A strong Man can handle a strong Woman

Strong is the opposite of weak. In terms of a strong man and strong woman it’s talking about being emotionally strong. Emotionally strong people are confident, happy and optimistic people. Handle means, to deal with or understand. So in other words a confident, happy and optimistic man can understand a confident, happy and optimistic woman. Wouldn’t you agree? Now to the second part, A weak man meaning, an insecure, miserable and pessimistic man will say that a confident, happy and optimistic woman has an attitude. An attitude means, she has a settled way of thinking or feeling about someone or something, typically one that is reflected in a person’s behavior. Why? Because a strong woman does not think the same way as a weak man does. They are opposites so they will counteract each other. Naturally a strong woman that is again confident, happy and optimistic wants to help the weak man become a strong man and by doing so the weak man thinks negatively and does not see that, which in turn makes him feel more insecure then becomes defensive and thinks negative of the strong woman and he feels like she’s giving him an attitude. This can go both ways too. A weak woman can perceive a strong man as having an attitude as well. Really doesn’t matter the sex. Depending on your experiences and if you are a weak minded or strong minded person you will all perceive this in two different ways. Just like a weak minded person will think the word handle means to control and a strong minded person will see that the word handle means to understand. Realistically, there is no right or wrong, again its all a matter of perception. ~ Melissa Hope 

“When in a relationship, a real man doesn't make his woman jealous of others, he makes others jealous of his woman.” ~ Steve Maraboli