Sometimes it’s better to keep silent than to tell others what you feel

Sometimes it's better to keep silent than to tell others what you feel because it hurts badly when you come to know that they can hear you but can't understand.

“Sometimes” I personally feel you should never bottle your feelings inside. I mean never. However, take into full considering what the “others” are. I share my feelings with only whom I know I will be understood, but don’t risk sharing your feelings with people whom you may be misunderstood.

“It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool, than to talk and remove all doubt of it.” ~ Maurice Switzer

“Many times in life I've regretted the things I've said without thinking. But I've never regretted the things I said nearly as much as the words I left unspoken.” ~ Lisa Kleypas

It takes someone to go through the same thing you went through before they can understand. Telling your story is not asking for sympathy you just want to unload yourself of the burden you are carrying. Its not passing the burden to another human being but having a sounding board when you want someone to just have an ear, you are not asking for anything, sympathy,empathy or compassion. ~ Norma Powell

10 Signs Your Partner Is Cheating on You.

Recent studies show that over 50% of men and 50% of women cheat at some point in their relationship. With such alarming numbers, one may wonder if his/her mate is cheating. If you have a “gut” feeling that something is going on, chances are high that you could be correct. Here are the top ten signs to look for that might mean your partner is cheating:

1. She/He takes the cell phone everywhere. Taking the phone everywhere, including the bathroom, is a red flag. Doing so can help the cheating partner hide text messages or make secret calls. If your partner is attached at the hip to the cell phone there might be cause for alarm.

2. She/He always has a reason you cannot hang out or visit their living space. Not being able to visit, announced or otherwise, could mean there is something to hide. In the early stages of a relationship, this boundary is expected. But as time progresses and the boundary remains high, cheating might be the reason.