Everyone can say I Love you, but not everyone really means it

When we say, “I Love You” that is exactly what we mean. It does not mean that the recipient of our love feels what we feel for them. To know whether feeling is mutual, ask: “Do you feel loved by me?”

“I love you” means that I accept you for the person that you are, and that I do not wish to change you into someone else. It means that I will love you and stand by you even through the worst of times. It means loving you even when you’re in a bad mood, or too tired to do the things I want to do. It means loving you when you’re down, not just when you’re fun to be with. “I love you” means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them, asking in return that you do not judge me for mine. It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love you enough not to let go. It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly, and hoping you feel the same way for me. ~ Jonathan Safran Foer

Everyone can say I Love you, but not everyone really means it. So believe it when you see it and feel it, not only when you hear it.

When you really love someone

When you really love someone, age, distance, height, weight.. is just a damn number!

“We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter. Too much of the time, we are blinded by our own pursuits of people to love us, people that don't even matter, while all that time we waste and the people who do love us have to stand on the sidewalk and watch us beg in the streets! It's time to put an end to this. It's time for us to let ourselves be loved.” ~ C. JoyBell C.

If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If it does not come back, it was never meant to be.

I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

Those numbers don’t have to count if you have a strong relationship. Look at how many military families do it when there loved ones are gone. I have been there and the miles made us stronger because after being away from me (as a friend) for a long time we are finally working on being more, but he was still there when I needed him and the same for me. I can tell you that the man in my life is very supportive of me (I do not have the looks of a model or anything like that but I am not overweight either). He is a little over 2 years older then me. But when I tell him that I look “fat” or anything along those line he comes right back with “no you’re not” and if I proceed to push it with him (on one of my pms days) and ask him “why” he says that he replies “because your not fat and I Love you the way you are”. So yes I believe that weight doesn’t matter if the man truly loves you. ~ Nikki Plachinski