18 Ways to Communicate Better in Your Relationship

Effective communication is key to every successful relationship. Its important to communicate with your partner freely and in a manner easily understandable to both of you. Mentioned below are some steps to effective communication that can help you make your relationships flourish.

1. Spend time
When you spend time together make sure you do not just watch TV. Take out some time daily and spend it discussing what is happening in your life and if you need your partner’s support in any way. There are many creative ways to spend time with your partner, Date night is the first and popular one between couples, make this date like this is your first time dating your partner, write it down in your calendar and don’t forget to dress to impress.

2. Avoid ego
When you talk to your partner leave your ego outside the door. Carrying an egotistic attitude while talking to your partner will take you nowhere. Don’t take things personally and analyze the cause of problems for the benefit of your relationship. Look at the bigger picture and talk with your partner freely.

3. Don’t resent what’s unsaid
If you are not happy with something your partner did or said and you have not told them about it, you will see that behavior again. Tell your partner that you did not like what they did and look for alternatives that can avoid its reoccurrence.

4. Don’t focus on winning
When your are discussing something with your spouse, do not try to win the argument. Instead focus more on the solution and do not try too hard to prove your point.

5. Remain open to opinions
Its essential to understand that your partner is a different individual and has different thoughts and opinions. Keeping an “I AM ALWAYS RIGHT” attitude will not take the conversation anywhere.

Whether Male Or Female, Must Read

Whether Male Or Female, Must Read!!!

There was a man who loved his wife very much. The couple had 3 children.

He could give her everything he could but the woman never appreciated.

Though the man was not rich, but he could share all he had with her.

He could buy for her clothes and the only thing his wife could say was that the husband was fulfilling his duty as a Man.
The man would buy a dress but in reply, the woman would mock at him, because the dress was of low quality.
The man could smile at his wife and tell her
“One day, I will become rich and I will buy for you all the expensive things you need”The woman could never make any phone call unless she was requesting anything from her husband and once her request was not granted, all she could do was to quarrel for days, sometimes fight.

One evening, the man was coming from work, he bought a Kilogram of meat, happily the poor man expecting to surprise his wife, he reached home found the wife and showed her the package,

Then she shouted: “eh! And you call yourself a man? Which husband, apart from you, do you think comes home with just one kilogram, no cooking oil, and no any other ingredients? You better leave it, you’re a good-for-nothing husband.”
Then she threw the meat to the bush and went back home.

The Husband felt low but he never let down his love for her.

10 Sign She or He Is The Right Match For You

When in the dating world, it is hard to separate the good from the bad. In fact, most people spend a lot of their life trying to find “the one”. While some think it cannot be done, it is possible to find the right match. With these 10 signs, you can determine if an individual is the right match for you:

1- In common: When looking for companionship, it is obviously beneficial to have something in common. While it is easy to get along at first, it is easier when two people enjoy the same thing. In fact, this is more important than most realize as it is hard to remain a couple for a long time if both people have different things they enjoy.

2- Talk about the future: When dating, it is hard to plan for the future. On the other hand, when discussing a concert or other event in the future, a couple is probably on good terms when they do not flinch about talking about the future.

3- Friends: It is hard for a couple to go far when their friends don’t like each other. In fact, this is a huge test that people give to each other.

4- Talk in we: It is hard for two people to come together; it is hard for people to talk about their plans. However, when a couple talks about “we” they know that things are getting serious.