines all day and remain a good person until she dies, but there will always be naysayers who will try to convince you otherwise. Perhaps this woman did not give them something for free, or at a discount. Perhaps too, that she refused to stand with them when they were wrong — or just stood up for something she felt was right. And also, it could be that some bitter women are envious of her, or that she rejected the advances of some very proud men. Always trust your heart. If the Creator stood before a million men with the light of a million lamps, only a few would truly see him because truth is already alive in their hearts. Truth can only be seen by those with truth in them. He who does not have Truth in his heart, will always be blind to her.”― Suzy Kassem

Life goes on with or without you

I'm too old to worry about who likes me and who dislikes me. I have more important things to do. If you love me, I love you. If you support me, I support you. If you hate me, I don't care. Life goes on with or without you.

I don't have time to hate people who hate me, because I'm too busy loving the people who love me. When you hate you feel miserable, when you love you feel wonderful, it's your choice. Be happy in front of people who don't like you. It kills them.

Life is short to wait, I keep going and don't turn back.

Life goes on, and I'm moving on to the next thing, but I hope the soaps that are still running will thrive. They have millions of loyal viewers. ― Susan Lucci