10 Marriage Tips From A Man’s Perspective

Getting married is a big leap for both you and your partner. It entails challenges unique to your new found relationship. Here are 10 marriage tips from the husband’s perspective.

#1 Never stop courting your wife. Majority of men only make the effort when they are courting women. Once they get the girl, they become passive in terms of making any effort. They take the relationship for granted until the fire eventually burns out.

#2 Be on your guard. Don’t just vow to protect your wife. You should also protect your own emotions with equal vigilance. Never forget to love yourself. Failure to do so will lead to missing opportunities and inability to grow as a person.

#3 Remember why you fell in love with her. Always remember the moments that led to your marriage. Change is constant. Together, you will face these changes and in a few years time, nothing will remain the same. If you deliberately practice falling in love with her, these changes will not affect your marriage.

#4 You are not responsible for fixing or changing your wife. If she has flaws, let her work on it. If she changes, adapt to the change and love her for it. Remember that you fell in love with her not because she’s perfect, but because you are able to love her despite the imperfections.

7 Warning Signs You Should Run Away From Your Relationship

Most of us get into relationships to feel loved and be happy, sometimes you may not realize your partner is becoming abusive. No one plans to get into an abusive relationship. Per statistics the average woman suffers 5-7 acts of violence before leaving the abuser. There are warning signs that can help you identify an abusive partner and a potentially abusive relationship. Here are a few:

• Your partner is too possessive
Feeling concerned and protective towards your partner is acceptable, however when your partner becomes too possessive of you it’s a sign of abusive behavior. If they call constantly to check up on you, visit often unexpectedly, or spy on you it may mean you’re in a potentially abusive relationship.

• Controlling
You are an individual with your own life, you are capable of making your own best decisions. If your partner tries to take control of your life and decisions that is a warning sign. This may include the need to ask permission before going anywhere, checking your call records, and frequent intense interrogation.

• Isolation
Another sign of an abusive partner is when he/she tries to isolate you, cutting you off from family and friends. They want you to only talk to them and expect that they should be the only thing on your mind 24*7. They may control the money, car, and phone to ensure they know what you’re doing.

• Verbal Abuse
If your partner talks to you in a disrespectful way, sometimes using profanity, it is a sign that you need to move on. Some signs are derogatory name calling, rudeness, vulgarity, and yelling.

Don't Copy, if you can't Paste

A famous inspirational speaker said :

" Best years of my life were spent in the arms of a woman, who wasn't my wife. "

Audience was in shock and silence.

He added : "She was my mother"

(A big round of pause & laughter)

A very daring husband tried to crack this at home.

After dinner, he said loudly to his wife in the kitchen :

" Best years of my life were spent in the arms of a woman, who wasn't my wife "

Standing for a moment, trying to recall the second line of that speaker.

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By the time he gained his senses,

he was on a hospital bed, recovering from burns of boiling water !!!

Moral : Don't Copy, if you can't Paste...