Nails In The Fence Story - A Lesson About Anger


There once was a young boy with a very bad temper.

The boy's father wanted to teach him a lesson, so he gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper he must hammer a nail into their wooden fence.

On the first day of this lesson, the little boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. He was really mad!

Over the course of the next few weeks, the little boy began to control his temper, so the number of nails that were hammered into the fence dramatically decreased.

It wasn't long before the little boy discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Then, the day finally came when the little boy didn't lose his temper even once, and he became so proud of himself, he couldn't wait to tell his father.

Pleased, his father suggested that he now pull out one nail for each day that he could hold his temper.

Several weeks went by and the day finally came when the young boy was able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.

Very gently, the father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.

"You have done very well, my son," he smiled, "but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same."

The little boy listened carefully as his father continued to speak.

"When you say things in anger, they leave permanent scars just like these. And no matter how many times you say you're sorry, the wounds will still be there.

Be careful with YOUR words.

25 Ways To Lose Weight Easier


HERE ARE 25 WAYS TO MAKE LOSING WEIGHT A BIT EASIER:

1. EAT AT HOME MORE FREQUENTLY

No medical degree is necessary to understand that fast food is detrimental to weight loss. Make the decision to eat and home and prepare accordingly.

2. WATCH ONE HOUR LESS OF TV

Television is a stationary activity; stationary equals inactivity; inactivity breeds weight gain. Omit one hour of TV and go for a walk instead.

3. MORE WATER AND LESS SODA

Soda and energy drinks are saturated with sugar, which is very counterproductive in losing weight. Drinking water eliminates toxins and speeds metabolism.

4. PLAN OUT AND WRITE DOWN MEALS EACH WEEK

“Failing to plan is planning to fail” when it comes to losing weight. Impulse eating is never a healthy choice, especially when trying to drop pounds.

5. EVALUATE EMOTIONS BEFORE DIGGING IN

Eating when nervous, depressed, frustrated or bored is a real thing. Food provides a temporary comfort that leaves behind only regret…and weight gain.

6. WALK UP AND DOWN STAIRS FOR 10 MINUTES

10 minutes a day walking up and down stairs can shed as much as 10 pounds a year. Leave the elevators to the lazy ones, Rocky.

7. RESIST THE URGE TO EAT FAST

When the stomach is full, it takes 20 minutes to signal this to the brain. Eating slowly and deliberately makes it easier to recognize when fullness kicks in.

8. CLOSE THE KITCHEN AFTER DINNER

Closed, as in no food is available after dinnertime. Late-night snacking is an easy way to rack up calories and gain undesirable weight.

9. RECYCLE CLOTHES THAT DON’T FIT

This is more of a motivational tool. When our “fat clothes” become too tight, make it a priority to give them away.

10. WALK 45 MINUTES A DAY

About that one hour of TV that was eliminated? Well, here’s a healthy and fulfilling alternative – 45 minutes of brisk walking each day is conducive to weight loss.

11. MAKE THE TRADITIONAL “NIGHT OUT” AN ACTIVE ONE

Instead of heading to a bar or restaurant, recharge by doing something active. Doesn’t mean it can’t be fun – check out tennis, racquetball, hiking, biking or walking the park.

12. GET A PEDOMETER

Pedometers are those neat (and cheap) little gadgets that monitor the number of paces walked. On average, people take 2,000 to 3,000 steps per day. Adding another 2,000 is beneficial for a healthy weight.

13. SET THE TABLE CONSERVATIVELY

Unsurprisingly, the more food we place on the table, the more we eat. Serve food mindfully and resist placing too much on each plate.

14. ORDER THE SMALLER PORTIONS

When eating out, opt for the smaller portions. Again, we eat less food when there’s less available.

15. LOAD THE PLATE UP WITH VEGETABLES

Vegetables are a great source of fiber – an important nutrient for feeling satiated. Split peas, black beans, lima beans, peas and broccoli are among the highest in fiber content.

16. LAY OFF WHITE FOODS

While low-carb diets have a tendency to go overboard, one of their basic tenets is true: white flour can cause weight gain. Opt for whole-grain bread and rice instead.

17. EAT A HEALTHY CEREAL FOR BREAKFAST

Five times a week, make cereal the breakfast food of choice. Different studies have shown that eating cereal at this proportion can help maintain a healthy weight.

18. SUBSTITUTE LOADED COFFEE FOR REGULAR

Okay, black coffee may not taste the best…actually its putrid (writer’s opinion). Lay off the fancy (sugar-laded) concoction and add some artificial sweetener and/or milk.

19. SNACK ON NUTS INSTEAD OF (INSERT FATTENING SNACK HERE)

Nuts are very healthy, especially when compared to cookies, cakes, etc. Nuts such as almonds contain healthy fats and fiber, which wards off hunger and stokes the metabolism.

20. DOWNGRADE MILK TYPE

Many of us love milk (raises hand), but it actually contains a good amount of calories. Actually, dropping down (2% to 1%, for example) can cut calories by as much as 20%.

21. EAT THE MAJORITY OF CALORIES BEFORE NOON

This really is simple, yet profound. Eating earlier in the day (1) decreases the likelihood of nighttime indulgence and (2) makes it easier to burn off calories during the day.

22. BRUSH TEETH AFTER EACH MEAL

Perhaps a tip for the hardcore, brushing after every meal signals to the body that mealtime is over.

23. EMBRACE THE HOT SAUCE

Hot sauce not only covers up that burnt meatloaf taste, it helps to rev the body’s digestive system. Most hot sauces are also low in calories.

24. EAT FOODS RICH IN WATER CONTENT

Soups, salads and vegetables such as tomatoes, zucchini and cucumber may help reduce calorie consumption.

25. DON’T GO OVERBOARD

Take losing weight seriously, but not too seriously. Remember to enjoy life and treat yourself on occasion. On occasion…