No more tomorrows for Me

When the day arrives that there are no more tomorrows for me, I want my children to know and never forget that they were, are, and always will be deeply loved by me.

My feeling of responsibility for the safety and well-being of my children is so strong, that should an asteroid threaten to wipe out all life on earth, I would still hold myself responsible for their fate. 

Having children is my greatest achievement. It was my saviour. It switched my focus from the outside to the inside. My childen are gifts, they remind me of what's important. 

What it's like to be a parent: It's one of the hardest things you'll ever do but in exchange it teaches you the meaning of unconditional love. 

If a good mother is one who loves her child more than anyone else in the world, I am not a good mother. I am in fact a bad mother. I love my husband more than I love my children.

Don't bother going to my Funeral

Some people in your family will come miles to bury you, but won't even cross a street to come support you when you are alive.

They will drive miles to show up for the memorial service if there is going to be an audience and they will drive the same miles to come get things they want, but never have the time or money to come for a visit not even when you are in the hospital.

When I die, don't come to my grave to tell me how much you love me and how much you miss me, because those are the words I want to hear while I'm still alive.

The last time I went to a funeral I couldn’t stop thinking that rather than saying all of those accolades after the person is gone, wouldn’t it be nice to have a big party while the person is still alive so he/she can hear those touching words & celebrate life!