God often removes a person in your life for your protection. Think about that before you go running after them.
The Word of God says that we are the temple of God. So why should we allow people to use and abuse us. We go through hurt, anger, and alot more. Blame belongs to us we make the wrong choices "we have only one person to blame "me" We choose the wrong road.
God gives us the signs; we just need to pay attention and have faith.