Conversation Between Boy And Girl After Break-up

She was sitting alone at the coffee shop. He had just walked in to get something too. And there he saw his ex girlfriend, sitting across the table sipping on coffee. Within a second, she saw him too. Their eyes met, and thousands of memories flashed by in a single millisecond. The days and nights of laughter, the heavenly times they spent together, the romantic moments, the bitter sweet fights and the long hours of constant talking that they did and finally that ugly night, when they had the biggest fight and couldn’t bear to be in the same room also. She packed her bags and left that day. It all flashed by in their minds. Gathering some strength, the guy walked towards her and sat opposite her on the same table. She looked at him with a blank expression, not knowing what to say, for it had been almost two months since they broke up and she didn’t know where he was in his life.

Finally the guy mustered up some courage and started speaking:

Guy – How are you?

Girl – I am fine. How are you doing? (Nervously)

Guy – I am fine too. It’s been a long time.

Girl – Yes, it indeed has. Hope life is treating you well.

Guy – Life has not been the same.

Girl – It has only become better, you mean? (Sarcastically)

Guy – Are you trying to hurt me?

Girl – I never wanted to….

Guy – Then why did you? (Angrily)

Girl – I thought being with me was a pain – you said…I just wanted you to be pain free and happy.

Guy – You think now I am happy?

Girl – I don’t know …..

Guy – Are you happy?

If Your Guy Ever Does These 4 Things, DON’T MARRY HIM

The concept that a loving relationship between partners should be all about love and respect should never be forgotten. There are an abundance of truly healthy relationships where both partners communicate, show respect and affection, and work hard to keep the relationship in good-standing.

Unfortunately, there are also an abundance of relationships that look nothing like the aforementioned relationship. Even more distressing is that many of these destructive relationships evolved despite early signs of dysfunction. For women, these signs should be deal breakers that scream “Don’t Marry Him!”. The four biggest deal breaker should be:

Temper and Violence – Violence doesn’t have to become physical to set off alarms. If a man is prone to excessive verbal outbursts and physical actions such as destroying property, it might be nothing more than a matter of time before that violence is turned towards his partner in the form of physical abuse. Worse of all, temper and violence tend to escalate and can’t be easily fixed without counseling.

Infidelity – “Once a cheater, always a cheater”. Once a person has shown the willingness to cross the line, that willingness will always exist. If your man has a history of infidelity in prior relationships or cheats early within the existing one, the necessary love and respect are not present and it is only going to get worse. Relationships can only grow if people take them one at a time.

Addiction - Drug abuse, alcoholism, sex addiction and compulsive gambling are all highly destructive behavioral problems that tend to take down anything in its path. Far too many women feel compelled to “save” the addict from himself. The reality is that most addicts need intensive counseling and support just to gain and ounce of abstinence and, women are ill-prepared to “fix” a sick addict.