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Every day we have plenty of opportunities to get angry, stressed or offended. But what you're doing when you indulge these negative emotions is giving something outside yourself power over your happiness. You can choose to not let little things upset you. ~ Joel Osteen

God is not upset that Gandhi was not a Christian, because God is not a Christian! All of God's children and their different faiths help us to realize the immensity of God. ~ Desmond Tutu

When you're happy you don't always have to be laughing, and when you're sad you don't have to be crying; sometimes it's the opposite. You laugh when you're the most upset. ~ Freddie Highmore

I am sorry to upset my colleagues by saying we wasted four years in opposition, but if you do get so badly defeated as a party you do have to face up to some painful facts and you do have to change. ~ Kenneth Clarke

Don't do something permanently stupid just because you are temporarily upset.

Be careful not to hurt people


“Be careful not to hurt people, they can begin to love you less. The pain you cause can chisel their hearts, until there's nothing left.” ~ Brigitte Nicole

I really believe I've been a good person. Not perfect - forget about perfect - but just learning by what I was taught and living by my own values. I might have stepped on a few ants - and a few other things as well - but I've never hurt anybody. ~ Kiri Te Kanawa

Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them. ~ Dalai Lama

If someone decides they're not going to be happy, it's not your problem. You don't have to spend your time and energy trying to cheer up someone who has already decided to stay in a bad mood. Believe it or not, you can actually hurt people by playing into their self-pity. ~ Joyce Meyer

Truth is everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for. ~ Bob Marley

DON`T marry a rich man.


DON`T marry a rich man. Marry a good man. He will spend his life trying to keep you happy. No rich man can buy that.

I believe in soulmates, yes, but I believe you also have to work at love. I happen to believe your soulmate doesn't have to be your partner - your soulmate could be your best friend, your sibling, it doesn't have to be the person you marry. ~ Cheryl Cole

Men marry because they are tired; women, because they are curious; both are disappointed. ~ Oscar Wilde

The institution of marriage works better when there's a spiritual connection. If you're marrying just for the sake of the woman, then you may lose interest in each other very soon. When we marry in the interest of the Holy Spirit with the intention of serving God and humanity, then it gives a much larger perspective. ~ A. R. Rahman

Don't marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can't live without. ~ James Dobson