Don't waste your time with explanations:

“Don't waste your time with explanations: people only hear what they want to hear.” ~ Paulo Coelho

“Don't waste your love on somebody, who doesn't value it.” ~ William Shakespeare

“It starts so young, and I'm angry about that. The garbage we're taught. About love, about what's "romantic." Look at so many of the so-called romantic figures in books and movies. Do we ever stop and think how many of them would cause serious and drastic unhappiness after The End? Why are sick and dangerous personality types so often shown a passionate and tragic and something to be longed for when those are the very ones you should run for your life from? Think about it. Heathcliff. Romeo. Don Juan. Jay Gatsby. Rochester. Mr. Darcy. From the rigid control freak in The Sound of Music to all the bad boys some woman goes running to the airport to catch in the last minute of every romantic comedy. She should let him leave. Your time is so valuable, and look at these guys--depressive and moody and violent and immature and self-centered. And what about the big daddy of them all, Prince Charming? What was his secret life? We dont know anything about him, other then he looks good and comes to the rescue.” ~ Deb Caletti

Be proud of yourself.

See how far you’ve come? Be proud of yourself. If nothing else, one day, you can look at someone straight in the eye and say: “But I lived through it and it made me who I am today.”

“be yourself- not your idea of what you think somebody else's idea of yourself should be.” ~ Henry David Thoreau

“Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” ~ George Bernard Shaw

“I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples.”~ Mother Teresa

Do you believe that there are no accidents in life?

Do you believe that there are no accidents in life? Everything happens for a reason. Every person we meet will have a role in our lives, be it big or small. Some will hurt, betray, and make us cry, to be become stronger. Some will teach us a lesson, not to change us, but for us to realize our mistakes, to help us grow, and make us a better person. And some would simply inspire and love us to make us happy.

Anything that happens in our lives is always for a purpose. If you take it positively, you’ll benefit from it, but if you take the vice versa, it’ll break you.

No matter what happens to you in life, you control how you feel and react to things.