Conversation Between Boy And Girl After Break-up

She was sitting alone at the coffee shop. He had just walked in to get something too. And there he saw his ex girlfriend, sitting across the table sipping on coffee. Within a second, she saw him too. Their eyes met, and thousands of memories flashed by in a single millisecond. The days and nights of laughter, the heavenly times they spent together, the romantic moments, the bitter sweet fights and the long hours of constant talking that they did and finally that ugly night, when they had the biggest fight and couldn’t bear to be in the same room also. She packed her bags and left that day. It all flashed by in their minds. Gathering some strength, the guy walked towards her and sat opposite her on the same table. She looked at him with a blank expression, not knowing what to say, for it had been almost two months since they broke up and she didn’t know where he was in his life.

Finally the guy mustered up some courage and started speaking:

Guy – How are you?

Girl – I am fine. How are you doing? (Nervously)

Guy – I am fine too. It’s been a long time.

Girl – Yes, it indeed has. Hope life is treating you well.

Guy – Life has not been the same.

Girl – It has only become better, you mean? (Sarcastically)

Guy – Are you trying to hurt me?

Depression, anxiety and panic attacks are NOT a sign of weakness.

Depression, anxiety and panic attacks are NOT a sign of weakness. They are signs of having tried to remain strong for way too long. Did you know that 1 in 3 of us will go through this at some point in our lives? Show support that they are not alone.

“Anxiety is love's greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you. You want to save him, but you know he will strangle you with his panic.” ~ Anaïs Nin

“After all, what is happiness? Love, they tell me. But love doesn't bring and never has brought happiness. On the contrary, it's a constant state of anxiety, a battlefield; it's sleepless nights, asking ourselves all the time if we're doing the right thing. Real love is composed of ecstasy and agony.”~ Paulo Coelho

“Anxiety is the dizziness of freedom.” ~ Søren Kierkegaard

Admitting you suffer from any one of those disorders doesn’t mean you are weak but strong enough to realise you are never alone. There are always people willing to help, whether its through medication or having someone to talk to. ~ Kim Miller

If you haven’t experienced it you will never know how this feels & those who have not experienced it, don’t really empathize without you. So seek professional help & know that there is hope. Also pray & do not give up and don’t be ashamed, it could happen to any one. ~ Marianne Fernandez

If someone doesn’t care about losing you

Close one door and another (only then) opens; let go of the past in order to embrace the present/future. Let those people go mainly to make space for someone more appropriate and deserving. They are there even if you can’t see them right now. ~ David Wolfaardt 

Never lose yourself while trying to hold on to someone who doesn't care about losing you.

Move on and don’t put energy into wondering “how did this happen” or “why did this happen”! Those questions can be revisited after you begin taking care of yourself and are in a much better place “emotionally. ~ Charles Brown