5 Things Successful Women Never Say

If you want to unlock the secret of successful women, you need to have the same positive mindset. It’s all about your attitude and it will come out in what you say, or more fittingly, what you don’t say. Pay close attention to the five things successful women never say.

“It isn’t my problem.”

A woman who is at the top of her game is not going to tell you that it isn’t her problem. When she is faced with a challenge, she rises to the occasion. The successful woman actually relishes the chance to sink her teeth into something difficult and overcome it, giving her an immense sense of satisfaction. The next time an ocean of trouble comes your way, build a boat.

“I can’t do it.”

Can’t is not in the vocabulary of the successful woman. She loves the line from that old song, “Anything you can do, I can do better. I can do anything better than you.” This kind of woman will not accept no for an answer or locked doors. She will find a way around a challenge, look for a key, and think outside the box.

“I don’t know what to do.”

If a successful woman doesn’t know how to do something or the answer to a question, she is going to find the answer. She’ll do the research, call the experts, or try trial and error. There will be no throwing her hands in the air and waving a white flag of surrender. She will figure it out.

15 Signs You’re An Option, NOT A Priority

No one wants to find that they are not a priority in their romantic relationships. It is a hard realization to come to, and many people tend to ignore the signs that they are not a priority by rationalizing them away. Indeed, some of these signs can be rationalized, but when a significant other is presenting with more than a few, it may be time to reassess the relationship. Here are fifteen signs that you’re an option in a relationship, not a priority:

1. The other person never wants to make plans in advance.

2. You make all the concessions in the relationship– if it can be called a relationship.

3. It feels like you’re always waiting on them, but they never wait on you– if you ask them to wait, they bail.

4. They are seeing other people and make it known that you are not the only one– or even the most important one.

5. All of your interaction happens behind closed doors: there are never date nights or outings.

6. When you get fed up, they reel you back in with sweet words and everything you want to hear, but then quickly return to old behaviors.

7. Your calls, texts, emails, Facebook messages, SnapChats, and so on all go unanswered. In this day and age, almost everyone is constantly attached to their phone– you know they saw it and chose not to respond.

You Can Never Win An Argument With A Negative Person

Everyone has moments of negativity. What is important is choosing how to get through those moments. If you are dealing with a negative person, it takes a strong person to showthem how to be positive. Although that’s not always possible. ~ Amy King 

Negative people only read the head lines and think at surface level. They allow their emotions to guide them convincing themselves of reality. 

Never argue with an idiot because they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

You can never win an argument with a negative person. They only hear what suits them and listen only to respond.