Accept! They aren’t that person anymore



Sometimes you just have to erase the messages, delete the numbers, and move on. You don't have to forget who that person was to you; only accept that they aren't that person anymore.

Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have - life itself. ~ Walter Anderson

Forgiving does not erase the bitter past. A healed memory is not a deleted memory. Instead, forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember. We change the memory of our past into a hope for our future. ~ Lewis B. Smedes

Ask yourself is that what you want? Is that what you deserve? Do you want to stay in that drama? Do you really love yourself? Do you want to move on to something better? Ask yourself those questions and you will see. Never let that solitude makes you go back with someone who you know is not for you. It’s ok to be alone for a while, learn to love yourself, respect yourself and enjoy life.~ Andy Jean

You build on failure. You use it as a stepping stone. Close the door on the past. You don't try to forget the mistakes, but you don't dwell on it. You don't let it have any of your energy, or any of your time, or any of your space. ~ Johnny Cash

When you miss someone so much


“They say when you are missing someone that they are probably feeling the same, but I don't think it's possible for you to miss me as much as I'm missing you right now” ~ Edna St. Vincent Millay

Once, years ago, I dreamt about my parents (both deceased) and ached for missing them. The dream seemed very real. My parents were in it, looking at me and smiling. We were able to hug each other one last time. I actually felt it and that sensation lingered for several days. Occasionally, I can feel their arms around me even now. ~ Sue Tremaine 

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real.

“Anyway, it doesn't matter how much, how often, or how closely you keep an eye on things because you can't control it. Sometimes things and people just go. Just like that.” ~ Cecelia Ahern

I would hold you if only my arms could reach you. Since you’ve been gone, I can’t hardly breath. My heart can’t stop bleeding. A part of me is gone that I’ll never get back. After being with you for 13 years, I’m just lost now. I love you with every best of my heart. From now until eternity. One life, One love! Forever! ~ Edie Rose