When you really love someone

When you really love someone, age, distance, height, weight.. is just a damn number!

“We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter. Too much of the time, we are blinded by our own pursuits of people to love us, people that don't even matter, while all that time we waste and the people who do love us have to stand on the sidewalk and watch us beg in the streets! It's time to put an end to this. It's time for us to let ourselves be loved.” ~ C. JoyBell C.

If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If it does not come back, it was never meant to be.

I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

Those numbers don’t have to count if you have a strong relationship. Look at how many military families do it when there loved ones are gone. I have been there and the miles made us stronger because after being away from me (as a friend) for a long time we are finally working on being more, but he was still there when I needed him and the same for me. I can tell you that the man in my life is very supportive of me (I do not have the looks of a model or anything like that but I am not overweight either). He is a little over 2 years older then me. But when I tell him that I look “fat” or anything along those line he comes right back with “no you’re not” and if I proceed to push it with him (on one of my pms days) and ask him “why” he says that he replies “because your not fat and I Love you the way you are”. So yes I believe that weight doesn’t matter if the man truly loves you. ~ Nikki Plachinski

Sometimes it’s better to keep silent than to tell others what you feel

Sometimes it's better to keep silent than to tell others what you feel because it hurts badly when you come to know that they can hear you but can't understand.

“Sometimes” I personally feel you should never bottle your feelings inside. I mean never. However, take into full considering what the “others” are. I share my feelings with only whom I know I will be understood, but don’t risk sharing your feelings with people whom you may be misunderstood.

“It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool, than to talk and remove all doubt of it.” ~ Maurice Switzer

“Many times in life I've regretted the things I've said without thinking. But I've never regretted the things I said nearly as much as the words I left unspoken.” ~ Lisa Kleypas

It takes someone to go through the same thing you went through before they can understand. Telling your story is not asking for sympathy you just want to unload yourself of the burden you are carrying. Its not passing the burden to another human being but having a sounding board when you want someone to just have an ear, you are not asking for anything, sympathy,empathy or compassion. ~ Norma Powell

10 Signs Your Partner Is Cheating on You.

Recent studies show that over 50% of men and 50% of women cheat at some point in their relationship. With such alarming numbers, one may wonder if his/her mate is cheating. If you have a “gut” feeling that something is going on, chances are high that you could be correct. Here are the top ten signs to look for that might mean your partner is cheating:

1. She/He takes the cell phone everywhere. Taking the phone everywhere, including the bathroom, is a red flag. Doing so can help the cheating partner hide text messages or make secret calls. If your partner is attached at the hip to the cell phone there might be cause for alarm.

2. She/He always has a reason you cannot hang out or visit their living space. Not being able to visit, announced or otherwise, could mean there is something to hide. In the early stages of a relationship, this boundary is expected. But as time progresses and the boundary remains high, cheating might be the reason.