When you leave certain people do you feel better or do you feel worse

" Not everyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in our lives. There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going-anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships around you. Pay attention. Which ones lift and which ones lean? Which ones encourage and which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill? When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse? Which ones always have drama or don't really understand, know, or appreciate you? The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you...the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life."

I have let them go, cut them out, don’t need these people they needed me to use and wipe their dirty feet on, when I was trying to help them they using me. No more, have taken off the rose colored glasses and seeing them for what their sweet smiles and words really are. ~ Jan Edmondson

How To Show You Care

To make a difference in someone’s life, you don’t have to be brilliant, rich, beautiful or perfect. You just have to care enough and BE THERE .

With fame, you can't trust everybody. You can't depend on them being there for you as a person. They will only be there because of what you've got you as a person. They will only be there because of what you've got and what you can bring to their life. It's not a relationship-it's a leech.~ Chris Brown

Good relationships feel good

“Do not bring people in your life who weigh you down. And trust your instincts ... good relationships feel good. They feel right. They don't hurt. They're not painful. That's not just with somebody you want to marry, but it's with the friends that you choose. It's with the people you surround yourselves with.”~ Michelle Obama

Just because someone is related to you, that doesn’t mean you have to keep them in your life. Sometimes you have to walk away from them too. ~ Jennifer McLean

A friend or a relationship should always be positive and supportive and not bring you down with negativity.