5 Psychological Reasons Why Nice Guys Don’t Always Get The Girl

“You are really a nice guy, but we can only be friends” – How many of you have heard this kind of response when you proposed your love, she seems to be into you but the response changes when you try to escalate. The reason is you are being a gentleman and never got her attracted/attached.

Here’re 5 Psychofacts Why Nice Guys Don’t Always Get The Girl

1.Being Nice is associated with Being Fake

Whenever someone acts too nicely, it is always associated with some hidden motive. Girls can easily smell the fishy things in your mind from distance whenever you act too nicely and tries to get their attention.

2. Nice people are taken for granted

Expectations are lit up from your behavior. Consistently doing favor to a girl to get into her good books will do no good for you. Favors or helps don’t create any sort of attraction.

3. You don’t give her anything to obsess

Being Nice means being too predictable and this means zero attention. If you are not able to make a girl constantly think about you when you are not around her, you cannot make her fall for you. She knows every aspect of your personality and there is nothing attractive about it. Nice guys don’t have a hidden charisma around their personality.

Psychology Story

One day, during an evening class for adults, the psychology Teacher entered the class and told students, “Let’s all play a game!” “ What Game?”
The Teacher asked one of the students to volunteer.

A lady, Aliza came forward.

The Teacher asked her to write 30 names of most important people in her life on blackboard.

Aliza wrote names of her family members, relatives, friends, her colleagues and her neighbors.

The Teacher told her to erase 3 names that Aliza considered most unimportant.
Aliza erased names of her colleagues.
The Teacher again told her to delete 5 more names. Aliza erased her neighbor's names.

This went on until there were just four names left on the blackboard. These were names of her mother, father, husband and the only son...

The entire class became silent realizing that this wasn’t a game anymore for Aliza alone.

Now, The Teacher told her to delete two more names.

It was a very difficult choice for Aliza.
She unwillingly deleted her parents names.