Some people in your family will come miles to bury you, but won't even cross a street to come support you when you are alive.
They will drive miles to show up for the memorial service if there is going to be an audience and they will drive the same miles to come get things they want, but never have the time or money to come for a visit not even when you are in the hospital.
When I die, don't come to my grave to tell me how much you love me and how much you miss me, because those are the words I want to hear while I'm still alive.
The last time I went to a funeral I couldn’t stop thinking that rather than saying all of those accolades after the person is gone, wouldn’t it be nice to have a big party while the person is still alive so he/she can hear those touching words & celebrate life!
The way I look at it if you can not come see me when I am alive then don't come see me when I am dead.