Why some people are not open to everyone?

I'm not open to many people. I'm usually quiet and I don't really like attention. So if I like you enough to show you the real me, you must be very special.

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being a reserved quiet person who is not attention seeking. Personally, I certainly wait until I feel I am with a trusted like-minded person before I reveal what I’m all about. That is not being fake, that is being smart. Close friendships take time and need to be earned with mutual trust and respect. ~ Brigitte Nicole

When you can be your true self, flaws, mistakes, weaknesses and all & share those with a special person and they still love you, that is true unconditional love. ~ Sheila Bobo