How to get right friends in your life?

Friends can help each other. A true friend is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself - and especially to feel. Or, not feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at the moment is fine with them. That's what real love amounts to - letting a person be what he really is. ~ Jim Morrison

A true friend freely, advises justly, assists readily, adventures boldly, takes all patiently, defends courageously, and continues a friend unchangeably. ~ William Penn

Some people say they want honesty but when you give it to them they get mad, hence it may not get you a lot of friends or it can make you lose some that can’t handle the plain truth because it’s so foreign to them. ~ Saundra Waycaster 

That’s why I’ve only had one true friend. You take your honesty with honor to your grave. It will be remembered even by those that scorned you for it. ~ Timothy Lavender 

Growth & Change is painful

'Growth is painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don't belong.' ~ Mandy Hale 

A person who truly loves you is someone who sees the pain in your eyes while everyone else believes in the smile on your face.

Pain changes people.

Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have - life itself. ~ Walter Anderson

It’s usually the deepest pain which empowers you to grow to your full potential. It’s the scary, stressful choices that end up being the most worthwhile. Without pain, there would be no change. But remember, pain, just like everything in life, is meant to be learned from and then released. ~ Amanuel Misganu

Dont waste time on people that leave you

In some cases you have to walk away maybe for your own self respect or dignity.

When someone walks out of your life, let them. There's no use in wasting your time on people that leave you. What you make of yourself and your future is no longer tied to them. Yeah, you may miss them. But remember that you weren't the one that gave up.

Leave your past and be ready for your future.

If you love life, don't waste time, for time is what life is made up of. ~ Bruce Lee

We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love. ~ Tom Robbins